Famous saying of dealing with people: how many people's relationships change because of other people's mouths.

Famous saying of dealing with people: how many people's relationships change because of other people's mouths.

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There are two girls, one is very beautiful, she can sing and dance since she was a child, and her achievements are outstanding. She is the pride of her parents and the darling of her teachers. The other girl is very ordinary, with no special skills and poor grades. She is often bullied by her classmates and rejected by her parents. But every time an ordinary girl is bullied, a beautiful girl will appear in time to tell everyone that she is her best friend, and whoever bullies her will have a hard time with herself.

This beautiful girl has an unparalleled position in the class. People stopped bullying her when they saw her defending ordinary girls. As a result, the two became very good friends and agreed to be good sisters for life.

Later, this beautiful girl was admitted to a famous university. After graduating from graduate school, she entered the best local company. Because she is beautiful and sought after by many people, she is dazzled and doesn't know who to choose. Later, a handsome boy captured her heart.

They soon fell in love. Soon after, she became pregnant. When she told the boy shyly, she thought he would propose. Unexpectedly, after hearing the news, the other person's face suddenly became very dignified. After a long time, she said: we are still young and have no foundation. This child is not suitable. Stop it!

She couldn't bear to abort her first child, thinking that both of them had good jobs and it was more than enough to raise a child. Why did you stop? The boy frowned and said, I don't want to be tied up by children so early. I don't want to get married yet

She was shocked. She always thought that their love was for marriage, but she never thought that the other party would get married. She told the boy that after the baby was born, she would ask her mother to come and help him, which would not have much influence on him. Besides, the children are cute. They are both handsome and beautiful. This child's face value must be very high. How many people want to survive?

But no matter how happy she described her future life, the boy insisted on refusing to accept the child and let her choose between him and the child.

She cried for a long time, and finally, accompanied by an ordinary girl, she went to the hospital and took her first child away.

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About a year later, she became pregnant again. When she told each other carefully, there was no joy in her brow. What she said was exactly the same as a year ago: we are not suitable for having children yet!

This time, she fought back. She said that she must have this baby. Since the first child was taken away, she has often dreamed about that child. This time, no matter what, she won't strangle her child again.

Seeing that she was so determined, the boy told her bluntly that if she had to give birth to this child, she would not be responsible. If she really wants this child, she must think clearly.

Before she could give any answer, the other party disappeared, just like disappearing out of thin air.

She is in pain, but she has to face all the problems alone. Unmarried, pregnant, and unable to go to the company, she resigned on the pretext that she was in poor health and needed to recuperate. After working for several years, although I have a little savings, after having children, my expenses will inevitably increase, and I dare not let my parents know that I am pregnant before marriage.

In desperation, she had to call the ordinary girl. Ordinary girls take care of her without saying anything, comfort her, tidy her up, make her happy and take care of her in every possible way.

/kloc-She gave birth to a big fat son after she got pregnant in 0/0 month. Looking at this little life, she was both happy and sad. Happily, there is another person in the world who is related to her by blood. Sadly, the child lost his father's love from birth, and the road to growth in the future will be very difficult.

The ordinary girl comforted her: No matter what happens in the future, she will definitely continue to take care of their mother and son and bring up the children together.

She was moved to tears. The ordinary girl said that we are good sisters. I won't stand by if you have anything. At that time, you did the same to me. I will never forget your kindness to me.

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Ordinary girls at that time were only admitted to junior college. After graduation, she entered a small company to do odd jobs. She knows that she is not smart or outstanding, and her mind is always dull. When she reached the age of marriage and love, she didn't expect Gao Fushuai to have a crush on her. She just chose a spouse according to her good character. Under the introduction of a friend, she married an ordinary man like her, and felt that it was not bad to live a dull life.

Later, the company where the man worked had to lay off employees because of poor efficiency, and the man was on the list. After unemployment, after a short period of depression, men feel that they are too ordinary to find a job again. Let's do a little business!

He used his savings to open a fast food restaurant and began to cook fast food for nearby companies. Because of his honesty and kindness, he chose fresh and sufficient materials and delicious food, which was very popular. Many companies have ordered meals from him, and even companies a little farther away have been here. Business is so good, he mobilized his wife to resign to help, and recruited several guys to deliver meals.

In less than two years, it became the most famous fast food restaurant in the area. The number of boys has also increased from four to more than thirty. The business of several fast food restaurants is deserted, and they can no longer operate. He opened two restaurants nearby and began to develop other restaurants.

