I found that my husband Meituan Hotel was suspected of having an affair. What should I do if I want to divorce?

Engaged in marriage counseling for more than 2 years. I've seen too many examples like you. Let me tell you the wisest thing to do, which is what most women do in the end:

Find a private detective company, both formal and fraudulent. Find a formal home, and others will directly give you hard evidence of your husband's infidelity, so that you will have an absolute advantage when you go to court for property.

If the price of this service in your place is very expensive, you should be careful and take photos yourself. If necessary, ask relatives for help directly, kick the door of the hotel and catch him in bed. Be sure to remember to take photos of them together, and don't be too sad. The premise of this approach is: don't let your husband suspect that you are starting to get evidence, or even deliberately set a trap to give him the opportunity to be with that woman, don't quarrel with him, and try to let him relax his vigilance.

And don't forget to keep the guarantee for you! ! ! That's hard evidence, too

When you get the evidence, you can start to liquidate your assets, deposits, real estate, automobile production and a series of things that can be exchanged for money. Then buy a recording pen and talk to him. The purpose is to make him admit that there are so many assets at home ~ there are no debts outside. If he says he has debts, then delete the part behind the recording, because the debts are to be paid by both of you, which means that your is short of money. If he says there is no debt, you should keep the recording so as not to tell you that the house was bought by borrowing money, what the borrowing money is, and how much money is still missing when dividing the property in the future.

With the recording, there is evidence. You have the initiative.

You talk to him about the divorce first. Be sure to let him know that you have made up your mind and stood firm, so that he will not talk to you again and beg for your forgiveness. Don't say you have evidence. After all, it's a fight between husband and wife. Don't be so stiff ~ If it's negotiated, just sign a divorce, which is convenient and simple. If he resists and finally goes to court, you can find a lawyer, and all lawyers will treat you conservatively, and you will also get children, accounting for 60-70% of the total assets. If the lawyer plays well, he can get more (for example, the judge thinks that your husband only occasionally has extramarital sex, so it is lighter. If the judge thinks it's an extramarital affair, which seriously affects your life and hurts you, it's even heavier. If you are sure that your husband has run away from home, cohabited with that woman, or even had children, the heaviest sentence can be bigamy, you take all the property, and your husband goes to jail)

Like divorce, marriage is a complicated process. Marriage usually takes several years to fall in love and cultivate feelings. Then divorce also takes a long time to compete for your own interests.

Think about it! If you don't understand, you can send me a message I'll tell you again.

In addition, if you can find a neighbor or audio or video, he hit you, then you can ask him to call you again and go to the hospital to judge the level. Woman, play a routine once in a while. In fact, while begging for your forgiveness, he is looking for a woman, not because he really loves you, but because he knows that you bought it to deal with you on purpose.