I promised my boyfriend to travel together, but I don't want to go. How can I refuse? I'm afraid he will be angry.

If you don't want to travel, here are some suggestions for refusing from three aspects: itinerary, mode of transportation and accommodation:

1. Itinerary: Inconsistent itineraries can be proposed, such as urgent matters at work or at home, or insufficient vacation time to complete the itinerary. You can also say that you want to travel at a more convenient time, such as your anniversary or his birthday.

2. Mode of transportation: If you are worried about the traffic problems during the trip, you can ask specific questions you are worried about. For example, if you are carsick or afraid of flying, you can say that you can't stand long-distance bus or plane travel. You can also say that you are worried about the traffic conditions at your destination, such as road safety problems or inconvenient public transportation.

3. Accommodation: You can have specific requirements for accommodation conditions. For example, you have high requirements for the environment, hygiene and safety of the hotel, and the hotel he chose does not meet your requirements. You can also say that you want to choose your own accommodation because you have different preferences and budgets.

Whichever method you choose, you should express your ideas as frankly and respectfully as possible. You can apologize to him first, explain why you can't travel, and then make an alternative suggestion, such as traveling together another day or doing other activities. Most importantly, you should keep communication and understanding and respect his thoughts and feelings.