Where did the ancients like to date?

Modern couples usually go to cafes, hot pot restaurants, or cinemas for dating, which is filled with a tacky romance.

So where did ancient lovers like to date?

"There is Fu Su in the mountains, and there is China in the mountains." "There are bridges in the mountains and Youlong in the mountains."

This is an ancient dating place for lovers, full of fresh romance.

Lush fusu and tall pine trees grow on the mountain, lotus flowers bloom in the water in low humidity areas, and there are large areas of Polygonum hydropiper flowers by the water.

Trees, flowers, water plants, green hills, wetlands, young couples.

A vibrant country wind is blowing head-on.

"Fusu" is a lush tree, "Ahua" is a lotus; "Qiao Song" is a tall pine tree, and "Youlong" is a hot potato. Because this flower looks like a dog's tail, it is named "dog's tail flower", and because it looks like an ear of wheat, it is also called an ear of wheat among the people. Comparing the flower of Polygonum hydropiper swaying with the wind to "Youlong" suddenly fills the surrounding environment with amorous feelings.

Polygonum cuspidatum is also called dog tail flower, but it and Setaria viridis are two different plants.

This is a good place for dating. In the wild, flowers and trees are full of vitality and very original ecology.

In fact, after talking for a long time, these flowers and trees are all to set off the atmosphere, which is not necessarily a true description.

? In The Book of Songs, there is often a sentence pattern of "Mountain has ... and Ji has ...", which is a kind of rise, in order to lead to the following from the language potential.

For example, in Gao Feng Jian Xi, there are "there are hazelnuts and cockroaches on the mountain"; Tang-style mountain has a pivot, a mountain has a pivot, a elm, a paint, and a chestnut.

Just like when modern people meet, they say, "It's a beautiful day." Let's get down to business.

However, the sentence pattern of "mountain has" ... and Ji has ... "is basically related to dating between men and women. Because the trees on the mountain symbolize men, tall and straight; Flowers and plants on low humidity land represent women, soft and loose.

"Huainanzi Terrain Training" said: "There are many men in the mountains and many women in the mountains." The use of "mountain" and "Ji" shows that this poem was written by a love story between a man and a woman.

Ok, the date place is set, and it's time for the men and women to appear.

The girl came early, waiting for her lover with joy, but she didn't see her lover.

After a while, he finally came in a hurry. At this time, the girl was naturally happy, but she pretended to be angry and ignored him. The young man hurriedly came over to coax her. Girl sloped smile, stretched out a finger on his forehead, scold a way:

"If you can't see your son, you are crazy"; "I didn't see the child, but I saw the sly child."

I thought I saw "Zi Zi" or "Zi Chong". How can you be such an arrogant person?

Who are these "Zi Zi" and "Zi Chong"?

Zi Zi and Zi Chong are both famous handsome men in Zheng State. Even Mencius said: There is no one in the world who doesn't know the beauty of children, and people who don't know children are people without eyes. Confucius, a descendant of Zhou royal family, was an idol at that time. He is not only handsome, but also skilled in martial arts. Your son, personable, was naturally the "national male god" at that time. No girl has an idol in her heart.

So the girl teased her lover and said, I'm waiting for Daniel Wu. Why are you so fanatical?

The girl doesn't hate her sweetheart, she just teased him on purpose.

It can be seen that the hostess is an innocent and lively woman with a variety of amorous feelings.

Although the poem is short, it is a few words, but it vividly depicts a date in a country park. It seems that even the dog's tail flowers swaying in the wind are conveying deep affection.

The banter between lovers is the same between men and women. In the Five Dynasties, Xianggong and Ning wrote a poem: "Bite new flowers when drunk, and let them go when they rob Xianlang." Write the scene of joking with the woman you love so colourful.

It is respectable for Liu Xiahui to behave himself, but how boring life in Qi Mei is every day.

However, it is such a simple love song that the stubborn pedants of later generations, out of political standpoint and ulterior motives, deliberately seek for depth and make this beautiful poem foggy.

The preface to Mao Shi's interpretation of the Book of Songs has always been sublime, just like when we were in middle school, every text should have a sublime theme, plus a distinct and great central idea. It seems that such an article can shine and sublimate students' moral sentiments.

Therefore, this simple love song "Preface to Mao's Poems" sticks to the whole theme and says everything to satirize Zheng Qinwang's ignorance. Fu Su was born in the mountains, which means that the prince suddenly put the wrong person in the upper position; Lotus was born under Ji, which means that the prince suddenly puts virtuous people in a lower position.

It turns out that those tall themes in our middle school texts are also ancient inheritance.

Zhu, a Confucian scholar in the Song Dynasty, thought that Fu Su was a "prostitute playing with self-interest" and "playing for self-interest", but he called the heroine in his poems "adulteress" because in his view, Zheng Feng's love poems were all "erotic poems".

Zhu Yisheng's theory can be summed up in one sentence: preserve justice and destroy human desires.

So, who is Zhu who shouts "exterminating human desires" every day?

"History of Song Dynasty" records that "two nuns are lured to be concubines, and all officials follow" and "the wife has no husband". It means that Zhu lured two nuns to be concubines and blatantly wandered the officialdom; After his son died, he got his widowed daughter-in-law pregnant again.

Such a serious master of Confucianism and Neo-Confucianism did such a thing, which really made people fall below the glasses. Therefore, Zhu lost face in his later years and his reputation plummeted.

See how other modern scholars understand this poem:

Chen Zizhan's The Book of Songs thinks that this poem is capable, and his wife calls her husband a fool. "Doubt is a ballad about a wise wife who hates a humble husband."

According to Gao Feng's annotation in The Book of Songs, when a girl came to a dating place, she didn't see her sweetheart, but met a bad guy to flirt with her.

Cheng Junying's annotation on The Book of Songs thinks that this is a woman's complaint that she can't find a suitable object. Female scholars think that women are hard to find a partner, and ancient women are hard to find a partner, so they have to complain.

Well, you're okay, you're okay ~ ~

But we would like "Sleeping on the Mountain" to be a poem of a girl joking with her lover, and other statements are invalid ~ ~