A girl may not be beautiful, but she must do so.

In this value-oriented society, beauty may have many benefits. However, as a girl, it is not enough to look good. Showing off beauty is a girl's most eager goal. Appearance can be made up by makeup, while inner shallowness is manifested in your words and deeds. True temperament and upbringing emanate from the inside out.

Therefore, we can not be beautiful, after all, this is only superficial, but we must do the following:

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Education. The reason why this point is put in the first place is enough to illustrate its importance. Education is expressed by the way you talk and do things. A person's education reflects a person's comprehensive quality. Especially girls, don't swear like bitches. In that case, you are not honest with each other, but a vulgar and disgusting performance. Rudeness is also manifested in rudeness. When others help you, you should learn to say thank you in an active and friendly way, and say sorry in time and admit your mistake. This will not only make people think that you are a good girl, but also deepen the impression and make others like you. One person's upbringing reflects the image of the whole family. I really can't figure out what an uneducated girl's parents will look like. So, don't let people scold your parents and say that you have no education.

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Kindness We often hear boys mention a word when asked what kind of girlfriend they want. Yes, it is kind, sensible and gentle. See, a kind-hearted girl will naturally make everyone like her and become the other half that boys are really looking for. We may not be beautiful, but we must be kind. Maybe a beautiful girl can be remembered at a glance, but a kind girl will leave a lasting impression. Kindness is an indispensable trait of a person, and you can't abandon kindness at any time. However, kindness is neither weakness nor excessive humility. Be kind without violating our interests, and don't let others use your kindness to do evil.

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Be rational. This is also included in the conditions for boys to find girlfriends just now, so what is sensible? As a girl, one should know how to be filial to her parents, two should know how to handle the feelings around her, and three should know how to be responsible for her own life. Needless to say, we need to know the hardships and difficulties of our parents, understand their thoughtfulness and share their worries. For the second point, we need to know how to handle the love or friendship around us, not to let ourselves fall into entanglements or contradictions, and know what kind of people to choose and what kind of people to be with. For the last point, you must be clear about what you want to do, how to do it, and your life goals, instead of wasting your youth in a daze.

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Independence. A woman's biggest investment is not others, but herself. Anyone in the world can abandon you, but only she will never abandon herself. We can't always think about relying on others. We should strive for what we want, even if it is difficult, and strive for our future. When you are independent and can bear all the difficulties by yourself, we will have enough ability to choose the life we want. Those bags you always liked but didn't buy, those places you always wanted to go but didn't bring money, and those countless nights of eating instant noodles and crying will all become the past and become stepping stones to your success. When you are independent, a bright future awaits you, and you deserve to meet yourself better.

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Confident. Each of us is an independent individual and a unique individual. There are no two identical leaves in the world, and there are no two identical us. Each of us is unique in the world, and we are all different bright stars. Maybe you are not beautiful, but there will always be some bright spots in you, and you will have some qualities that others don't have. We must be confident and don't be afraid of inferiority. The reason why God created us must have the advantage that we stayed in the world. Confident girls are full of charm from the inside out.

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Watch less Korean dramas. In fact, I know that most girls like to chase Korean dramas, have a crush on South Korea's Ouba, or are obsessed with romantic president novels, and fantasize that they will meet an overbearing president pointing at you and saying, "Woman, you are mine!" Don't be silly, wake up from a daydream. Before that, you must first determine what you like about overbearing the president. Is it just like the silly sweetness in fairy tales? You still can't tell reality from fairy tales. Is it childish? Will it really come true to hold a photo of Weibo P and Ouba and a Korean drama anthomaniac all day? Have you ever thought about working hard in the past? You can be infatuated, but you have to be smart enough to get to know him, instead of living in fantasy with your mobile phone every day. Don't forget that your Ouba is also the Ouba of thousands of people in Qian Qian, Qian Qian!

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Exercise, fitness. Proper exercise is not only good for our health, but also can shape a perfect curve. The most important thing is to keep fit and protect yourself at critical moments. In view of the hotel incident that happened the other day, it is too dangerous to be a girl. We should learn to protect ourselves and learn more self-defense.

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Enhance the connotation. How can a girl be happy ever after, dressed beautifully, but what's the use of being empty inside? There is no end to learning. Keep learning at all times. Girls with connotation and literacy can naturally attract more people. Reading, painting, arranging flowers ... as long as you are interested or feel helpful to your life, we can all learn. After a long time, what you have learned will be revealed from every little thing.

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Don't play ambiguous, know how to love yourself. I hope you can clearly know what kind of other half you want and what kind of person can bring you the feelings you really need. When you are mature, you will find that appearance is really nothing. What we expect to find is only a man who holds us in the palm of his hand and loves us. I don't want you having an affair with a boy. You know, ambiguity means not loving enough or not sure that he is looking for you, but casting a wide net for comparison. In fact, you are just one of them. People who really like you won't keep you waiting too long. There is also self-love. Self-love not only means not having sex with boys easily, but also never being too humble in a love, so you are not pathetic but pathetic. If a man hurts you so much and you still refuse to leave or even cry for him, he certainly won't cherish you too much. In love, you must stay awake and don't get caught up in it and hurt yourself.

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Dream and work hard. If a person has no dreams, what is the difference with salted fish? A person, whether he is poor, rich, healthy or disabled, whether he is a child or an old man, will have a dream. Even if I want to buy a house, how much money I will earn, it is also a dream of self-expectation. We should determine what we want to do and how to do it, divide the big goals into small goals and work hard for them. A person is the most beautiful and attractive when he devotes himself to doing something.

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The right makeup, the right attitude. A person's proper makeup shows her respect for herself and the people around her. If you feel hopeless and too lazy to dress yourself up, why do you think others should value you? First impressions are very important in people's communication. No one wants to chat with a man who is in rags and stinks all over. Clothes and jewelry don't need to pay attention to famous brands, as long as they look clean, tidy and comfortable. The correct attitude refers to your attitude towards people and things. Don't lose your temper easily, don't lose your temper easily, and don't look at people. Instead, learn to handle the contradictions around you gently, and don't be tit for tat.

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Don't fight for it, but don't give up what you deserve. In this highly competitive society, we are always forced to compete with many people for our own opportunities. However, it is no problem for you to compete with your opponent for promotion. As long as you don't hurt others' interests by despicable means, it is no problem under the law. Some people may not like competition, so it's enough to do what they want, but if others deliberately set you up, I really don't want you to continue to submit to humiliation, and you can get what you deserve properly and safeguard your rights and interests.

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You can't always tell the truth. Some people really speak without thinking. Although what they said is true, it just makes people feel uncomfortable. In this flashy society, we should know what to say and when not to say. Sometimes your sincerity is not spontaneous, but stupid. This society doesn't need you to tell the truth all the time, or you may be framed if you are not careful, and I don't know why. You can be naive, but please don't be stupid.

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Less complaining, less telling others everything. No one wants to listen to your endless complaints like a garbage can, and I hate listening to complaints. If you can change it, do it. If not, please shut up. It's no use complaining, except for one more boring person who laughs with you and tells lies to comfort you. You're talking about complaining. People listen to jokes. Don't tell everyone. There is no empathy in the world. Sometimes you still need to solve some things by yourself. Maybe what you said about crying was just a joke.

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Smile more. Smiles can easily infect people around us, and we are all easily moved by children's smiles. Sometimes a kind smile can change many bad things that are about to happen. Most girls who love to laugh give people a lovely, comfortable and optimistic image, as if a smile from her can melt all the sadness in her heart. Smile more, maybe someone will like your smile.

In fact,

You are very beautiful.