Common tricks and deceptions

The routine of female admirers

1. Look at sincerity

Nowadays, many female admirers send you a paragraph after they meet you. They basically copy and paste the basic meaning. Just give him as many red envelopes as you want to see if you are sincere or claim to be a contestant and see your strength.

Can sincerity be seen with just a few yuan in red envelopes? What a ridiculous reason. Generally, such scammers will post some very tempting posts, such as blocked words, blocked words, school beauty, Bai Fumei, etc. Anyway, it makes you think that she is so perfect in every aspect. Some people think that tens of dollars doesn’t matter. Maybe it’s true? In other words, you have been deceived. Basically, after sending the message, the person disappears or ignores you. Although this It doesn't matter if I pay some money, but the disgust in my heart makes me uncomfortable.

How to deal with it: In fact, it is very simple to directly ignore or delete it. It is not that you cannot afford the money, but that it is disgusting. No one will think that a few yuan in red envelopes can prove sincerity, and no one will Go and let you prove that if you ask for it there is only one reason, liar.

2. Borrowing money

When it comes to borrowing money, people tend to play the long game to catch big fish. Basically, they add you and say a word to you from time to time, and then hang on. You should first understand your financial situation, and then suddenly the conversation will become very lively one day and even talk about meeting your TJ to recognize your master, etc. However, don't be too happy too early. There are always reasons why she can't go to see you, such as her father being arrested. The car is installed, mom is sick, school fees need to be paid, etc. Anyway, life is urgent. As a man, it is unnatural for him to comfort her and lead her to ask for help. Generally, it is not a lot, it is only a few thousand yuan, but if Once you pay this money, it will sink into the ocean, and you will never see her online again or she will delete you directly.

How to deal with it: To be honest, not all people who borrow money are scammers, and some really need help. If you want to help her within your own tolerance, you should also take precautions, such as contacting her with personal information for IOUs. method and address, and a video is required to verify the authenticity of all information. In fact, lending the money is really helping people. It is impossible for a professional liar to leave you so much evidence. As for whether you want to accept the money in the future She is still your personal problem. At least you can find her.

3. Youchang.com T

In fact, I have no objection to the Internet Tiao. If there is a demand, there will be a market, and it is understandable that you will be rewarded for your efforts, but the damn thing is those scammers. , after adding a few, she will tell you that she has tasted it, and then she will quote you and ask if you want to play with it. At this time, we don’t even know whether she is a boy, a girl, a human, or a dog. Do you know how to play? If you ask for verification, then they will ask to pay a certain verification fee, such as 5 yuan or 10 yuan. This is not much and is easy to be accepted by people, but it will also disappear if you send money.

How to deal with it: Not all online posts are fake, and some are real. They just need to be verified. As for the charging method, it is best to have a third-party guarantee or find one with a customer base. If you are afraid of it, Just say no to the scammers

4. Selling videos

This kind of people are more direct. They claim to have many self-shot TJ videos for tens of dollars or hundreds of dollars. , basically you give money and disappear, so I won’t go into details. Anyone with a brain will think that you will sell the TJ video showing your face to others?

How to deal with this: Needless to say ? Just don’t believe it. No one will sell their privacy so cheaply. This will affect their lives. Travel expenses

5. Ask for travel expenses

This kind of scammer usually adds you and chats for a few words, then he will feel that you are satisfied and then say that he just has time to see you, and then The question arises: the man must pay for the toll, right? At this time, he will ask you for the toll, and the price will be the same as the fare, but the money will be deleted when you call it. If you want to book a ticket for her, it will be She refused on the grounds of leaking information, but there are also some who accept bookings, but don’t be happy too early. After booking, she went to refund the tickets. In the past, she refunded about half of the tickets directly to me in cash. But now this method does not work. I will refund the money. It was refunded to the card where the ticket was purchased, so it is basically rejected now.

How to deal with this: Usually I ask for reimbursement after coming, or if I don’t come over, I should also pay attention to it, leave a phone number, and video chat with each other to feel the sincerity. Don’t be fooled. People fooled around and couldn't find anyone.