Six years later, they have accumulated tens of millions of assets, borrowed a sum of money from the bank and started to develop the hotel industry. Men come from ordinary classes and are well aware of the habits and trends of mass consumption. This hotel is quite successful and has become one of the hottest hotels in the area. Later, two hotel chains were opened one after another.

Ordinary girls never dreamed that they would have such a day. After getting rich, their lives have not changed much, and they are as simple and low-key as ever.

When beautiful girls ask for help, the life of ordinary girls is not what it used to be. When her good friend was in trouble, she began to take care of their mother and son without saying anything. This kind of care lasted for three years, and the man never said anything because he was always kind.

Their feelings are not sisters, but better than sisters, which makes people jealous.

After the children were sent to kindergarten, the beautiful girl came out to work again. Once, she met an acquaintance in the hospital and was asked how she was doing. She didn't hide it, and her gratitude to the ordinary girl was beyond words.

The other party smiled inscrutable: You are too simple to be cheated by men, and now you are cheated by women. You think she really helped you. In the past, you were beautiful and radiant, which made people look pale. Now the tables are turned, and it's someone else's turn to enjoy the scenery. You are in trouble. I'm just helping you prove that you are better off now.

Beautiful girls don't want to believe it, but these words are branded in their minds and pop up from time to time. She loved him so much that she didn't know anyone, so will she be blind now?

Since this idea took root, she has had a bad feeling about ordinary girls. Every time the other person comes to see her, she feels that the other person is coming to show off. With bad feelings in my heart, my feelings are naturally no longer so close.

Ordinary girls don't know why she is like this. After several inquiries, she said nothing.

As the children grow up, the two become more and more alienated. The original close sisterhood eventually drifted away because of a few words from others.

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There is also a story about a couple who have a very good relationship and meet their parents to get married.

Once, a girl met her boyfriend's friend, and the other party asked when she would get married, and the girl told him truthfully. My friend smiled and said, it's great to see you get married. When Dalong was lovelorn last time, he said that he would never love anyone again in his life and would never get married. I'm afraid he is serious. Now I am happy for him to find happiness again.

The friend said happily, but the girl's heart suddenly sank and asked, Did he really say that he would never love anyone again and never get married again?

Friends don't doubt him: yes, I was young at that time, and I felt sorry for him, but didn't I break up at last?

The girls smiled and said goodbye to each other. When she turned around, her face was horribly gloomy. All she could think about was: how deep was their love at that time? What happened between them? Does he love her more than me?

A relationship that should have gone to marriage, because of some words of others, more suspicions and bad feelings, can't go to perfection in the end, which is embarrassing.

In this world, how many people's feelings have changed because of someone else's words? We hate those who unintentionally or intentionally sow discord.

However, please don't forget that it is always two parties, not others, who can lead the emotional trend. We have our own ears. Why should we believe what others say? We have our own eyes, why don't we believe what we see? We still have a heart, why not feel it with your heart?

I like a sentence very much: if you are not deaf or blind, then don't understand me through other people's mouths. Please understand me with your own heart. Similarly: since I am neither deaf nor blind, why should I know people around me through other people's mouths? It's good to listen to others, but only if I know how to tell the difference.

Talk about helpless love; How many relationships have changed because of other people's mouths?

1, some love is a nail, which will grow back after being cut off. It doesn't matter. And some love is teeth, which makes people unable to extricate themselves. What tortures people is not separation, but memories. You stand where you are and think you can go back, but there are thousands of kinds of love in the world, and there has never been one, so you can start over.

We all stumble and grow up in time, and then leave the original appearance little by little.

The advantage of taking photos is that when life is a little cold, you can use memories to keep warm. Unfortunately, some important people didn't take a picture with you until they left.

Life tells us that there are never perfect people and things in this world. Too perfect feelings only happen in fairy tales and imagination. The normal state of reality, in addition to being dull, is riddled with holes and reborn after robbery.

5, perhaps, turn around to forget, but turn around and find that there is a heartbreak called missing.

6. How many people's relationships have changed because of other people's mouths? I don't know who killed me, but I cherish people who like me, and I avoid people who don't like me. If you have eyes, please don't understand me with your ears Time is really a good thing. I proved the correctness and witnessed the mistake. I am who I am. I don't like wearing masks. Maybe you are awesome, but I may not care about you!

