The 5-year-old "half-blood girl" is on fire. She was adopted by the rich in Dubai because of her beautiful appearance. What is the current situation?

In life, we often hear a humorous sentence, "I can obviously eat by my face value, but I have to rely on my talent."

This sentence sounds interesting at first glance, but it also contains a profound truth, that is, can people really "eat by the value of their faces"?

This 5-year-old "half-blood girl" became popular on the Internet because of her beautiful appearance and was adopted by the rich in Dubai. The status quo is enviable.

Chen Lingli is a five-year-old girl. Her father is Korean and her mother is Filipino, so she is a mixed-race, cute and beautiful.

For the purpose of showing off, Chen Lingli's parents always share their daughter's photos and videos on social networking sites, which has gained more than 654.38+0 million fans.

Among these fans, a rich man in Dubai took a fancy to Chen Lingli. He thought the little girl was naive and cute, and he had the idea of adopting her.

"action is better than action." The rich man in Dubai booked a plane ticket that night and flew to Brenna's house the next day to propose his own adoption plan to his parents.

After considering the present situation of the family, Chen Lingli's parents made the most important choice in life:

"Well, Brian, come and meet your adoptive father. Starting today, you will live with your adoptive father. "

As a result, Chen Lingli, who was only five years old, was "abandoned" by his biological parents and lived with the rich in Dubai.

However, this rich man in Dubai is not a "wretched uncle". He spoiled Chen Lingli as a princess and took her around the world.

On Chen Lingli's birthday, the rich in Dubai gave her a Rolls Royce, which really made everyone envy her.

When living in Dubai, Chen Lingli's rich fans often send gifts to their homes, ranging from brand-name perfumes to LV bags.

Later, rich people in Dubai found it inconvenient for Chen Lingli's parents to look after their children, so they took their parents over. The family also changed their nationality, began to believe in Islam and lived a carefree life in Dubai.

What is the status quo after five years?

Chen Lingli lives in a mansion, drives a luxury car and lives like a princess. Will such a baby be destroyed?

Many netizens are worried about the future of brenner, and at the same time point their finger at brenner's parents:

"Give your daughter to others for money? Too real! "

"Money is important or daughter is important? Is the daughter a biological one? "

"I bet that Chen Lingli will be abolished in the future and develop a second generation."

Facts have proved that netizens' guesses are all wrong.

While living in Dubai, Chen Lingli did not degenerate. She made use of michel platini's resources, went to various social occasions, learned western etiquette culture, and became a polite and versatile "princess".

This is not surprising. Brenna's mother knows four languages, including Arabic, and her mother's IQ will be passed on to her children, which also laid an innate foundation for her growth.

Today's Chen Lingli is just a little chubby, with big eyes, threatening gas field and enviable living condition.

Because he looks like Ma Yun, he became popular and was sent back to the village with an annual salary of one million. What is the current situation of "Little Ma Yun"?

Chen Lingli vividly explained that it is an objective phenomenon to "eat by looking good", but she did not forget to improve her inner cultivation. After all, time flies and her talent remains the same.

In China, we also found a similar example. This boy also "lives by his face value", but his fate is different from that of Chen Lingli!

The boy's name is Fan Xiaoqin. In 2008, he was born in a small mountain village in Yongfeng County, Jiangxi Province. His family is poor. His father is disabled, his mother is also a polio patient, and he has a grandmother with Alzheimer's disease. The whole family can only live on government subsidies.

20 16, a villager who came back from working outside saw and thought the boy looked like a cloud, so he took his photo and posted it online. Unexpectedly, Fan Xiaoqin was directly praised as "fire". Netizens thought it was Ma Yun's long-lost brother and called him "Little Ma Yun".

Finally, Fan Xiaoqin caught Ma Yun's attention. After seeing the photo, he said:

"This boy thought that my family had uploaded photos of my childhood. With this heroism, I really feel like looking in the mirror. "

Therefore, Ma Yun sponsored Fan Xiaoqin to go to school until he came of age.

After "Little Ma Yun" became popular, many companies came to you one after another, claiming to package him, but Fan Xiaoqin's father thought it was profitable and didn't refuse.

In this way, Fan Xiaoqin began to broadcast live, receive advertisements and even make movies. Even the great director Xiaogang Feng came to take a photo with him.

Since then, Fan Xiaoqin has earned millions of dollars every year and lived a life of indulging in money.

However, it is unrealistic to want to "eat by face value" for a lifetime. With the excessive consumption of "Little Ma Yun", the brokerage company felt that he was useless and sent him back to the countryside.

Today, Fan Xiaoqin is 12 years old, but he is only in the second grade of primary school. I am often laughed at by my classmates at school, and my future is confused.

The same is "eating by face value." What's the difference between a half-blood girl and a cloud? The gap between the two points is obvious.

1. Different values

Although Chen Lingli was adopted by the rich in Dubai and lived like a princess, she did not degenerate. Instead, I learned many foreign languages, visited the local customs of dozens of countries and regions around the world, constantly cultivated my sentiment and improved my inner cultivation.

After Fan Xiaoqin became famous, he only wanted to receive advertisements and make money by live broadcast, but he gave up the opportunity to learn and improve himself, which also led to the loss of his popularity and was directly returned to his original shape.

2. Parents have different ways of education

Dubai's richest man likes Chen Lingli, but he doesn't spoil her. When he took her to the party, he taught her the most basic manners.

At the same time, he also took Chen Lingli around the world to broaden his horizons, find the best dance teacher and cultivate Chen Lingli's talent.

However, Fan Xiaoqin's father regards his son as a tool to make money. He said:

"I don't care who I am, as long as I am good, I promise to do anything (let my son). If it is not good for me, I will refuse. "

As fathers, the gap between their educational methods is too obvious.

How do parents "enrich" children?

"Little Ma Yun" lived an ideal life after receiving the funding from Ma Yun and the support of the company.

At this time, Fan Xiaoqin's father only paid attention to material wealth, but neglected the spiritual cultivation of his children, which led to his son being expelled from home at last.

The real "money support" is not to satisfy all children's wishes and give them enough money, but to enrich their spiritual world.

1. Give children a sense of ceremony

"A family with a sense of ceremony can raise a happy child."

The sense of ceremony is very simple, such as giving children a birthday, playing games with them, taking them out for a trip, and having dinner with the whole family. This is common sense of family rituals.

A sense of ritual can give children a sense of happiness, fill the inner emptiness and enhance parent-child feelings.

2. Improve children's inner cultivation

A person's internal is more important than external. "Eating by face value" can only be temporary, but "eating by talent" can be forever.

If parents want to improve their children's inner cultivation, they should lead by example, take their children to study, travel and meet all kinds of people and things.

Huo, the third generation descendant of Huo family, is busy with his work, but he still takes time to go home and take his son and daughter to visit museums and aquariums to help them broaden their horizons and improve their aesthetic ability.

3. Accompany children with high quality

No matter how busy parents are, they should take time out to accompany their children, accept them and let them feel their parents' care.

Some things can wait, but companionship can't. If even the children are young, parents can't accompany them. When children grow up, parents have no chance to accompany them.

Therefore, from now on, parents should accompany their children attentively and feel their spiritual world.