Who can give my younger brother some advice about the engagement custom in Jimo, Shandong? What should I prepare? It's better to be local, and you don't need to paste it from the internet.

Three golds: rings, necklaces and earrings

Gift money: one thousandth or one thousandth: one thousand one hundred yuan or one thousand one hundred.

Six things, six things: six things need six things (details are as follows)

The following is the detailed process, but now I don't pay much attention to it:

1, the man should go to the woman's house before 1 1.

Give the gift money to the woman's mother when she enters the door.

Gift money: new money (wrapped in red cloth)

Return the gift money: when the man leaves, he can return the money that the woman's father bought for his son-in-law.

3, the man prepared six kinds of six:

(1) Six pounds of meat: cut once and never return.

(2) Six kilograms of snacks: one kilogram, one * * * six bags, and two kilograms (whatever).

(3) Six Jin of sugar: one Jin, one * * * six bags, and two Jin (whatever)

(4) Six bottles of wine: two bottles of white wine, two bottles of red wine and two bottles of health wine (whatever).

(5) Six bags of vermicelli: two for one bag and two for return.

(6) Six pieces of yellow croaker with the same weight: make an appointment with the seller in advance and return two pieces.

4, the woman's home: prepare fruits and tea, put them on the table first, and wait for the man's family to come; After the man's family came, the woman's mother put red paper on the small plate prepared in advance, and put some sugar and snacks brought by the man's family on the small plate and put them on the table for everyone to eat together. The family should be decorated in a festive way, especially the girls' rooms.

5, sit down for a while, go to the hotel for dinner, the woman please (book a room in advance)

6. A la carte: Eight or twelve should have chicken, meat, fish and tofu.

7. Change your mouth when serving tea. The man changes first, the woman changes, and the fee is changed.

Change fee: 1200 or 800, not 1000.

The woman should not be taller than the man, but as much, new money (wrapped in a red envelope).

8. Finally, serve shredded pork noodles, no rice, no steamed bread.

9. Go back to the woman's house for a while, and then the man left with the returned things and gifts.

After the engagement is completed, the two parties will start to prepare for the wedding according to the wedding date, but it is best not to delay the wedding for too long, and half a year is better.