Taboos and attention to marriage

marriage taboo and attention

marriage taboo and attention, marriage is very important for everyone, after all, one can only get married once in one's life. Traditional Chinese weddings have certain attention and opinions on many links and matters. Let's share the marriage taboo and attention below. Taboo and attention to marriage 1

On the wedding day, the bride's sister-in-law should avoid it

On the wedding day, all relatives and friends can send the bride out, but the bride's sister-in-law should avoid it, because "aunt" and "sister-in-law" are homonyms. Loneliness is loneliness, and everyone knows that there is a word "sweeping out the door", which means unlucky, so the bride's aunt should avoid it on the wedding day.

The bride will cry on the wedding day

When a woman marries, she means leaving her home, and then she will be a husband's family. When she marries, she must serve her in-laws, and she can no longer be as headstrong as before. It is inevitable to be sad to think of leaving her parents and brothers and sisters. In some places in rural areas, a woman's marriage is called "crying marriage". The more the bride cries, the better, because crying means "the more she cries, the more she gets home".

Avoid eating wedding cakes

Wedding cakes are a symbol of happiness, and the custom of distributing wedding cakes is intended to share the joy of wedding and convey the wedding news to every relative and friend through wedding cakes. The man usually sends wedding cakes to the woman's house, but the bride must never eat wedding cakes, which symbolizes eating her wedding joy.

avoid seeing pregnant women off

on the wedding day, pregnant women can't send them off when the bride goes out, because in ancient times, people thought that seeing pregnant women off would bring bad things to the couple, so pregnant women should avoid when the bride gets married. Pregnant women are not suitable to appear in the bridal procession, whether it is bad for the bride or the pregnant women themselves.

Don't marry. You can't get married

If it is written in the yellow calendar that it is forbidden to marry on the same day, then this day is not suitable for co-hosting banquets. I believe parents will also remind you of this. Although everyone thinks these things are a little feudal, they still have to be awed when they meet, so it is best not to be on this day.

China people have so many complicated steps before getting married, one is because of the sense of ceremony, and the other is to get blessings. So choose a good day, which is also the way for you to reap the blessings, and you reap the blessings of life. Taboos and attention to marriage 2

1. Don't go back. On the wedding day, the wedding car team should not go back. It is necessary to plan the route in advance and avoid unlucky places such as hospitals, crematoriums and funeral parlours. It is better to take a detour than to go back. 2. Pay attention to incense. When you get married, you should be pious in offering incense to your ancestors, pay solemn worship, and then plant incense. You can't pull it out and plug it in again, let alone break it, which will be unlucky, so you should be a little careful at the beginning.

3. No pockets are allowed in the bride's dress, and no pockets are allowed in the bride's wedding dress. This means that when the bride gets married, it will take away the wealth and good luck of the woman's family, so generally, no matter whether it is Chinese or Western-style dress, no pockets can appear.

4. When celebrating the wedding, my aunt should avoid it. From the traditional point of view, as an aunt, she should avoid it, otherwise it is not very auspicious, mainly because the homophonic is not very pleasant, so these people had better avoid it.

5. Pregnant women &; People involved in white affairs, in addition, for pregnant women and people who have white affairs at home or in Dai Xiao, it is best not to take part in the wedding reception and reception on the wedding day, and it is best not to go to the wedding room of the couple, let alone touch the wedding bed of the couple. This will be very unlucky. Although the couple can't say it directly, they should pay attention to it.

6. The bride can't eat wedding cakes on the wedding day. If you are hungry, you can fill your hunger with other foods, but never eat wedding cakes. This is very unlucky, which means that you will eat all your happiness and blessings, so it is also one of the prohibitions. 7. On the wedding day, even if the couple is tired and hard, the bride can't lie on the wedding bed casually, which is not very good for the future marriage. It is a very unlucky action and behavior to lie down once married, and it is also not in the eyes of her in-laws. Therefore, the bride should pay attention to this point. 8. On the wedding day, you can't step on the threshold and the groom's shoes. The threshold is because it is very unlucky to step on the threshold in some important occasions and ceremonies. Stepping on the groom's shoes refers to an act of disrespect for her husband. Therefore, on the wedding day, the bride should pay attention when walking, and you can't step on the threshold and the groom's shoes. 9. No one can use a fan on the wedding day. The homonym of the fan means "scattered", so on the wedding day, fans are generally not allowed to appear, so as not to be unlucky, suggesting that the couple will be scattered later

1. When getting married, avoid Tomb-Sweeping Day, the Mid-Autumn Festival and the Winter Solstice, and try to avoid white things to worship the grave, and don't choose June and a half, which is the saying of a half-moon wife. Refers to the couple's short stay

11. The traditional crying marriage is a sign of good luck. Some people say that the more you cry, the more developed you will be in the future. However, when you arrive at the husband's in-law's house, you must never cry again. No matter whether you are moved or too excited, you just can't cry any more, which will be a bit unlucky.

