Marriage customs in northeast cities

First, the preparation before departure

1, four bride price: divorced mother meat (2 ribs), 2 fish, 4 green onions and 4 vermicelli.

Cover the big well behind the new building with red paper.

3. The bride-to-be wears guest flowers, and the bride and groom corsage and wedding corsage are not worn for the time being.

4. The bride and groom should have even numbers (generally 8 people, 10, 12).

5. The total number of wedding motorcades (excluding video cars) should be doubled (generally 6,8, 10).

Second, to the bride's family.

1, knocking at the door: the groom knocks at the door to ask his mother to open the door and ask his father to open the door (the bride's family can embarrass the groom in the house, but it should not be too long).

2. Recognize relatives: the bride's parents stand at the door to meet the man's relatives, and the groom introduces them to his parents-in-law (starting from the elders). After shaking hands, the two sides entered the room and sat down. The bride's parents and her parents' relatives entertain the man's relatives to eat (commonly known as; Not empty talk or sweet talk).

3. Proposal: The groom kneels to propose to the bride and says a few romantic words that can impress the bride. The bride can embarrass the groom, but not for too long.

4. Wear corsage to each other: The bride and groom wear corsage to each other and take a group photo.

5. The groom changed his mind: the bride's parents sat down and the bride and groom stood facing their parents. The groom officially changed his name to Mom and Dad and made three bows. The groom gave his father a happy cigarette and a piece of candy, and his parents rewarded him with a small change (one for each parent, 100 1 yuan, representing a thousand good sons-in-law). Parents said a few words of exhortation, entrustment and blessing to the future life of the bride and groom.

6, eat noodles: a bowl of noodles and two eggs, the bride and groom eat each other.

7. Changing shoes: usually made by the bride's sister (if there is no sister, you can change to other relatives of the same generation or younger generation). The groom carried the bride into the car, and a piece of red cloth was laid under the new shoes. After the younger sister puts on the shoes for the bride, the old shoes are put away, and the groom rewards the younger sister for changing shoes.

8. Relatives of both parties get on the bus, parents get on the bus first, and relatives of the man get on the bus later. Empty cars are not allowed. Four bride price gifts brought back half of other items except meat from mother.

Third, the new house:

1. Family recognition: The groom's parents stand at the door to greet the guests of the bride's family, and the bride introduces her relatives to her parents-in-law. After shaking hands, the two sides sat down in the house, and the groom's parents and the man's relatives were responsible for entertaining the guests of the bride's house to eat.

2. The bride changes her mind: the groom's parents sit down, and the bride stands facing her parents. The bride formally changes her mind and asks her parents to bow three times. The bride gives her father a cigarette and her mother a piece of candy. The parents reward the bride for changing her mind (one for each parent, 100 1 yuan, representing a thousand good daughters-in-law). The parents say a few words of advice and advice to the bride and groom in their future lives.

3. Wall clock: generally done by the bride's younger brother (no younger brother is replaced by other peers or younger generations). After hanging the wall clock, the groom rewards his younger brother for hanging the clock, and the younger brother is responsible for taking the clock box back to his mother's house (the clock box cannot be empty, and red envelopes or cigarettes and candy can be put in it).

4. Packaging: It is usually done by the bride's brother (it can be replaced by other brothers of the same age or younger generation), and several coins of one yuan and fifty cents are prepared. How to package them is arranged by the owner.

5. Folding quilts: Generally, two sisters-in-law do it together (no sister-in-law can be replaced by other peers or elders). The man's mouth folds outward and the woman's mouth folds inward. After folding, two sisters-in-law shake hands and take a group photo.

6. Sit on the blessing pad: Prepare to sit on the blessing pad or a piece of red cloth and put it in the middle of the bed. The host will arrange how to sit on the praying platform.

7. Group photo: The bride and groom take a group photo with their relatives in the new house.

Fourth, the wedding ceremony:

1, the host's opening remarks, the wedding March, and the bride and groom entering the ceremony.

2 witness to see the marriage certificate (generally arranged by the introducer or unit leader).

3. Worship parents, guests and couples.

4, the man's wedding speech (the groom's father or mother).

5. make a glass of wine.

6. Speech by the VIP representative of the bride's family.

7. Exchange tokens.

8. Speech by guest representative (unit leader).

9. Speech by the representative of the bride and groom.

10, concluding remarks.

Verb (short for verb) Banquet:

1. The bride attends the banquet: the bride and groom first propose a toast to the guests of the bride's family, and the bride gives cigarettes to the relatives of the bride, and the groom gives cigarettes to the relatives of the bride. After the attendance, the bride's family will get a couple's attendance money as a reward, then the groom's parents will toast the bride's family guests, and the hotel will add dishes to the bride's family.

2. Light a cigarette and propose a toast to other relatives. The order depends on your own situation.

3. Farewell to relatives in the bride's family: The bride and groom took photos with all the VIPs in the bride's family in front of the hotel. Relatives and friends of both sides shake hands to say goodbye (usually the man prepares a car to send the VIPs at home).