7. In love, the worst thing is selfishness, the worst thing is greed and the worst thing is indulgence.

8. Pain, but feelings; Hurt, but mind. Serious enough to be dead set, but defeated; Committed to leaving no room, but cold forgot to cry. Expecting to be taken seriously, but being ranked last; Come with hope, but return with disappointment. Behind every long-term love, there will be a person who can stand it especially.

9. Sometimes, if you don't take the initiative, you will get hurt. Don't love yourself too much for people who are not suitable, and you will be sad. When tenderness is gone, when all efforts are gone, all we can do is dry our tears and leave our affection to ourselves.

10, please yourself rather than try to please others. It is better to live in a live high world than to live in other people's opinions.

1 1, are you experiencing such an emotion, a feeling that you can't let go, a person you can't forget but can't love. That kind of unforgettable love bears painful thoughts every day. This kind of love is the most tormenting. You are deeply attached to it, but you can only realize the existence of love in your thoughts and love it to the depths.

12, there are some things that some people can't forget, which has nothing to do with the length of time and the quality of their new love. Time and new love can only heal the pain, but they can't fill the shortcomings in their hearts. Therefore, don't stubbornly let go, really let go, not work hard; Don't forget again. True forgetting is not intentional.

13, I still can't control my unforgettable memory of him, but I won't have any expectations for him. I admit that I still love him, but I don't like him anymore. Loving a person is pride, not humility, and the feelings won are doomed not to last long.

14. Work hard, live a good life, be a lovely person and be a shining person. Do not make do with it, do not rely on it, have deep feelings for past sufferings, but never look back. Good morning ~

15. In life, people can put down their status and despise money, but the emotion of love cannot be relaxed and unrestrained. Perhaps it is the charm of love, or perhaps it is the persistence of love. No matter who they are, no matter how strong their hearts are, once they encounter the feelings of love, as long as they really love each other, whether this feeling is right or wrong, whether this love can be owned or not, they can't extricate themselves.

16, I really want to forget everything in the past, but I know it's impossible. After all, giving is real, and so is love. How can you forget if you forget? Some things, once serious, will be remembered; Some people, once in love, will never forget it. Don't ask how to forget, as long as you put your heart into it, you will never forget it.

17, the real charm of a person is not that you left a good first impression on the other party; It's that the other person still likes being with you after knowing you for many years; It's not that you instantly attract each other's attention; It's that the other person appreciates you after getting acquainted with you, and it's not that there is a feeling of brief encounter after meeting for the first time; But after the vicissitudes of life, I sincerely confide: it's good to know you!

18, the person you gave up or the person who gave up on you called you in the middle of the night and turned off the phone after hanging up. If he stays by the window, remember to close the curtains. It's not that you are cruel, but that there will be cracks after any breakup, and no matter how good it is, it's not the same.

19, not more and more realistic, but more and more like the feeling of being practical, so I like what I can see and touch. Those things are not. I don't care anymore.

A famous saying about dealing with people.

1, the first time you dare to laugh at yourself, it shows that you are mature.

2, the ups and downs of life is an invisible meat cleaver, giving everyone a statue.

Don't refuse people casually, and don't promise people casually. Don't make a wish, don't keep people's appetite, and don't try to be brave in meaningless things.

4. Don't force guests to look at your family photo album.

5. Friendship can never be a transaction; On the contrary, it needs the most thorough concept of selflessness.

6. Self-criticism always makes people believe, but self-praise is not.

7. Nothing can improve your bowling performance like a bystander. So, don't be stingy with your cheers.

8. Politeness is the golden key of human beings. Friends are the sky, the earth, the indomitable spirit, the wind, the rain and the power.

9. Big things don't mess up, small things don't leak, take them when you should take them, and put them down when you should put them down. Being a man, knowing how to bear is courage, and letting go is wisdom!

10, I don't need to be the subject.

1 1, do your best for others and finally do your best for yourself.

12, good words can arouse the goodwill of others; Bad words will arouse others' evil thoughts. Say one more good word and add one more kindness. Be kind, speak well, do good deeds and make good friends.

13, for things, not people; Or be ruthless about things and have feelings for people; Or do first and do second.

14, every milestone in life is engraved with two words.

15, no one is rich, but he is too great to need friends.

16, people should respect themselves, and then people should respect themselves.

17, people, like people, should always be upward and down-to-earth.

18. If a person abandons a loyal friend, it is equivalent to abandoning his most precious life.

19, don't open your heart without knowing the details of the other party.

20. To take a good road tomorrow, we must remember the road we took yesterday and think about the road we took today.

2 1, one should strive for perfection in the field of learning; In the industrial and commercial society, we should communicate vertically and horizontally; Talking and laughing in interpersonal space; Peace of mind in loneliness!