12. The bride's three-time return visit cannot be forgotten. You must also return to your wedding room before sunset in the afternoon

13. On the wedding day, never say goodbye means seeing you later, which means second marriage, so on the wedding day, everyone should avoid the word goodbye

14. Before and after marriage, you must never give your wedding room to others to live in or let others sleep in your bridal bed. This is not very auspicious, suggesting that there will be outsiders invading. For newly married couples, It's not a good thing

15. On the wedding day, the new couple's clothes must be brand-new items, from the inside out, and their shoes must be replaced. It is very unlucky to wear old shoes in ancient times, so we should pay attention to avoiding wedding taboos and paying attention to 3

1. Pay attention to marriage

1. After deciding on the wedding day, we will start to book a hotel banquet.

then you have to settle down first. Of course, the man is responsible for buying a house and decorating it. The decoration will take at least two months, and it usually starts after the engagement. After the decoration, the furniture in the room is purchased by the man, and everything else is dressed by the woman. All the things with plugs and decorations, as well as kitchen cabinets and bedding, are handled by the woman.

2. Take wedding photos. To choose a good time,

March is the best time to take wedding photos, with good weather and beautiful scenery. Make a reservation early, because everyone is rushing to go at a good time. Nowadays, 3W, ancient photography, fashion spring and Zhongtian private photography studio (just heard recently) are all good, changing the stereotyped style of Vivian bride. It's best to make a reservation while doing activities. There are many things to send and the price will be relatively cheap. When taking photos, it is recommended to follow your own preferences. Don't listen to the makeup artist's advice easily. They are all beneficial and generally have nothing to recommend. Another point to note is that when choosing a photo studio, it is clear that the number of photos registered (generally 5, some of which are too few) and the unit price of each additional photo studio are still very different. The high one is 5, and the low one is 3. Finally, the difference in total price is still

3. Wedding dresses.

Nowadays, many people buy wedding dresses, and it is good to have time. After all, it is much cheaper to buy them in Suzhou and Shanghai, but it should be noted that the quality in Suzhou is generally not good. There is also a lot of travel expenses for a trip. Let's compare which is more cost-effective than renting or buying. If you rent it, the distribution of several stores in Wenzhou now is like this: some rents like Broadway and wedding dress workshops are very expensive, and some wedding dress workshops are quite unique, that is, the price is expensive, and the beautiful evening dresses generally cost more than 3,. It is certain that the three pieces add up to more than 1,. Some Broadway ones cost tens of thousands. Just wear it for one night, it's so expensive, and the money is really wronged. I feel that there is a dream palace wedding dress in Chaiqiao Lane, which is not bad, the price is affordable, and the things are fine. You don't have to worry about the toasting procedure on your wedding day. The photographer of the etiquette company knows these routines well, and he will instruct you how to toast while filming. Just follow them.

4. A gift from the woman to the man's family.

(1) sweet potato ye sweet potato Niang. You have to buy gifts for both the sweet potato master and the sweet potato woman. When it was summer, I bought a crocodile T-shirt for the sweet potato master and a necklace for the sweet potato mother. Buy a pair of shoes for the sweet potato master and sweet potato mother, especially sweet potato mother, and put a pair of socks in the shoes. The homonym of "shoes and socks" in Wenzhou dialect means that she can help you with housework in her spare time.

(2) The brothers and sisters of Sweet Potato Niang are also the uncle and aunt of the man. Usually everyone buys a quilt or quilt cover and other bedding, and the price is usually two or three hundred yuan.

(3) brothers and sisters of the man. People who have brothers usually buy a shirt or other clothes. Sisters are usually rings or necklaces. Spouses of brothers and sisters are regarded as brothers or sisters.

5. Preparation a few days before marriage.

(1) Photographing car rental fireworks, but these are not related to the etiquette companies that are all-inclusive now.

(2) Master of ceremonies. Please look at your personal preference uninvited. I always feel that if you have a lot of banquets, the emcee will be busy for half a day. Don't think about it until 12 o'clock in the evening. If you wait, people can't wait. It's ok if the master of ceremonies is well invited, but if the level is too poor or something else, it will ruin the wedding atmosphere.

(3) Book a makeup artist.

