What do you think about the husband spending money to support his mistress?

A long time ago, there was a very popular video on Weibo. It was on the hot search list for three days. It was about the first wife leading a group of people to a hotel to catch an adulterer. The first wife whipped her husband and then penetrated her feet. Some even took off their clothes.

The first wife was really furious. I don't care about any demeanor at all.

It was photographed by a meddler and posted online. Some people expressed sympathy in the comments, saying that the mistress is still pitiful. Even if she seduced her husband, she would not be so humiliated. She has no personality at all. Some of those who objected said, "Don't be so saintly. This mistress and her first wife were best friends. After they got close to her husband, they tried to get a divorce. The first wife didn't agree. The man once beat her until she was hospitalized."

The first wife and her husband worked hard to open a store and make money. She gave birth to two sons and managed the store and took care of her son. Where is the mistress? Use their money to travel around the world.

The original wife was so angry that she had such an impulse.

Actually, to be honest, it is common. After all, there are too many such derailments.

According to the "2015 China Love and Marriage Survey Report", more than half of the divorces of Chinese couples are due to the involvement of a third party, accounting for 50.16. The proportions of men and women are similar, both around 20.

However, regardless of whether it is a man or a woman, cheating is wrong anyway, so don’t look for any lofty reasons for this.

Lonely? emptiness? Different values? Have nothing to say? What kind of relationship problems between two people can't be solved with a slap in the face?

Du, borrow, mouth.

As for how they handle this matter, whether it is magnanimous or dishonorable.

As people who eat melons, what this incident reflects is just our own three views.

Let’s talk about the video of catching an adulterer. Originally, I was indifferent when I saw the Weibo post at that time. After all, it didn’t happen to me, and I had an attitude that it was none of my business.

But when I saw an insider explaining that the mistress actually spent the money earned by her first wife and her husband to travel around the country, I became a little angry and felt that the first wife was right.

To the person who interferes with other people’s families: You slept with my person and spent my money.

To the person who can’t manage himself well: I never thought that you would cheat on me and you would still have half the "military medal" as mine.

Shame. Some people say, you see, in the end, marriage is not all for the benefit of adults. But is it really that simple for the interests of adults? Is it really as simple as money?

Not really.

I am not married, but I am also sensitive to money.

For example, when I was in college, my boyfriend cheated on me and fell in love with another girl. Although he refused to admit it, as you know, the intuition of female compatriots is often accurate to the point of cruelty. What's more, that girl would go to my space every two days, leaving traces of her sightseeing, and she wished she could rape me eighteen times a day.

Later I added that girl’s WeChat account, visited her space, and stared at and raped her twenty-eight times a day.

In the matter of cheating, I do not advocate blindly condemning the third party, so I calmly want to understand the direction of the matter.

I forced myself to ask the whole story in a friendly manner.

Of course, I also analyzed my own reasons. For example, it must be because I have a bad temper, I am strong-willed, and I have a vicious mouth. I am so busy every day that I have no time to care about others. In addition, I am in a long-distance relationship, and I am not gentle enough. Thoughtful.

The most important thing is that the girl is 1.7 meters tall, which caused me to have low self-esteem syndrome for more than half a year.

I feel like I really suck. There were countless quarrels over this matter. But I think it’s still forgivable, after all, it’s probably my fault.

(But then I thought, excessive introspection is also a disease. Damn it, if you think I’m not good, just break up with me. Why would you cheat? Do you still have to find so many reasons?)

But what really makes people angry is not that he is ambiguous with others or cheating on others, but that he still doesn't know. Later he said that he went to work and wanted to give others a pair of good-looking sneakers.

I really can’t bear to hear such things.

That brand of shoes was very popular at the time and cost about 800 yuan. It’s not that it’s exorbitantly expensive, but I’m super unhappy.

I work part-time to make money to buy what I want. I am afraid that you will not spend enough and never tell me what I want. You are a lazy young man who never works part-time, but I never get the things you wish for me.

Nothing. unimportant. After all, we have no income. Moreover, I am not qualified to ask you to buy anything for me.

And you, finally going to work part-time, didn’t say you wanted to give me anything, but wanted to give the other person a pair of shoes?

Send, send, send, I’ll give you a big-headed ghost.

Then I had a long fight with him and almost broke up.

My ears are soft and my heart is soft. No points.

Shoes? No.

He is good at everything, but this is definitely a stain he will let me talk about for the rest of my life.

