Do you have any friends in Xianning, Hubei? What should I prepare for my first visit to my girlfriend's house?

If her father disagrees a little, I suggest you buy some good cigarettes and wine, and then buy some health care products suitable for middle-aged women. Don't give money for the first time, because after all, you are not engaged. Then buy some nutritional products that will help your girlfriend recover (if you can buy local chicken, it will be icing on the cake, and her family will think you are considerate of her). Don't buy too much, it's your heart. It is inconvenient to buy in the local county market and other places.

I hope you have the best luck.