The bride price is500,000 yuan, and the mother-in-law will temporarily increase the price when changing the wedding. Do you agree with men's divorce?

Zeng Guofan said: Talk about marriage, and seek a family of diligence and filial piety. Love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families. Marriage and mate selection must be based on personality and family style. It is acceptable to be poor. However, if the family style is not correct, you must not!

When men and women talk about marriage, they need two families to discuss it. In this process, they can see through many things, such as each other's family style, such as the future partner's personality. People with decent family style do things openly and honestly, don't hide anything, and don't calculate in the process of marriage. When two people are about to enter the besieged city of marriage, all their advantages and disadvantages will be exposed to each other. Playing tricks is actually being smart and digging your own grave.

A netizen once asked me, what should I do if I find out that the other party lied to me when I got married? In fact, when he asked me, he had his own answer. Whether men or women, the impact of marriage on life is unparalleled. If we can turn back, even if we turn back, we can avoid greater losses.

Personality is very important to the people you work with all your life. In the process of marriage, it is inevitable that interests will not be mixed, but it is a sign of personality defects to over-calculate each other in pursuit of interests. Everyone wants each other to fall in love with themselves, not their own money.

Wan You, a 32-year-old netizen, expressed his attitude when talking about this matter. He said that his wife must marry a virtuous man, and the pain left by his predecessor was also caused by money. Although it happened temporarily at the wedding, it still made him unforgettable.

The long-winded bride price made me a little disappointed in my girlfriend.

Wan You Zhi and his girlfriend Chen Jingjing met under the introduction of the matchmaker. He is eight years older than the girl, and his work and family background are better than her. He is satisfied with the girl's appearance and personality. He has prepared a wedding room for the wedding, just waiting for the bride to appear.

Because of the bride price, some problems appeared in the process of talking about marriage. The future father-in-law thinks Jingjing is the only daughter in the family. Although their family is a little poor, if a man wants to marry his daughter, he must show sincerity, at least the bride price should not be less than 200 thousand.

Wan Youzhi can't afford this 200,000 yuan, but he is embarrassed for two reasons. First, he doesn't want it from his parents. Second, he spent almost all his savings to buy the wedding room, and the rest wanted to decorate the house and prepare for the wedding.

He discussed with the girl to see if she could give 65,438+10,000 yuan first, and then give her mother-in-law 65,438+10,000 yuan when the bonus is paid at the end of the year. But then her mother-in-law laughed at him for not knowing the world. How can it make sense to pay the bride price by installment?

It is difficult for a man to ride a tiger. For this complicated bride price, he risked his life to borrow 1.5 million from his friends, and finally passed his mother-in-law. But his girlfriend kept silent all the time, which made him feel vaguely disappointed.

The agreed fee was temporarily changed at the wedding.

Among all the miscellaneous things, men and girls finally came to the wedding. However, in the process of changing fees, her mother-in-law has changed new tricks. Originally, it was agreed that each parent would pay 1000 yuan, but she asked all parents to prepare 1 1000 yuan for the couple, which is one in a million.

This means that the man's parents have to prepare 22,000 yuan for the daughter-in-law who is about to go through the door, and his parents-in-law will give him so much money.

He felt a little bored, but the wedding had reached this stage, and it was not cost-effective to make a fuss about it, so he temporarily asked his friends to help him withdraw 22 thousand. But when it comes to calling parents, only the in-laws take out cash, and the in-laws only give a card, saying that the money is in the card, which is the same. He didn't take it personally.

He gave the card to the bride casually, hoping that she could keep it. Anyway, he will be a family in the future, and he is not going to haggle over money with his wife.

The bride's words exposed her mother-in-law's careful thoughts, and the groom turned against her and wanted to break off the marriage.

The bride was very happy when she got 22,000 yuan from her in-laws. The groom handed her the card her parents gave her. She said it was an empty card. If a man is sincere, he should exchange money for himself. Wan Youzhi was stunned at that time. He took the card and swiped it. Sure enough, there is no money in it. He reacted that it was the mother-in-law who took an empty card to cover the man's change fee.

According to the idea of the woman's family, it is time to get married, and the groom will admit that he is dumb even if he knows that Cary has no money afterwards. Isn't it just a little money? With his financial resources, he should not care and pursue.

However, what everyone didn't expect was that Wan Youzhi's life was not easy in this matter. At this time, his face became very ugly. He not only threw the empty card in front of the girl, but also tore off the corsage on his chest and announced that the wedding with the girl was over. He didn't want this marriage which lacked respect and trust, so he decided to break it off.

The groom asked the woman to return 200 thousand bride price and share all the expenses of the wedding. Despite the bride's crying and retention, he took the man's family with him at the wedding and resolutely left.

Groom: We are not short of money, what we lack is respect.

More than 20 thousand yuan is nothing to a man, but my mother-in-law's tricks at the wedding banquet and the girl's deliberate concealment, and finally she actually asked for cash, all exposed the greed of this family. Most importantly, this man thinks that since her husband's family dares to exchange empty card sets for fees, it shows that they don't care about themselves at all.

He said angrily, "I can still make money without money." I filed for divorce because I found that I lacked the feeling of being respected in front of the woman. " We are not short of money, what we lack is a respect. "

Although the wedding was very unpleasant, the woman still refused to give up and asked someone to come and talk, but the man made up his mind. He insisted that he had met a bad guy and had never been familiar with the girl's family before. He also wants to make it clear through what happened at the wedding. Since he is not the same person, don't go into a house. There are good and bad.

Later, the girl's parents told everyone that Wan Youzhi suffered for his children and lost face, and the girl's reputation would be damaged in the future. Wan Youzhi smiled bitterly after listening: "Who do I complain about my wasted time and energy?" What she and her family did really puzzled me, and I'm not going to explain it to others. "

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Zeng Guofan once said: "If a gentleman wants to stand, he must first Dont Ask For Help." . People who know you don't need to explain, and people who don't know you don't need to explain.

There is no absolute right or wrong in marriage, but we can get a glimpse of the family style and personality of the woman from this wedding. It is natural for a man to be disappointed that there is a gap between the woman he wants to marry and the woman he wants to go home. Timely stop loss is also a wise choice.

The greed shown by mother-in-law and girls is boring, while what men desire is only reciprocity and respect. The agreed change fee is just a form, but people with ulterior motives hold the mentality of taking advantage of the money, and the result is a big loss.

Everything for others is actually to leave an inch for yourself. Those who have to calculate all corners may eventually lose more.