Hotel queen released

The foul wine culture will cool down as soon as possible,

No matter how fine the water drops are, they will eventually become huge waves.

Don't let Japanese shame spread in China.

Everyone must have known about Ali P7' s alleged sexual assault on female subordinates in the last week.

The woman was helpless and handed out leaflets in the company cafeteria, hoping to get justice.

Under the pressure of public opinion, Ali finally made a deal:

The company president and HRG resigned, and the suspicious male employee was fired and never hired again.

Look at the long articles published by the female client at that time, almost every paragraph makes people angry.

Forced to travel in typhoon days, or condemned by leaders in various private conversations.

When I was on a business trip, I emphasized to the merchants that the woman had a particularly good capacity for alcohol, and then advised her to drink in the name of various high-sounding jobs. Finally, the woman was drunk and unconscious.

When she woke up, the woman found herself naked and vaguely remembered being bullied by a man the night before.

What makes people even more angry and scared is that the other party seems to be an old hand and took away underwear and condoms that can be used as evidence.

Later, the woman found in the monitoring that after the male boss sent her to the hotel, he secretly set up a room card at the front desk and entered her room four times.

After the woman called the police and informed the superior Forrest Gump of the situation of the party, the other party replied to her perfunctorily, saying that she knew something was going to happen. "It has begun to consciously recruit only boys and not girls."

A female employee of a company was sexually assaulted by a male boss, and the reaction of the superior leader turned out to be that there were no more female employees?

What happened to the girl Ali, while making people angry, is hard not to make people fear-

Colleagues who meet and work together every day are animals with ulterior motives when they are drunk.

Compared with big stars like Wu Yifan and Henry, the experience of ordinary people is even more frightening.

We hope that the female client will get justice as soon as possible and the perpetrators will be punished as soon as possible.

And her experience, it is hard not to remind people of Ito Shiori who had the same experience.

Today, we will talk about this documentary about the encounter of Ito Shiori-

Japan's shame

Japan's Secret Shame

As early as 20 13, Ito Shiori studied in new york, majoring in journalism.

I met a colleague's senior, and Yamaguchi respected him very much.

This senior is not an ordinary person. At that time, he was the president of Tokyo Broadcasting Corporation's Washington branch. At the same time, he is also the biographer of Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe, and is widely known for his close relationship with Abe.

Think about it, knowing such a big boss will definitely be good for you to go back to work.

This senior also looks very approachable, without any airs. Instead, he told Shiori Ito that if he needed help in the future, he could contact him.

So when I returned to China in March, 20 15, Ito, Shiori, sent an email to the other party with a try, asking whether to recruit interns in Washington.

Unexpectedly, the other party not only responded enthusiastically to her, but also said that there was a producer position here and asked Ito Shiori if he was interested.

Who wants to miss such a rare opportunity?

Therefore, in the face of Yamaguchi's proposal to meet in Tokyo next month, she didn't think much-what does it matter if the seniors interview themselves?

At the appointed place, many people, Yamaguchi, had eaten and drank, but told Shiori that he was not going to have dinner with her here.

So, after drinking the remaining glasses of wine, Yamaguchi took her to a sushi restaurant.

When we arrived at a sushi restaurant with few people, the other party began to urge wine. The drunken Ito Shiori offered to go home.

They got on the bus together, and then the taxi driver testified that Shiori repeatedly asked Yamaguchi to take her to the station because she wanted to go home by car.

But Yamaguchi insisted on going to the booked hotel room because they had work to talk about.

The woman was almost drunk and unconscious. What can we talk about?

Persuade alcohol-get drunk and lose your autonomy-is it a bit familiar to take it to the hotel by force?

In the evening, Ito Shiori woke up in pain and found herself in a hotel room, but she didn't know how she got there, so she had already drunk the previous footage.

Ito Shiori, who recovered slightly, intended to leave the hotel immediately, but was pushed back to bed by Yamaguchi. Even if she resists desperately, prays in Japanese and curses each other in English, it is also the beast of Yamaguchi.

What is rape? It is not the beginning of love in Bazong's novels, but as Ito Shiori wrote in his autobiography:

"Rape is the killing of one's soul."

After being insulted, Ito Shiori was still in a daze, but got the other party's reply:

"You passed."

You think you were abused and raped by powerful people, but the other party thinks you are trading your body for a job.

