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What do married men buy for women?

Question 1: A married woman should buy so many shoes for her husband. She wants to prepare a suit (one suit is enough), a pair of shoes and a ring for the man. In the past, the rule was to press the box with a suit on the wedding day, but now she wears it directly on the groom's wedding day. My mother only lets my other half wear them on the wedding day, but those shoes are not for the wedding day. Let's start with the things in the wedding box, my husband's shoes. Parents-in-law's shoes, if grandparents are alive, they have to buy shoes for them. There are rules here in Laishan. If grandparents have brothers, they have to buy shoes for them, or buy a pair of pillows for their brothers. Hey, I have to buy two sets of pillowcases for my partner Da Die and my uncle. Get married next month 18. Last weekend, my mother and I went to Zhenhua and bought six pairs of shoes at one time. Everyone who comes back to see me knows that this is a wedding! [em32]

Question 2: What does the man want to buy for the woman before marriage? Usually three gold, necklaces, rings and bracelets, about 30 thousand.

But I don't pay attention to these things, and I don't wear jewelry at ordinary times, so when I got married, my ex-husband only bought me a ring and a necklace, which added up to 8000 yuan, which was already super cheap, so cheap that everyone said I was stupid. Experienced elders told me that this is not a question of whether I like wearing jewelry or not, but that I am too careless, which shows that I am easy to talk to and weak, and I will be bullied by my parents-in-law in the future. Later, my elders' words came true, and my former father-in-law saw that I was so accommodating and didn't care about me. He even intends to use the old bed where his son slept for several years as a wedding bed. The bed was so old that it collapsed once, and my former father-in-law repaired it with nails himself. There are slippers in the wedding room, all old slippers. They are all polished in Mao Mao, and they still smell like feet ... I won't list such examples one by one. In short, if you want not to be bullied after marriage, your attitude should not be too weak. You must buy all the three gold, and you can't choose too cheap.

Question 3: list of wedding supplies for the man. What do you need to prepare for the wedding? The man is responsible for the house, decoration, wedding photos, a pair of rings, a diamond ring, honeymoon travel expenses, wedding master fees, dress fees, wedding car rental fees.

Women are responsible for: furniture, household appliances, bedding and home accessories.

Wedding expenses, such as drinks, candy, wedding banquet, etc. , mainly depends on who received the gift. If the man's family pays, all the gifts will go to the man. If both men and women share the cost, it will be half of the gift. If both men and women are not in the same province and city, they will start in their hometown, that is, they will make their own gifts.

If the man gives gifts, the woman will buy jewelry, watches and clothes, and the rest will be paid by the man.

Specific words:

Furniture (TV cabinet, sofa, coffee table, chair, dining table, wardrobe, bed, etc.). ): 22,000; Household appliances (refrigerator, TV, air conditioner, computer, range hood, washing machine, water heater, stereo, microwave oven, etc. ): 23,000; Kitchen and bathroom supplies (shower room, sink, toilet, yuba, etc.). ): 3000. Wedding car: 3000, cigarettes: 6000, drinks: 5000, hotel: 35000, wedding candy: 2000, fireworks, etc. : 3000.

To be more specific, if the woman is generally responsible for household appliances, I'll give you a list of furniture I bought when I got married, mainly big ones, and I don't need to list the small ones one by one.

Description of product name, specifications and budget

TV 46 inch 10000 Target brand: Samsung

32 inches 4000

The refrigerator faces the door 6000.

Air conditioning 3P living room 6000

1.5p Master bedroom 3000

1P guest room 2400

Washing machine 1 4000

Free microwave oven 1 800 floor tiles.

Range hood+gas stove+disinfection cabinet 1 8000 Electrolux

Water heater 80L electrically heats 2400a.o

10L gas 2000

DVD 1 600

Audio 5-7 piece set 4000

The total is 53200.

Another expense.

Project Name Quantity Budget Amount Actual Expenditure Remarks

Wedding photography 1 6000

Bride wedding ring jewelry 3 pieces 15000 ring+diamond ring

The 44,000 part of the dress rent was obtained through wedding dresses and photo studios.

Underwear 2 500

Wedding shoes (red and gold) 2 800

Groom costume 1 2500

Tie 1 200

Belt 1000 available.

Leather shoes 1 500

Shirts 1 400

Happy products and invitations 150 200

Red envelope bag (changed) 4 16

Red bags (large size) 5 PCs 105 PCs 1 packaging 20 yuan.

