Why do some areas in Jiangsu and Zhejiang marry their wives in the afternoon and the wedding banquet is held in the evening?

Maybe the customs are different. I am from Hubei, my son works in Yiwu, and my daughter-in-law is from Yiwu.

On the first day of my son's wedding, I invited my in-laws to dinner, and they introduced the local customs. He said that the local villages began to pick up their wives before dawn.

The son picks up his daughter-in-law at eight in the morning, and his cousin or brother gets on the bus. Moreover, my uncle led more than twenty people to escort him to his new home.

Arrange dinner for the bride's family guests in the hotel at noon and hold a wedding reception in a five-star hotel at night.

At two o'clock in the afternoon, we arrived at the banquet hall of the wedding hotel and accepted the rehearsal of the master of ceremonies.

Zhejiang wedding banquet is very humanized. First, a dozen cold dishes. As long as the guests at this table are full, they can eat. After all the guests arrive, hot dishes are served together. Unlike our guests in Hubei, the host didn't eat until after he finished, and he was hungry until late.

There is also a good custom in Zhejiang. When a family comes to congratulate, they just need to send a small red envelope, unlike our big gift package in Hubei. Zhejiang people are enlightened, so they can become a strong economic province.

Now the grandson is over three years old. I am very grateful to my in-laws and family for their concern and care for my son and grandson. I want to take this opportunity to thank you for your hard work.

Local customs are different, when in Rome, do as the Romans do.

Our custom here is to entertain relatives and friends at noon and have a new house at night.

When you get married. There is no limit to the amount of gift money. Even if a beggar comes, he will be invited to sit down, regardless of age. Even guests outside can sit down, but guests who don't know can't receive the gift money when they sit down. Marriage, regardless of wealth, focuses on participation, for fun, not for gifts.

Our custom here is that weddings, funerals and weddings are all the same, not for the purpose of receiving gifts. Taking this opportunity, relatives and friends can get together, chat and talk about their families, which is the biggest purpose.

Go out early and come back late, forever and ever.

Taizhou is like this. Generally, the woman's wedding is at noon and the man's wedding is at night. This is more convenient, there will be no time conflict, and all aspects of the processing time are relatively long. Of course, there are also hotels now, and there are many men and women mixed together. As far as I know, in Taizhou, in general, the man will bring pigs, cigarettes, wine, drinks and sugar in the morning, and the groom will usually bring several bodyguards (among his friends) and be a bartender. ), I eat at the woman's house at noon, and then the man's friends will come to pick up my relatives. On my side, the groom can't go there. Most of them are friends who pick up the bride, friends of the bride, bridesmaids (older), and then the parents of the bride come over for dinner in the evening. The procedure is similar, because I used to be the groom's bodyguard, and it's probably similar. .

In ancient times, weddings were held at night (the sun went down), and at dusk, women married men! Ancient rites follow Jiangsu and Zhejiang!

In our Jiangsu area, the wedding banquet is arranged in the evening. Now, there is a man and a woman doing it together. In the same place, in the same restaurant, at the same time, in the afternoon, before sunset, the matchmaker took the bride away and gave it to the man. Then, under the guidance of the matchmaker, the bride went straight to the hotel to prepare for a grand wedding. It is not good to hold a wedding banquet at night, which has become a fashion and a rule.

Jiangsu and Zhejiang include northern Jiangsu.

I remember when my daughter got married in Suqian, Jiangsu Province, the son-in-law took half a pig and a big fish by car in the afternoon and went to the woman's house with a box, saying that it was cold meat and hot exchange meat. The woman should try to keep her daughter as late as possible, which means staying a little longer is just a little while.

I am at the junction of two provinces. In Shandong, north, I don't want that man to marry my daughter. I just want men to provide a wedding convoy. Arrive at the man's house on time on the first afternoon 10. All the relatives and friends who came here had seen the wedding before they were seated. At the wedding banquet, I have to meet the new people before I can sit down. In Jiangsu, one step away, you don't have to wait for the couple to arrive, you can open the table first.

If someone asks what a new wife looks like, I think Shandong must have a say, and Jiangsu may not even know what a new wife looks like. It is said that if the daughter stays a little longer, whoever sends her out earlier may be laughed at for not hurting her daughter.

No way, each has its own customs and reasons. Shandong pays attention to auspicious days, while Jiangsu pays attention to kinship.

Actually, they should have got married at night. It turned out to be this "faint", which means that at dusk, my mother said that they would get married at night. I'm from Chongqing, and I don't know why I got married at noon now [laughing and crying].

This is the authentic wedding time. You enter the house in the afternoon, have a banquet in the evening, and then enter the bridal chamber. Unlike other places, change it to noon. Do they enter the bridal chamber in the afternoon? It's ridiculous.

Marriage is to be light.

Weddings at dusk.