6. Wine and food tray

I have also encountered this, that is, after adding you, we have not been chatting for long, then I ask to meet and let you go, and then you go and meet, it must be In public places, they will take you to a hotel or bar, and they will take a commission from the high-priced drinks and meals. Have you ever seen someone singing a song in a KTV and spending more than 10,000 to 20,000 to 20,000 yuan in more than an hour? That's it.

How to deal with it: Generally, when you go to meet Mu out of town, don’t go to the hotel designated by her. Book a hotel online and meet in the hotel lobby. If you think it’s okay, go up to the room and have sex. For meals and other things, you can find bigger ones online. Reliable.

7. Stealing things

This kind of thing is just asking to meet after chatting, and then going to the hotel after meeting. Everything seems normal. After entering the room, she will ask you to take a shower. Your belongings will be robbed while you are taking a shower, and some will even take photos or take away your ID card and other personal information, followed by extortion.

How to deal with it: Be careful when going out. Don’t feel embarrassed to bring your wallet in when taking a shower. You don’t want to harm anyone, but you must prevent being harmed. Drink bottled water to prevent being drugged. Be careful with everything.

Ladies’ scams

1. Deposit

I really don’t know when the deposit was invented. There are friendship posts on admiration posts. , there is a fee, but the bottom line is that a deposit is required. The reason is that if you don't come, I won't wait for you in vain. I really wanted to laugh when I heard such a reason. Mu usually goes to find Si, and it is impossible for Si to go all the way to find Mu. Theoretically speaking, Mu needs to pay, and Si can do whatever he wants. As long as he tells Mu to go to the designated place, even if Si has something to do temporarily, he can do it. Changing places at any time through QQ or WeChat means there is no waiting cost, while Muzai needs to spend time and fare to go to Si. Driving also requires gas and tolls. If Sri Lanka gives up, the loser will be Mu. I really don’t know why Sri Lanka charges a deposit. And according to the reply from netizens, usually if you give a deposit, the so-called Sri Lanka will reserve a seat in a beautiful location. , that’s the blacklist. The real Si. I’ve known a male admirer since 2013 and have played with at least a dozen of them (reality). None of them mentioned a deposit, but I gave Si a small gift. ah. It's normal to have a meal or something, so anyone who asks for a deposit can be said to be 99% likely to be a liar.

2. Borrow money

There was a man who met a woman before. He set up a lot of tests and did not ask for a deposit. I also invited several Mu to test together, and finally chose him. He was very happy. In the evening, the woman asked him to transfer 500 yuan to her WeChat account. However, when transferring money, the woman deliberately entered the wrong account number and sent him a screenshot to show that the transfer was really made. He checked on his mobile phone for a long time and there was no money in the account, so he did not transfer it to the woman. Then the lady said again. There was only 500 left in the card, so she asked him to transfer it to her first, and then return it to him after she got the money back. In the end, the man did not turn around and ignored her. When you need help transferring money to Alipay or anything related to money on WeChat, don't mess around without seeing a real person. Even if she really transfers the money and the bank sees it, you have to try to see if the money can be transferred out. I have tried before when a mysterious person added me, saying that he was a classmate of mine in college, and he was currently abroad, and wanted me to help transfer a sum of money to someone. He transferred it to me first, and as expected, my bank card had an extra RMB 100,000. Although I was not sure if he was a classmate, I still thought about transferring it to him. Just when I was about to do it, I suddenly wanted to transfer all the money from this card to my company account to run the transaction. Then I found that the one hundred thousand couldn't be moved. Later, I asked the finance department and found out that there was a time difference when foreign bills were credited. He opened an empty account abroad, and then used the empty account to transfer money domestically. However, there was a time difference between the domestic time and the foreign credit time, so the credit was displayed, but that You have to wait until the foreign bank confirms that the money can be used. This is not Simu's, it's too far off the mark, but this kind of deception cannot be ignored.

3. Video

Many fans like online videos. Many gays will take advantage of this loophole. Although this is not a scam, it is a bit disgusting to think about. They often post and post messages, and you can open videos and listen to his commands. Based on experience, nine out of ten people are gay. A big man with a foot-picking command will command you to masturbate, kneel down, and nue yourself. Fans who have this hobby can play it by themselves, but I find this kind of gameplay disgusting. There are also some more advanced ones that use a video recorder and a virtual camera to play a short video to make you think you are actually watching the video.