Red envelope (middle) 1 135 1 packaging 8 yuan.

Red envelope (small) 100 250 1 packaging 2 yuan.

5 window grilles 15 1 set of 3 yuan.

Balloon 1 10 10 yuan 100.

Ribbon 1 10

2,400 firecrackers

Salute 4 100 1 25 yuan.

Hi doll 1 100 is going to Yangzhou to buy it.

Catering wine, tobacco, sugar and liquor (1) 20 1800.

Liquor (2) 4 500 greenhouse wine, used at noon on the wedding day.

Red wine 25 1000

Wedding banquet (1) 3 1500.

Xiyan (2) 3 1500 drinks of the day 25 500

Tea cake fruit 1 300

Xitang 250/200 1550

Wedding service wedding cake (three layers) 0 0

Wedding company 1 4500

Car rental fee 1 2800

Master of ceremonies fee 1 1200

Makeup artist fee 1 1200

Photographer's fee 1 1200

Banquet 15 22500

At noon on the wedding day, the banquet for both parties was 43,200.

Honeymoon honeymoon trip 2 15000 Phuket? Bali?

Red envelope details bridesmaid 1 288

Best man 1 288

Carrying the bride downstairs 1 200

The child who presses the bed 1 100

......& gt& gt

Question 4: What should the woman buy for the man when she is engaged? I need to buy an engagement ring for that man.

The meaning of engagement:

Engagement, English: engagement

The function of engagement and engagement is to confirm the marriage relationship of both parties in a polite way and gain social recognition and supervision. Once a man and a woman are formally engaged, both men and women should bear certain moral responsibilities for this relationship, and it is no longer casual to dissolve the engagement. If there is any change in marriage, it must be negotiated by both parties or mediated by outsiders. If negotiation and mediation fail, it is generally necessary to publicly announce the dissolution of the engagement or make a statement in the newspaper on some occasions. Otherwise, it is regarded as immoral behavior. In the event of an economic dispute over bride price, if negotiation fails, a lawsuit may be brought to the court. There are also some small customs and habits in the city's wedding engagement. Because men and women have a high degree of autonomy in marriage, in order to prevent their parents from meeting their engagement partners before announcing their engagement plans, when they think that their relationship will eventually develop into marriage, they will arrange to meet their parents. If parents have no chance to meet their fiance or fiancee because of geographical relations. Then, the two will mention their special relationship to their families by phone, letter or email, and then inform them of their engagement. The groom-to-be also explains his life plan and the arrangement of establishing a family to his wife's parents. This kind of conversation is always an important proof that the groom respects the bride's parents, and it is a etiquette that can't be ignored. This kind of etiquette is quite suggested by westerners.

Question 5: What does a married man give a woman? The man will prepare five clothes for her "socks, underwear, coat". When the girls become monks, it's time to change them. When a daughter becomes a monk, her feet can't touch the ground, otherwise she will take away the wealth at home. When the man comes to your house, she will set off firecrackers, and the woman will also set off firecrackers. "It's a sedan chair whip." Otherwise, the husband's mother-in-law will cry blindly. On the wedding day, when the man goes to the woman's house to pick up the bride, there will be a red envelope with a red envelope in it. The woman's family needs to add money to the red envelope. Fortunately, the money in this bag is called "children's money" When the man goes to the woman's house, the woman's house should prepare sugar tea and eight kinds of cakes for the man's family to eat. When the bride gets on the bus, there must be two brothers or younger brothers who are equal to the bride and walk slowly in front of the car. What's more, the bride seems to have put a mirror on her chest. I don't know what this means. I have to prepare a live carp. The bride gets up the next morning and will eat with the groom. That's all I know. If you want to know more, you can ask older people again.

Question 6: What should a married woman buy for the bride's wardrobe: a Chinese costume, a small dress, two pairs of shoes, a suit and some jewelry.

Second, what the bride brought on her wedding day: two sets of bedding and two pairs of slippers (a man and a woman).

Two sets of pajamas (a man and a woman), two pairs of socks (a man and a woman), two sets of underwear (a man and a woman), two toothbrush cups, 1 toothpaste, shower gel shampoo and conditioner,

2 red washbasins, 2 red buckets with lids, 1 red washbasin for bathing children, 2 towels, 2 bath towels, and a cosmetic box with mirror comb.

