At the age of 22, I became a mistress, and when I went to bed, I found him married.

This is the story of a young girl, 22 years old, who became a mistress because of her youth and ignorance.

Here, Sister Zhijie really wants to remind girls that when looking for a boyfriend, they must know the background of a man, don't trust his sweet words easily, and don't sleep with a man easily without knowing anything.

Fan narration

Sister Zhi, I was cheated by a man, and I really want to die recently! Really love a man, want to marry him, give him everything and find that he has a wife and children. What should I do?

I met him when chatting online, and I didn't like him at that time. I just thought he was funny, so I started talking. He said that he is 28 years old and works in an advertising company. I was 22 years old and just a sophomore.

I didn't think about online dating, and I didn't take him as my boyfriend. Instead, he asked me to be caring and attentive every day. When chatting, he always told me to go to bed early and said good night to me. At first, I thought everyone was a netizen and didn't care. Later, we talked a lot, everyone told me their own things, and then he said he would chase me. I said online dating is not reliable, forget it.

Unexpectedly, he really started chasing me, giving me snacks, buying cosmetics, and sometimes we video chat, as if we really fell in love. During that time, I was also very happy. Although we didn't really meet, I think it's good that they chat like this every day and occasionally open videos.

On holidays, he will give me a gift. He gave me a bag when it was the most expensive. My roommate said that the bag was quite expensive, and I was a little embarrassed to accept it. But he said that since he was chasing me, he had to take action. To tell you the truth, Zhijie, I may have been a little erratic.

The real meeting is six months later. He said he just came to my house on business, just in time to meet. I think we've talked for so long, so let's meet. When we met, I found that he had good taste in clothes, which was different from the boys around me. He is a very careful person. He took me to dinner, went shopping and bought me a lot of things, so that I could take good care of myself. He will come to see me again when he is free.

After that, we continued to chat online and open videos. He said he missed me very much and wanted me to be his girlfriend. I agreed.

Summer vacation is coming, and he invited me to visit him, saying that he just had three days off and could accompany me, so I went. After I went, he booked a hotel for me and took me to dinner. That's when we had sex. He was shocked that I was a virgin and said that he would cherish me.

However, in the evening, he said that the company was in a hurry and had to go back. The next day, he stayed with me during the day and went home at night. He was careful when he answered the phone, saying that he was in a meeting with his colleagues. This makes me very puzzled. Isn't it just to spend time with me?

I asked him why he said he was with his colleagues. He said it was not easy to have a holiday, and many friends wanted to ask him out for a drink. He is forgetful, otherwise he can't accompany me. I am very touched. Now think about it, how stupid I was.

Later, when I went back, our relationship was still maintained. Sometimes, he comes to see me at school, but he always asks me for a room to sleep in, and then he goes back.

I think this relationship is a bit abnormal. Isn't it normal to meet female ticket friends? He doesn't introduce me on any occasion, and he doesn't want to meet my friends.

Finally, one day, a woman called me, scolded me, called me mistress and called me shameless. I was at a loss. I never wanted to be a mistress. Later, I learned that he was over 30 years old and his child was two years old. Everything is a scam. He chased me just to seduce me.

I questioned him and asked him why he lied to me. He said that he loved me very much and was willing to divorce me and marry me after I graduated.

I asked him what to do with his children's wives. He said that his marriage had already gone wrong, and it wouldn't be difficult for me to give the child to the woman. As long as I am willing to continue to follow him, he is willing to drop everything.

Until now, Zhijie, we are still not clean. I know I have destroyed other people's families, and I am shameless, but I really love him. I think he is mature, tasteful and takes care of me. I just haven't divorced his wife yet, but he promised to divorce his wife as soon as possible.

I didn't tell my parents about it, nor did I tell any friends about it. I'm afraid they will look down on me. I sometimes look down on myself and feel that I am really poor, but I can't let go. I even thought that if he didn't get a divorce, he would live like this all his life. As long as he is kind to me, willing to love me and divorced, I will marry him, even if he is the stepmother of the child.

But sometimes, I think it's wrong to do so. I can't destroy a family. I can't give my life to such a person. I want to make a clean break, but I still can't bear it. When I love him, he has no family, so sometimes I hate him very much. Why did he lie to me? Makes me a mistress.

Having said that, I haven't decided yet. Sister Zhi, what do you think I should do?

During the chat, the girls kept asking me: Sister Zhi, do you think people like me are particularly bad? I know I destroyed other people's families, but I just don't want to let go.

I know she is wrong, because she destroyed other people's families and became a shameless mistress.

But looking back, when she fell in love, she didn't know that the man was married. She thinks she likes a single man who can get married.

It's just that she is too young to know that some men in this world are always lying in sheep's clothing.

Therefore, if it is bad, the man who lied to her is even worse.

She said that she didn't want to let go because she liked it, and she was unwilling. This man is her first love. In her best years, she met him and gave him everything. She hates him for lying to him, but she hopes he can give herself an explanation.

I told her that this man probably couldn't give her any explanation, because at the beginning of chasing her, the motive was obviously impure. Men don't come for love, because they come for love. First of all, they should be sincere. Men cheat guns, and there is no passion in marriage. Find a young girl to ease their sexual impulses.

Some people say that young girls nowadays are too gullible. An expensive bag and a set of cosmetics can trick a girl into bed.

Indeed, most girls who just went to college are inexperienced, thinking that meeting a man who is good to them means finding a lover, but when enjoying the material, they forget to really understand the motivation behind the man.

There are many such examples, and almost many girls have been cheated.

Finally, I advised her to leave and let go, even if she didn't want to, because she was still young, and a married man was not worth spending her youth.

She asked me if this man loved him.

I said, it doesn't matter whether you love or not now. The important thing is that he is not the right person. The truly right person will not lie to you by hiding his background from the beginning, nor will he give you a hopeless promise, nor will he make you a shady third party.

I don't know if she will listen to me, but I really hope she can reflect and start over. After all, she is only 22 years old and has a bright future.

I hope that the majority of women can take a warning and not trust others too easily. Remember, sometimes men's sweet words are not honey, but also sugar-coated shells.

I'm Zhijie. If you have a story, I'm willing to listen as long as you want to tell it.