What is the experience of marrying "Uncle", being spoiled as a princess or weighing the pros and cons?

Marriage is one of the few important events in life. What kind of partner you choose will determine your happiness for the rest of your life. Therefore, most girls now choose men who are older than themselves. After all, they are more mature than their peers in economy or thought.

The reason for choosing an uncle as a life partner is that most female friends think that "uncles" who are older than themselves are more likely to love others and love themselves unconditionally, and that "uncles" who are older than themselves are more mature both ideologically and economically.

Recently, we interviewed two different female friends. Their common point is that they are married to "Uncle", but their endings are totally different.

25-year-old Wenjing met an uncle who was willing to spoil her as a princess.

25-year-old Wenjing never imagined that one day her new partner would be eight years older than her, and convinced her that love is the most precious wealth in the world.

Uncle is plain and a workaholic. Quiet, sunny, active and hardworking. In the internship year, Wenjing met her uncle and started a beautiful love story.

Wen Jing said, "Except my parents, I don't seem to have met anyone who dotes on me like him."

When I went out for a trip on National Day, Wen Jing found herself in menstruation, but because she was not prepared, Wen Jing had to go downstairs to buy sanitary napkins.

When Wenjing was ready to go out, Uncle looked at her and said, "Where are you going?"

"I came to menstruation early, and forgot to bring sanitary napkins, so I have to go down and buy them."

Uncle was silent, because he knew that Wenjing would have backache every time he came to menstruation. Uncle didn't speak again, so he went to Wenjing, took Wenjing to bed with a princess hug, and then went downstairs by himself. Half an hour passed, and my uncle hasn't come back yet. Wenjing was a little anxious and called him. The phone answered "I'm here"

Wenjing got up to open the door, and then saw uncle carrying a super-large bag.

"What did you buy? I bought so many"

"I forgot which brand you are used to, because I always don't look at the bag when I help you with sanitary napkins at home, and then I bought many different brands, I'm afraid you are not used to using others"

"..."

Later, Wenjing found many warm babies in the bag.

"Why do you buy a warm baby? It's not cold."

"You are used to putting a warm water bag on your stomach every time you come to menstruation. Now you don't have a warm water bag, so you can stick a warm baby on it."

At that moment, I was so quiet that I looked at my uncle and couldn't help but say "I love you".

Uncle smiled foolishly. "Why are you so sudden?"

Wen Jing said, "anyone can tell love stories on his lips, but the details can't fool people."

Such a "straight man" uncle is the most trusted support for Wenjing in life. It is such two people with completely different personalities that complement each other and start a new journey in their lives. They officially became legal couples in November this year.

The final result of marrying an uncle is likely to be a stranger.

Meiling is a young girl who entered the society after graduating from high school. According to common sense, she should sit in the department of the university and listen to the teacher's teachings.

Because Meiling went to work in the factory after graduation, the people she knew were either those who didn't study like her or those greasy uncles. Meiling's parents are short-sighted and think that Meiling should find someone to marry at this age. They have been working all their lives and want to find an uncle for Meiling to do business.

After rounds of gifts and treats, Meiling's parents finally got to know a middle-aged and wealthy uncle

who is the big boss of several local handmade leather factories. Meiling's family saw the wealth and opened their eyes. After receiving 15, bride price from others, they married Meiling directly.

After marriage, Meiling became a housewife. Although she has no children, her life is very bitter. She has to get up early to help make breakfast, and she has to take care of every lunch and dinner, and the "uncle" just sits like an uncle waiting to be served.

this kind of day goes on year after year, day after day. Meiling finally broke out!

"You wait for dinner like an uncle every day. What else will you do?"

"what else will I do? I have millions of businesses, do you? Don't forget, I bought you with money, and I wouldn't have married such an uneducated woman as you if it weren't for the sake of carrying on the family line. "

At that moment, Meiling was devastated and felt that she was a commodity to be bought and sold, which also made her determined to divorce. Later, Meiling's parents came over to earnestly persuade, "If you are divorced, where can you find such a rich family? Just bear with it and everything will be fine when you have children."

Meiling knew that life would only be more difficult after having children, and her life would be over. This time, Meiling decided to divorce and cut off the contact between the "uncle" and her parents when she left.

Age is not the biggest problem, the question is whether you choose the right person, who will be a princess all your life.

Age may sometimes be just a simple number in front of the right one, and it doesn't mean anything. Some people married their uncles, but the final result ended in divorce; Some people marry their uncles, and their married life is as sweet as glue.

Maybe marrying uncle is the last choice to weigh the pros and cons. After all, uncle has resources that his peers don't have. Do you agree with this view?