Shame, fear, anger.

Therefore, five days after the sexual assault, Ito Shiori went to the police station.

In addition, Ito Shiori suspected that he had been drugged that day, but he could not obtain evidence.

She restored the scene of the police station, which is another humiliating memory, and this is also the familiar second rape.

It is difficult to obtain evidence, and Ito Shiori is even more painful about the experience of being raped.

The perpetrator Yamaguchi even said: "If you want to resort to the law, go ahead. You can't win. "

After the public outcry, Yamaguchi actually said in an interview that Ito Shi was brought back to the hotel to rest out of kindness and could not bear to leave her at the station.

Then who got that woman drunk?

Who asked each other out to talk at night?

The reporting rate of rape in Japan is much lower than that in Europe and America.

Is it because Japan's public security is better than other countries?

No, it's Japan's shame culture, which makes women afraid to speak out and report sexual assault.

Even Japanese society feels that "violence against women is not a serious social problem".

Even in Japanese culture, "refusal is consent".

Others say why women don't try to resist when they are sexually assaulted?

In fact, in addition to the disparity in strength, many victims will be at a loss when attacked.

Why criticize the perfect victim instead of investigating the perpetrator's fault?

At that time, Japanese laws on rape were outdated, which became an obstacle to Ito Shiori's revenge.

Because of the relevant DNA, the police collected the suspicion of Yamaguchi.

Unfortunately, shortly after the arrest warrant was issued, Nakamura, then the criminal police minister of the Tokyo Metropolitan Police Department, ordered the cancellation of the arrest warrant against Yamaguchi. Obviously, it was the invisible hand behind the mountain pass that helped the mountain pass stop the arrest.

As an ordinary woman who can't be ordinary, but still faces injustice after being violated, Ito Shiori chose the larger foe to make her experience public:

"The roars of people with power and titles, even if ignored, will resound through the world. However, those weak and small voices are different, and they cannot reach the ears of the people or the world. "

This has become a new nightmare for Ito Shiori.

It is not the first time that the Japanese public has sided with this unfortunate girl. Instead, they asked her why she didn't refuse to drink, why she drank, and why she lost her memory.

Others maliciously speculate that she gains benefits by sleeping with others.

Think about this Ali incident. The woman's client was rumored to have a lover relationship with the male boss, and she was also searched for personal revenge.

How similar it is to stigmatize the parties.

Some people even maliciously drew this matter into a cartoon, saying, "Please be careful to fall into the trap of such women."

To put it bluntly, these people's ideas are the same as using their positions to block ITO Shiori's mouth.

But is it really Ito Shiori's fault?

Is it because she is a rookie and wants to get the job she wants?

Did she eat and drink with her ex for work?

Was she drunk and didn't take the bus home?

No, it's not her who is wrong, but the person wearing colored glasses behind Yamaguchi and Yamaguchi.

As Ito Shiori showed in the documentary, she is just a drop of water, which may not change anything, but more people have been violated like her, but choose to stand up strongly. Such forces will eventually lead to a tsunami and reduce such crimes.

In 20 17, Japan's first foundation to support victims of sexual crimes was established, and the government funded the foundation for one million pounds.

In addition, "rape crisis centers" have been set up in 4 1 region, so that victims can report and collect evidence after being sexually assaulted without being humiliated in front of Ito Shiori.

20 19 12 18, ITO Shiori finally waited for the late justice:

Defendant Natsuo Yamaguchi was fined 3.3 million yen (about 2 1. 1.60 million RMB).

It has been four years since the case of 20 15 occurred.

This kind of justice is the strength of Ito Shiori and countless supporters, and it is also the help of those who resist pressure and protect their beliefs.

As Shiori Ito said, "I don't think time will cure our pain. We just need to face the pain slowly and patiently and get along with it. Don't need any reluctance. "

After suffering misfortune, "the soul is still healing bit by bit, and as long as it is alive, it can slowly find itself." People have the ability to recover. Everyone has his own method of' rejuvenation'. "

Women should not regard this as a lifelong shame after their misfortune, but believe that it is the other person's fault. What we need to do is to speak out about justice and find ourselves again.

I hope that social awareness will continue to improve, and such incidents will be less seen in social news. I also hope that Ali can get a fair answer as soon as possible.