China's traditional courtship etiquette.

1, time schedule: In China, the time for proposing marriage is usually around 5: 30 pm;

2, the woman's reception: arrive at the woman's home, briefly explain the purpose, communicate and understand the family situation, and the parents of both sides do a simple understanding; (It should be noted here that since it is the first time for both parents to meet, it is inevitable that they will be a little nervous and embarrassed. At this time, the two children should actively and enthusiastically play the role of regulating the atmosphere. Don't embarrass both parents and make the whole proposal look cold! )

3. Meal preparation: It usually takes about an hour to chat at home, and the woman's family will start inviting relatives to dinner. If you are going to a restaurant, you need to prepare in advance. If you are preparing at home, it is similar. Grasp the time, chatting on the wine table will generally be more open.

4. Dinner: Generally, dinner starts at around 6: 30, and you can get to know each other better during the meal. The parents of the man give the bride price money to the woman; Don't just eat, the man should always pay attention to the woman's parents, add food and tea for them and take care of his girlfriend. If you serve food slowly in a hotel, you should know how to hurry, ask for napkins in time, and be the host! Finally, take the initiative to check out when you are almost finished, haha. )

5. Send the man away for betrothal: After dinner, the man will leave after sitting for half an hour. At this time, the woman must get up and say goodbye together to show her sincerity.

Second, the rules of marriage proposal.

1, pay attention to the appearance of clothes: when proposing, the clothes must be reasonably matched and the appearance should be neat and clean.

2, don't be empty-handed: when you go to the woman's house to propose, you must bring some small gifts. This is not only a courtesy, but also a respect for the woman's elders. Maybe they will be polite to you, but in fact they are very happy.

Smile: Your face should be full of spring breeze to show your sincerity and attitude.

4. Show respect: All requirements put forward by the woman's family shall be handled according to their regulations as far as possible to show respect. Don't be impulsive and freeze the atmosphere.

5. Be punctual for appointments: Never be late. Say the important things three times. But if you are really late because of force majeure, you must call the woman's home as soon as possible.

Third, the process from proposal to marriage

1, propose

If a relative is proposed, it is best to be accompanied by both parents and briefly explain the family situation. In order to show respect for the woman, it is also necessary to prepare gifts and gifts in advance. In this process, the man must take the initiative, such as pouring tea and water for the elderly or elders at home.

Step 2 date

After the successful proposal, both men and women are ready to get engaged. The two sides chose an auspicious day, gathered friends and relatives, and announced that the two families had a good relationship with Qin and Jin. In addition, the engaged party has to determine the specific wedding date and some details of the bride price.

Step 3 prepare for the wedding

After the engagement, the two sides will begin to prepare for the wedding planning. The man needs to prepare the wedding room, bride price, engagement party hotel, wedding company, etc. And the woman also needs to prepare dowry and dowry for her daughter. During this period, the two prospective couples need to take wedding photos, get marriage certificates, buy jewelry, buy dresses, send invitations and a series of trivial things.

Step 4 hold a wedding banquet

Preparations for the wedding have been completed. On the day of the wedding reception, the couple completed the most important thing in their lives under the witness of many relatives and friends, and accepted their blessings.