(the mirror should be round, not square), a soap box, a pair of hi dolls, prickly heat powder, kitchen apron, a set of cosmetics,

10 bowls, some money, hi bowls, hi cups, etc. There is also a gift red envelope.

Third, kitchen utensils

Rice cooker, wok, steamer, spatula, etc.

Fourth, the specific standards:

1, red bucket: descendants bucket, wrapped in big red cloth. There are eight things in the bucket.

They are: safflower, jujube, longan, five red duck eggs, popcorn, a bundle of chopsticks, a pack of toilet paper and a small bundle of cypress branches.

The other bucket is full of rice, with red dates and longan on it. The cypress branches (small bundles) and the red characters are put in two buckets. Red cloth bag.

2. Red washbasin: A red plastic washbasin with a pair of shoes, socks and hats that the bride bought for her grandparents. Socks, 3 peanuts and 2 sweets should be put in the shoes.

In another pot, there is a health scale and a pot of evergreen with seeds. ; Put some red dates, longan and cypress branches in both pots (small bundles). Cover it with the red word "hi".

3. Prepare 2 sets of bedding,

One set is for in-laws: 1 red ancient quilt, 1 pair of pillows.

One set for the new bed consists of the following four parts:

(1), traditional red ancient philosophers quilt, green dragon and phoenix quilt 1,

② Bedding with three beds and three quilts (down, wool and silk each 1).

③ 2 pillows and 1 double pillow.

(4) make the bed with a set of red bedding.

Question 7: What toiletries should a married man buy for his wife? Towels, washbasins, combs, soap, mirrors, slippers, toothbrushes and toothpaste, all in duplicate. I remember this. Every place is different.

Question 8: If two people get married together, what does the man need to buy for the woman? As long as two people really love each other, it doesn't matter what else they buy. After all, true love can't be bought by money, but if you care too much, you may lose more.

Question 9: What do married men in Northeast China buy for their wives? There are local customs in the northeast.

At present, according to the western form, the bride is given a ring at the wedding.

Don't give the bride's parents red envelopes, but the change of mouth fee is a necessary procedure at the wedding. I think it is necessary for both parents to agree, otherwise it will be embarrassing for one party to have more and one party to have less. Anyway, money is for new people, so there is no need to compare it with ostentation and extravagance. Under the terms of 99-nine thousand nine hundred and ninety-nine? When I change money, I will say that my son-in-law or daughter-in-law is one in a million, one in a million or something. . .

The bride price varies according to the conditions. I'm in Shenyang, and ordinary farmers in rural areas even paid a bride price of100000, which felt like selling their daughters. It's embarrassing ... I'm a citizen, and I only gave my family 20,000 yuan. This is good communication in advance. After all, money is also for the bride, and the property after marriage is the same. Unless a property agreement is signed. ...

Before you get married, you'd better have a good communication with the bride's family and see what they need to pay attention to. There are many villages in the northeast, and each small area has its own customs. The bride's relatives may have arranged it on purpose to find fault. This had better be discussed with the bride's family in advance. If it is not a particularly large family, try to avoid this process.

At the wedding, the parents of the bride and groom need to make a toast at each table, taking turns according to their seniority. If the groom and parents can't drink well, they steal mineral water. There will be 1 or even several special representatives in the bride's family, all of whom are the most senior figures in the bride's family, so the man should arrange special elders with certain qualifications and prestige to specially entertain the woman's representatives. If the leader of the new unit is present, it must be arranged at the table of the elders, which is a kind of respect for both sides.

Every child brought by her parents should be given a red envelope, and one or more of them are' riding a car'. These children are a little more than other children.

In addition, according to the current popular wedding process, all relatives and friends of the bride and groom may be required to hold a banquet in the same hotel. My home is in Shenyang. At the wedding I attended recently, the bride's family would give red envelopes to her modern blood relatives. This red envelope contains money, but it is wrapped by the bride's family. Only when guests drink during the wedding toast will they be given to the newlyweds. This is not a gift. The groom's family doesn't have to compare.

Mainly to communicate first. Well, don't compare with each other, don't quarrel, and try not to burden the newcomers.

There is bound to be trouble in the bridal chamber, which needs to be grasped by the newlyweds themselves. I was tired at the wedding, but I still have to smile and continue to be tired.