Before the wedding, the bride just needs to get a facial and exfoliate. If she has makeup, she won't have to get up so early on the wedding day. Now, beauticians come directly to the house after 9: to get their hair done and nails done, and then eat. After this lunch, the next meal will not be until the next day's lunch. Here, I want to remind everyone that they still have to eat enough, hehe. . . Then it takes more than an hour for the makeup artist to put on the wedding dress, shawl, makeup and hairstyle when he gets home at one o'clock. I would like to remind you that you should pay attention to inform the makeup artist in advance what color and style your wedding dress is, so that she can prepare headdresses with the same color and style.

The man is almost the same, and it is not as troublesome as the woman. At 4 o'clock, the groom and the best man will leave for the woman's home to pick up the bride (it is getting earlier and earlier now, because many couples in hotels usually get married at the same time, and now the bride arrives early in order to grab the feng shui, instead of waiting for the bride as in the past). After the bride arrives, the bridesmaids will try some tricks to embarrass the groom, and finally, of course, the red envelopes will be settled before opening the door. Here we talk about getting off the bus. We rent a car here in Wenzhou, and we must hand in cigarettes, otherwise some bad drivers will drive fast and slow on purpose, so that there will be no queues, and the video will not look good.

Next, another bus will drive to the hotel, then there will be a lion dance, and then a red envelope will be given (the red envelope is 1 yuan for one person, with a total of ***6). Next, some groomsmen will spray the newlyweds and bridesmaids with that kind of spray ribbon. It is suggested that the bride put down her veil, while the bridesmaid suggested preparing an old dress with a hat and putting it on before going in, hehe. The last level is, of course, a toast. This is the most important thing. Of course, it varies from person to person. Let's give full play to each other, so it's not necessary here. We should also pay attention to the fact that the bride in the middle needs to change her wedding dress and hairstyle. It should also be noted that now it is the man who gives the woman four tables of banquets, including red envelopes. The extra banquets are the women's own responsibility, and the red envelopes are of course collected by their parents.

2. wedding taboos

1. avoid eating wedding cakes

wedding cakes are a symbol of happiness. the custom of distributing wedding cakes is intended to share the joy of wedding and convey the wedding news to every relative and friend through wedding cakes. When giving a big gift, the bride should remember not to eat the wedding cake sent by the man, because it symbolizes eating her joy and should be taboo.

2. Avoid secondary incense

Many traditional families will offer incense to their ancestors or gods when they marry their daughters. In addition to offering cakes, the woman should also pay attention to not inserting the incense head askew. If it is askew, don't pull it out and insert it again, because secondary incense means remarriage, which is unlucky for the newlyweds.

3. Don't allow the groom to sleep alone in the wedding bed

New quilts, new pillows, new bedding ... impeccably dressed wedding beds should be placed until the eve of the wedding night. In this process, it is forbidden for the groom-to-be to sleep alone in the new bed, because this means loneliness after marriage, which is very unlucky. If the groom really has no other place to rest, he can find a big zodiac and an underage boy to sleep with him, such as a dragon in the zodiac.

4. Don't say "goodbye"

When the relatives and friends leave after the wedding, neither the newlyweds nor their relatives and friends can say "goodbye" because the word "goodbye" has the meaning of parting and parting, which is very bad for the newlyweds. Therefore, when the newcomers send guests, they should nod or wave goodbye.

5. Avoid visiting

The taboo that brides don't need to visit relatives and friends on their honeymoon has been handed down from ancient times. Because most people have a taboo psychology towards the bride in the honeymoon, they think it is unlucky for others, and this ominous feeling can not be eliminated until after January, so the bride can't drop in on her honeymoon. In particular, some relatives and friends with elderly people should pay special attention not to visit during the honeymoon period.

6. Avoid seeing pregnant women off

On the wedding day, pregnant women can't send them off when the bride goes out, because in ancient times, people thought that pregnant women symbolized lotus flower, which would bring lotus flower disaster to the couple, so pregnant women should avoid when the bride gets married. Moreover, when the bride goes out, fireworks are often set off, and there are many people, the scene is crowded and noisy, and the air is turbid. For the sake of pregnant women's health, they should not be allowed to join the farewell party.

7. Avoid staying at home for three days after marriage

In traditional Chinese customs, the groom will accompany his wife back home three days after marriage, which is called "returning home". It should be noted that on the day of "returning to the door", you must return to your husband's house before sunset, so as to avoid the husband and wife staying at home together, because it is generally believed that this will bring bad luck to your family. In case they can't go home for special reasons, the couple should also sleep separately to try to resolve the ominous feeling.