The person who brought the ashes to the hotel was claimed 70 thousand. Is the shopkeeper blackmailing him?

The hotel demanded compensation of 70,000 yuan for mental damage. At first glance, it does seem excessive, but considering the actual situation, it is really selfish for this guest to bring an urn into the store and set up a mourning hall in the hotel room.

First, when in Rome, do as the Romans do is the most basic requirement for a person, especially for such taboo things as urns and wreaths.

Shen Shuangyu, an 85-year-old director of Shanxi Folk Association, said that according to the folk customs in Shangdang area, urns are generally not allowed to be taken to public places.

Moreover, although there are no laws and regulations prohibiting or restricting the carrying and transportation of ashes in China at present. But generally speaking, non-relatives are taboo to other people's ashes, and it is even more inappropriate for guests to set up a mourning hall directly in the hotel room.

If you want to bring the urn into the hotel, you must first ask the owner's permission.

Secondly, it is not an exaggeration for shopkeepers to symbolically claim compensation for mental damages, but there is no uniform standard to measure the amount, but the way of claiming compensation should be reasonable and legal.

Bringing an urn into the store and setting up a mourning hall will not only affect the stay of local guests, but also be a taboo for foreign guests if it is spread. It will definitely have a great impact on the hotel business. So it is understandable for the hotel to ask for some compensation.

However, if the amount demanded is huge and the other party is not allowed to leave through chasing, it is indeed a bit dangerous. Every family has a difficult experience, everyone will be old, everyone will have the day when life ends, and everyone wants to leave their fallen leaves and be buried in peace. No matter out of respect for life or the dead, we should not make trouble without reason.

Of course, from the owner's point of view, this huge psychological shadow is also irreparable by money.

In short, people should consider problems from each other's perspective, not just their own interests. Always put yourself in others' shoes and think twice before you act.

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