Anyway, this is not a money scam, but it is really disgusting. The solution is to at least interact with the girl when chatting online. The voice and video are paired together, and it is easy to tell whether it is real or fake.

4. Wine and food trays

It’s not easy to meet someone who doesn’t charge a deposit or borrow money. He just chats with you and thinks you are good. Friends, don’t be careless. Someone has met such a girl. I don’t know if there are any more on the forum now. She will ask you to meet in a place, and then walk around and chat. When we arrived at a small bar, we asked to sit down together and chat. Generally, bars like that are relatively remote and there are no people there. Once you enter, you will know that you have seen many people being scammed like this on the Internet before.

To summarize. The world is very chaotic now, and scammers are very clever. Please be careful if you have the following characteristics.

1. We chatted for a few words and asked for a deposit. It’s understandable if you try online. But don’t be fooled if you ask for a deposit if you haven’t met in person.

2. People who actually do TJ in forums all over the country generally have problems. They are also human beings. Unless they are truly professional, it costs money to travel around. This is generally not very reliable. The real Si has a range of activities, and it will not be admired from Mohe in the north to Hainan Island in the south.

3. Replies are only visible to you. You don’t dare let others see your replies. It’s hard to tell whether they are genuine or not. We can’t rule out that there are some genuine ones, but the proportion is really small.

4. Even TJ refuses to show his true face to others. This is mainly online. Many men pretend to be TJ. I don’t know the specific psychology, but the real TJ, even if he really doesn’t want to. Show your face. We can also do video and audio TJ.

Men’s tricks

In fact, men basically do one thing: cheating on the bed.

Nowadays, the circle is chaotic and there are too many fake people. If you say you like Nuan Si, he will be Nuan Si you. If you say you like strict Si, he will be strict Si. If you like dog mu, he will be professional TJgou Mu Shi. For several years, if you like blocking words, he will be a professional TJ blocking words for decades. In short, he is what you need. Haha, this is simple to say, but it is really difficult to distinguish, because everything you see is disguised by him, but After meeting, they just symbolically played with the props and then left.

How to deal with it: It is really difficult for novices to distinguish between Mu, so learn more about and talk about some professional things to get a feel for it, especially talk about some cognitive insights, such as your views on Simu , some gameplay details and feedback, etc. Smu is a matter that consumes energy and time. A real Si will think about Mu's psychological feelings and the reflections that each TJ brings to Mu, and summarize some experiences. Many of these so-called theories are It is summed up in practice and exploration. Those so-called fake people only know what they are and don’t know why at most, so it is right to talk more. If you think it is reliable and meet again, even if you are cheated, you will be laughed at. .

Basically, men can just lie to someone. If they are not brave enough to fight, it is illegal.

After reading so much, do you think the world is so dark?

Actually, no, in any industry or circle, if there is a market and supply and demand, there will be profit-seeking. When people appear, corresponding liars will also appear. The world is like this. Get in touch more and understand more. If you don’t understand, ask your predecessors how they do it. There is no harm in doing anything.

Don’t be depressed, learn to face it rationally.

Finally, I will teach you several verification methods.

1. Photo + Voice Time

If the photo is normal and you don’t want to show your face, you can code your face, and then you can do the specified action or write a note with the specified content or the other party. QQID, etc., and then send a voice time announcement and listen to it.

2. Short videos

Nowadays, mobile phones can send short videos. You can ask for specified actions, such as OK gesture, bunny ear pressing, nose pinching, etc. You can also write notes with specified content. Or QQ, and then add voice time.

3. Video verification

This is usually rejected, but you only need to do a few designated actions and say a few words to each other to see if the mouth shape matches what you said. superior.

Some people say that verification is annoying and that it is impossible to verify! When you say that verification is impossible, it is because of distrust. Similarly, verification is also due to distrust. Some people say that I took short videos and photos and spread them. What should I do? I also want to ask, what if a normal photo with a few simple actions is circulated? You are not asked to take off your clothes and do anything unsightly, right? So there are two categories of people who refuse to verify. One type just has a temper and doesn't want to think about it, and the other type is just a liar who doesn't dare. If it doesn't involve admiration or financial issues, and it's just friends chatting with each other, then it doesn't matter.