If your partner cheated you, would you forgive him?

20 13, Mai? When I was pregnant with a second child, the article was exposed. Just when everyone thought that they were going to divorce, Ma Yi? Weibo responded: Although love is easy, marriage is not. Do it and cherish it.

On 20 16, Xie, who was pregnant, did not follow the competition and was photographed with a women's hotel in the Spring Festival Evening. Xie responded: No divorce, share joys and sorrows.

It can be seen that most women do not choose to divorce after their men cheat, but choose to forgive and continue to live with this man. What would you do if it were you?

In the face of marital infidelity, no matter what choice you make, you should ask yourself: What do you want from this marriage? See what people say about cheating.

Are you willing to forgive your husband for cheating?

I finished taking a shower. Oh, I really want to eat your lollipop.

My best friend is furious because there is such a short message on her husband's mobile phone, signed 10086.

I asked her: What are you going to do?

My girlfriend shook her head with a wry smile: he begged me not to leave and asked me if I was cheating. Can You Ever Forgive Me?

Go away! At that time, my girlfriend scolded me very hard, and she left home without crustily skin of head.

What should I do? My best friend looked at me with puzzled and tangled eyes.

I was speechless for a moment.

I found that most women around me have a clear attitude towards cheating, but they just delay making a decision.

If you want to forgive each other, but you are hesitant, I think you should ask yourself: Are you willing to trust him after cheating? Can you still understand him and reflect?

If you choose to forgive, he may cheat again or change his mind; Choose to break, and you will lose him.

This decision can only be made by you, and you should be mentally prepared!

Attention, friends from North, Guangzhou and Shenzhen,

Your husband's cheating rate is three times that of others.

Official website, a civil administration website, recently provided a set of married population data: in 20 17 years, the number of divorced couples nationwide was18.56 million, up 10.3% from last year.

Among them, the top four divorce rates are: North, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen! The first reason for divorce is-derailment!

I have met many people who are divorced, cheating, or struggling in a marriage in name only. Their feeling of being wrong, unwilling and unable to let go will not disappear because of habit, will or escape.

After experiencing pain and betrayal, we really realized such a problem:

Cheating is a microscope of marriage, showing the most vulnerable part of marriage naked and exposing your bad habits.

You are also responsible for the other party's derailment!

There are many cases of marital infidelity around me. My friend cheated, my friend's husband cheated and my friend's husband cheated?

The reasons for their derailment cannot escape the following points:

Flash marriage has no emotional foundation.

I am a classmate in high school. Know her husband for a week, get married and divorce for a month. Because there was never foreplay, she felt that she was not respected.

To make matters worse, her husband is still having an affair with someone else after marriage.

You don't know me at all.

The best friend has the most say in this matter. Her husband is a science man, more stable, not interesting.

I haven't received roses on my wedding anniversary, and I don't send watches or scarves on my birthday, every year.

My best friend is the kind of little woman who likes to have fun, and naturally she is uneasy about this state. My girlfriend later fell in love with the middle-aged uncle who sang in the bar. She is considerate and emotional, and she is out of control.

Later, I got lost, but this past has become a secret between us.

I'm on a business trip and I can't see anyone every day.

Among the people whose marriages are derailed, husbands often work overtime and travel. This situation is most likely to catch fire in the backyard.

I once confessed her extramarital affairs to me as a colleague.

Her husband runs the market and flies around for nearly ten months a year. Because of business trip and pregnancy, my mother came by train for two months.

He missed the birth of the child, missed every wedding anniversary, missed the Spring Festival, Chinese Valentine's Day and Mid-Autumn Festival of his birthday. Later, she said to her husband, that's enough.

At some point, I really want to cheat.

I don't know if you feel the same way, but sometimes I really have the urge to cheat.

For example, after giving birth, the first thing I see is my mother, when I quarrel with my mother-in-law, when I quarrel with my husband?

There was a moment when I was really disappointed with my other half and the status quo of my marriage. There was a moment when my emotions were stuck in my chest and I wanted to escape.

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How did you solve the problem after cheating or being cheated?

My friend Lili got divorced because her husband cheated on her. She told me that I tried to stay in this marriage, but I couldn't convince myself to accept this reality.

I can't accept betrayal in marriage. I don't even want to see him again after he cheated on me.

Although divorce is very painful, I am willing to bear the difficulties and pressures brought by divorce, because now I am very painful, but at least I am free.

In the face of marital infidelity, no matter what choice you make, you should ask yourself: What do you want from this marriage?

I know some people will choose forbearance, but they live in anxiety and anxiety all day. Once the trust between two people collapses, it is difficult to rebuild it.

Because when you have an injury experience, when your husband goes out or doesn't come home, you will subconsciously think: Is he fooling around with another woman again?

Some people begin to face up to the cracks in marriage, and they can be happy when they return to their families after cheating.

My friend Xiao C is a living example:

She also struggled for a long time before making a decision. That day, she appeared in front of her husband with evidence of adultery and said, I think it is necessary for us to have a good talk.

Should this marriage continue or end?

If we continue, we should all make adjustments. If it is finished, you can go through the formalities tomorrow.

After all, men are reluctant to part. They talked the most that day, and the next year, they had a child.

Cheating is the alchemy of marriage and the catalyst of feelings.

Cheating is the alchemy of marriage, which can make the defects of marriage appear in the most direct way.

Cheating is also a catalyst for feelings. When you really realize that there are cracks in your marriage, you have the will to re-examine the marriage relationship.

You start mending the relationship between two people. After all, many times, you didn't cheat because you couldn't go on.

The best relationship in marriage is not to be relatives of each other. After experiencing all kinds of difficulties and tests in life, you will find that the other person is not only your life partner, but also your soul partner.