Why am I so excited about dating my wife and lover and want to see their process?

People's preferences vary widely, and there are also such men in real life, called cuckolds or green slaves. Men with this hobby can be roughly divided into the following categories: the first category is to pursue higher-level stimulation, mainly psychological stimulation, and then cooperate with sensory stimulation. The second category is incompetence, and I hope my wife will be happy. The third category is because of their hobbies, such as voyeurism and eavesdropping, expecting their partners to have sex with other men.