Help yourself! Drinking is a man's business, and girls should know these five things!

Two months ago, the news broke the indecent incident of "corpse picking" in Nanning. I believe that the female compatriots still have an impression.

At that time, the girl was drunk and unconscious, stripped naked and photographed, and even raped.

Once this post was exposed, it caused a hot discussion among netizens, saying that girls had better drink less.

There are so many misfortunes in the news that some people even feel numb and indifferent and can't really attract people's attention.

But this time, something happened around me, and I have a little feeling, I want to say.

2. Girls should learn to love themselves whenever and wherever.

On that day, the manager of the office department said that he wanted to build a group, so he booked a big box with some partners present, which belonged to that kind of business dinner.

There is no shortage of wine on the table. On this occasion, we should clink glasses and propose a toast together. Besides, the wine merchant in this hotel was sitting at the table, and he even said "drink whatever you want".

Around the big round table, there were twenty or thirty people, four decanters, and the glasses clanged under the crystal chandelier.

The department manager personally asked for a sister-in-law named Su Xin in 1994, which happened to be better with me. Usually in the office, the manager also likes to tease her and make fun of her. So several girls in the department went to propose a toast together, and the wine got out of hand. Su Xin later took us for several rounds of worship. Su Xin is always dry. A sister-in-law drinks a little too much, so it is estimated that the wine will come up.

There was a ktv in the private room, and then they sang a song together. Later, I threw up in the bathroom. As soon as I came out, the manager came and pulled her to sit on the sofa. After a while, I watched the manager get up and take Su Xin out. I was in a hurry, and everyone present thought about what would happen next.

Because this manager is middle-aged, his wife and children are not in this city, and he is also the kind of person who works hard for his career in other places. But Su Xin is only 24 years old. I am in a hurry. I nudged my sister Zhao Meng, who was several years older than me. I said, come on, come on, come on.

Due to the disparity in status, Zhao Mengjie didn't dare to follow. Later, another manager's wife followed, but they disappeared when they went out.

We searched for a long time, because Zhao Mengjie had Su Xin's mobile phone, so we had to call the manager, but the phone had been on the phone before, and I couldn't contact anyone. I'm really anxious. What if something happens?

Fortunately, Su Xin called the male colleague in the department before getting drunk and asked him to drive over to pick us up, and things turned around. Later, when the manager went out with her, he happened to meet his male colleagues and drove them back.

We are frightened at the thought of it. If something really happens, will Su Xin blame us for not liking her? Will you regret it? Will this change the rest of her life

How can there be a fixed answer to such a thing

The most correct answer is that girls should learn to love themselves whenever and wherever they are.

Especially in this wine market, if you are not sure you can get away with it, you must remember these things:

First, find your trusted male friend in advance and bring him to the dinner table;

Second, the mobile phone can't leave the body, and it can save lives at critical moments;

Third, girls should never drink too much at business dinners. Drinking is a man's business.

Fourth, keep a proper distance from the opposite sex in the workplace.

3. Women who are attached to men can't get long-term love.

Of course, some colleagues said that Su Xin wanted to be superior, so he borrowed wine to drown his sorrows, but he was afraid of being branded as a "mistress". After all, that manager has a family.

Society is too impetuous, and there are many small three incidents.

Just a few days ago, a man killed his wife in KTV to protect his mistress.

At that time, the woman found that her husband seduced the waiter San Xiao and beat each other with San Xiao. Instead of dissuading him, the husband helped San Xiao kill his wife. In the end, the man still did not escape the legal sanctions.

At that time, there was a man who kept watching and let his man do evil without any dissuasion.

Some netizens commented that the person next to him has no public morality.

Some people also say that since you are a mistress, you should be prepared to be "disposed of", rob other people's husbands and destroy other people's families, not only for property, but also for the occupation of the emotional world of the original husband and wife. As a wife, you must be desperate.

However, as an unmarried girl, from a personal point of view, we must first have a certain sense of moral prevention, not to destroy other people's families for money, nor to block up the colorful life.

I met an elder sister, Qingjie Zeng, because of my work. She used to work in a government office, and people invited her to dinner and gave her gifts everywhere she went. She is surrounded by rich bosses.

She said that there used to be a rich man in his late fifties who was unmarried and asked her to be an assistant. At that time, Sister Qing asked her what kind of assistant she was and what she wanted to do.

The rich man said that he was a special assistant, lived in a mansion and did nothing.

At that time, Sister Qing refused, saying that we should learn to respect each other in our working relationship.

I hope all good girls don't rely on men to dominate their lives, so they lose their "self" first and their love last. Here, I want to borrow a sentence: only those who learn to love themselves first deserve love.

In fact, there are many scenes similar to Qingjie in TV series, but once they appear around, they will make you feel different. Good deeds will set an example for learning. It is the truth that those who are close to Zhu Zhechi and those who are close to Mexico are black.

4. In this age of judging people by their appearances, you should learn to maintain your face.

Men are animals that judge people by their appearances.

In a department, all male colleagues in the office are required to grade their female colleagues one by one. Obviously, the scores of big eyes, high nose and big breasts and hips are high.

Two female colleagues of the same age must be the younger one who is more attractive.

On the road, when we see beautiful girls, we will envy, like and be jealous, but those women whose lifelong career is to maintain their faces have different endurance from ordinary people.

A well-maintained woman said that women should live beautifully and grow beautifully. Because enough self-confidence is based on enough beauty.

"I will never allow my husband to appear with a beautiful lover. I am a bad woman with a big belly; I will never allow me to lose my marriage one day, and I am no longer attractive to other men. "

This is the confession of a woman who successfully has love, but you never know the efforts behind her: insist on eating natural and healthy foods such as milk, cereal and fruit, and refuse canned and synthetic foods;

Refuse to stay up late, work regularly and exercise at least four days a week;

Adhere to weekly facial care and never allow yourself to appear in front of others;

Buy yourself a set of advanced skin care products and fashions every quarter, and try to buy them with the money you earn.

5. Your mode is the end of your life.

Girls should be honest, be willing to be proud of themselves, keep themselves and struggle for many years.

Perhaps, you are the "Su Xin" who grew up silently in another corner of the world. You are young. I hope you can learn how to face all kinds of puzzles in life. As long as you are upright, you will always break through obstacles.

Perhaps, you are also a versatile sister in the workplace. i take my hat off to you. Don't bow to the reality of all good mushrooms. I believe we can earn more.

Girls should be full of hope for the future. How far you can see, how brilliant flowers will bloom in your life.

As an old aunt born after 90, I regret that I didn't have a long-term view of life when I was young. I have always felt that I should explore life step by step, but now I have gained little through the bumpy road.

Dear, I hope that from the age of 20, you can see clearly the road you are going to take in the next five years, set yourself a small goal, move forward slowly, and there will always be something beautiful!

All the good girls in the world, life is beautiful, make good use of it!

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