Although his money is his money, when he has the ability to express his emotions with material things, the first thing he thinks of is not me.

Sad, hurting my lungs, and even a little hurtful to my self-esteem - I really thought you loved me as much as you said you did.

However, from this incident, I have already seen my future views on marriage and love, that is,

It is okay to sleep with my man.

Spend my money? no !

Moreover, getting married is not the same as falling in love.

If two people get married in the future, your money and my money will be our joint property, and they are all our hard work for a relationship and a family.

If a man cheats on you, I will forgive you if I am happy. If you are unhappy, I will go back to sleep. If it doesn't work, I will break up or get divorced.

If the mistress can still spend money on you after I take control of your wallet, then I believe that you are true love, after all, she only wants you. You two are in love, you are true love, I can calmly let you go.

However, if the person who interferes with our relationship takes the money that we earned together, goes out to have fun, go wild, and be unrestrained, and then hurts me and deceives me, I Tell you, no.

Having taken possession of my people and spending my money, she is really going to heaven.

Imagine that you worked hard to make money with him to support your family, and you used wrinkles and bags under your eyes in exchange for some savings, making you old.

On your wedding anniversary, you are not willing to reward yourself. LV? Chanel? Forget it, just buy an A product and be happy.

Your child is clamoring for a toy, which costs a few hundred yuan. You think about it and say, forget it, making money is not easy, just buy a cheap one to fool you.

From the time you got married to now, you have been busy with your children, your elderly, and your career. Let alone vacation, you have not had a stable Sunday.

But what about the third party?

She took your card and swiped an LV, a Chanel, and wanted to swipe another pair of Jimmy Choo shoes. It cost her enough to buy a bunch of toys for your kids just to get a facial. She went to the Aegean Sea island of Phuket in the Maldives and stayed in a five-star hotel.

Really, are there few people like this? I discussed this issue with my boss before, and she said that she has a friend whose wife and children have immigrated abroad. My wife can save money and get a job abroad for 80,000 yuan. money car. Domestic mistresses will buy whichever car is easy to drive and which package is more expensive.

So, in the end, when you cheat, we have to divide the family property and clean it up. Is this really a simple matter of money?

Your hard work will shine on another person.

Your efforts have benefited another person.

Reluctantly.

I don’t know what everyone thinks about this kind of thing. If it were me, I would definitely press the mouthful of blood in my chest, ask the mistress to return the money and spit it out, and then spray the mouthful of blood on them. Face.

Maybe I am superficial and want love but also money. Without love, more money is needed.

Stop loving me, I have to get the money back. Cheap those who betrayed me and hurt me? dream.

The same goes for men.

Some people say that if you had really loved him, you would not have to separate everything from him. Even if you get divorced, you have to divide your bags and clothes. It is too tasteless and devoid of sympathy. Heart.

For example, in "The Divorce Lawyer", the lawyer played by Wu Xiubo discovered that his wife was cheating on him, but he actually left the house by himself.

This attitude and approach of true love is not something everyone can achieve. Without such a big heart, one cannot pretend to be generous.

Although I may not smoke anyone or upload anyone’s video, I must share the money.

I have no taste, I am low, I admit it, you can sleep with my man, but you still want to spend my money? Take the dog early.

It’s not just money. And my blood and sweat.

And in the end, money also became a means of venting - if you treat me like this, I don’t want to give you a penny. Don’t say anything else, I will split my underwear with you in half. Yes, I won’t give it to you even if I throw it away.

If you cheat with a mistress and the mistress turns to you, I can still comfort myself that you are attractive, and I can comfort myself by saying that I have good taste.

But if you cheat on me and still refuse to divorce me, you will have to spend money on the third party. This is simply an insult to me.

For so many years, you and I have not been able to make you evolve into a high-level emotional animal. Your rationality can't help but succumb to your lower body, your self-moral restraint is easily broken, and you are so easily defrauded of money and sex by others.

Even, plot against me.

Then, this is really my sorrow and my fault.

But even if I take off any emotional clothes, and any emotions that make me impulsive, and let us return to naked interests, I will get back what I deserve, and take back what originally belongs to me.

If there is no love, I want money. Clean up, and from now on, we all go our separate ways.

Now let’s talk about eating habits?

Sorry, I really can’t care about elegance.

Every girl is a little fairy, she must practice half affectionate and half sexy Wang Dachun ID: chun9276