What should we pay attention to from love to marriage?

1, the greater the gap between family conditions, the more you should make it clear and prepare early. It's not that you don't pay attention to anything. In this matter, the woman's family is very relaxed.

Anyway, my family has everything, and I don't have too many requirements for the man's family. I guess when young couples talk about marriage, they think very simply;

The woman's family conditions are also good, and the man's family does not need too much pressure. Marriage should be carried out happily and smoothly;

In fact, at this point, I didn't communicate with my family in advance, and my boyfriend didn't know what his parents meant.

2. Love can be romantic, but marriage must be realistic;

The principle of reciprocity determines that the more equal two people who love each other are in appearance, material, family background, education, character and personality, the more stable their feelings are.

No one is against the overbearing president falling in love with you, or the diaosi meets the white, but the real problems brought by real life are beyond your power. After all, it's not TV.

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Once you have a plan to get married, you should contact the other person's family of origin as soon as possible.

Many people go out to work and meet their girlfriends. Even if I see my parents, I only see them once a year. In fact, they may have only met once or twice before marriage.

This kind of contact time, how can you know what kind of people the other parents are? How do you know if your parents' opinions are good or bad?

China's tradition of modesty and courtesy keeps us from expressing our opinions about others, so that in the end, when we send a message, we are embellished and transformed.

Just like the boyfriend of the subject, I don't believe that his mother didn't express her dissatisfaction with the subject or the marriage, but why did she get along for four years, or in the environment of a small city, the subject didn't understand her future mother-in-law's true view of herself?

In many places, to marry a person is to marry a family. Although the young couple are promised to live alone, they will always encounter many problems. The man's parents are always too old to walk. Will they still live alone?

So are you sure you don't know each other's parents and other family members beforehand?

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When parents meet, they must wait until all aspects are settled. How to reconcile? You and your partner are microphones;

When are you getting married? How much is the bride price? Are there any other special customs? A series of questions, etc., suggest that they discuss it with their parents;

Even if it is not accurate, the basic situation should be acceptable, just like the subject's boyfriend wants to get married at the end of the year, and the woman thinks it is too early. If the communication is good in advance, the woman's dissatisfaction will be less;

In other words, the man's family is thinking of giving a bride price of 80,000 yuan, while the woman is thinking of 1.5 million yuan. What do you think, if we wait until our parents meet? Can we talk together?

If it is a long-distance marriage, it is necessary to know all the customs and requirements of men and women before meeting, so that parents can know fairly well.

To put it bluntly, parents of both men and women meet to enhance their relationship. It's not that the whole negotiating table finally alienated the relationship because it was not settled. Once parents have estrangement, it is difficult for the young couple to remedy it;

On the issue of marriage, asking for your own opinion is like letting your boyfriend know that your girlfriend is far away, but when you have differences with your parents, you don't stand on your girlfriend's side, giving people a sense of security;

At the beginning, before my daughter-in-law married my family, I greeted all my relatives and friends. She was right when she was wrong. If she is wrong, it is my fault. Find me. My wife is from Zhanjiang and I am from Sichuan.

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6. Don't bring the mood of quarreling with your partner to your parents, especially girls. Even if it is a small quarrel, let parents know. Do you think they can safely marry you to your partner? I am worried about whether I am doing well;

7. Regarding the communication between the two parties, the bad news is communicated with your family, and the good news is communicated with your family;

Many people reverse the order and directly express their opinions or dissatisfaction with their families, as if to give the other parents a look that I am not good at bullying;

A smart person is that no matter what your parents do to me, I will do what I should, but I will definitely let the object communicate with my parents and do a good job;

In addition: there are many things that need to be communicated and negotiated in marriage. Although things are special, the problems that have occurred are no different;

Don't always exaggerate some small things. Solving a problem is to solve it through transparent consultation, or to make the big things small and trivial.

Don't be influenced by some opinions every day, such as giving less red envelopes means you don't like it, what my mother-in-law does is bully me, and my boyfriend wants me to apologize to his mother to protect her.

They are all adults. I understand that every girl wants to be spoiled as a princess, but the key problem is that there is only one throne, but there are so many princes.

The pictures and texts come from the official account of WeChat: Lighthouse No.3.

Self-centered, always seeing other people's faults. Even when describing it, I feel that I have no problem, just like the topic. I don't see any advantages in boys, but I have been in love for four years.