22. If your reasons are justified, don't be afraid to refuse others.

23, blindfolded, does not mean that the world is dark; Blindfold others' eyes, does not mean that the light is your own.

24. Be a mirror and always look at yourself; Be a man like a box, you can lift it freely at any time; Be yourself and keep a record of your merits and demerits; Like a candle, always illuminate others; Be a man like a clock and cherish every minute of your life.

25. Although a broken friendship can be restored, it can no longer reach the level of intimacy.

26. There are four kinds of people in the world: scum, manpower, talents and figures. We should despise scum, be unwilling to be outdone, envy talents and strive to be figures!

27, move with emotion, treat it with courtesy, establish it with virtue, and return it to the public. Be honest, be strict with yourself, persevere and help others with love. To be a man, you should know that people's hearts are easy to convince others with virtue, but it is difficult to convince others with strength!

28. Friendship is like a bottle of wine. The longer the storage time, the higher the value. And once unsealed, it will be enough for an alcoholic to drink too much.

29. Friends are wealth and health is capital.

30. Tolerance and helping others are good ways to get along with others. Gratitude is the virtue pursued by personality; Generosity and honesty are the basis of being a man and doing things.

3 1. Self-discipline, affinity for others, tolerance for life, diligence in knowledge, patience with difficulties and motivation for success!

32, pragmatic, this is the principle of employing people; Be reasonable, this is the principle of being a man; Honor and disgrace and * * *, this is the principle of making friends; Fear of death is the principle of being a man.

33. Things are valuable only if they can be used; People are useful only if they can be used. Do things with all your heart, and be conscientious!

Applause for everyone who sings on the stage.

35. Seeing the pride of others is actually inferiority.

36. Be self-reliant and don't be swayed by other people's words and deeds; One should respect oneself and not be discouraged by difficulties. Be confident in the face of setbacks and be proud in the face of failure!

37. Opening your eyes does not mean facing reality.

38. Do things slowly, don't be too hasty and make mistakes; It's better to be stupid than to be too smart and fail. Doing things can fail, but being a man can't fail; You can fail in the past and not in the future!

39. The natural enemy of interpersonal relationships is speculation, and cracking passwords is sincere!

40, frustrated, don't care; Prosperity and adversity never stop. Be kind to yourself and be very happy; Be kind to others and be extremely happy; Be kind to life and be extremely healthy.

4 1, do things, do good things, do good things, do useful things; Be a good person, be a good person, be a good person, be an excellent person. Do things, strive for diligence in work, and strive for Excellence in results; To be a man, you should have noble beliefs and self-discipline.

Anyone who wants to get help when he is in trouble should be tolerant of others on weekdays.

43. Don't borrow money from your friends. I think many times I lost my good friend because of money.

44. Without mutual harmony, there will be no prosperity of life.

Respect parents, be kind to children, be generous to relatives and friends, and be polite to the public. Treat feelings with understanding; Treat friendship with a persistent heart!

46. If you don't make a name for yourself, sarcasm will disappear; Do more practical things, and honor will come unexpectedly. Be free, independent, self-reliant, not conceited, not conceited, not conceited!

47. Be a man before you do anything. Only when it is in place can we do things successfully.

48. Be sensible, sensible and content. Knowing reason means knowing the truth of being a man and grasping the duty of being a man; Proper limit is to grasp the discretion and be able to relax; Contentment means not being captured by material desires and being content with doing nothing!

49. If you love yourself sincerely, you can love others more sincerely.

50, all good things, start from yourself; All the good things come from my mouth; All good deeds are developed from my heart; All my friends sincerely respect me.

5 1, bones should be strong, qi should be soft, ambition should be big, courage should be small, heart should be empty, words should be true, wisdom should be increased, and blessings should be cherished. A man should communicate with courtesy and righteousness, and discipline himself with shame!

52. Ten taboos for being a man: avoid vanity, laziness, arrogance, rudeness, greed, selfishness, dishonesty, evil persistence, disloyalty and lying.

53. Treat people with peace and principle, treat things clearly and decisively, and treat things with integrity, simplicity and understanding. You are aboveboard without prejudice in your heart, and aboveboard without yourself in your heart.

54. Judging others is actually a lack of self-affirmation.

55. Be expert and broad-minded. You can work part-time, but only full-time. Be an innocent person, do things with your heart, not seeking perfection, but seeking perfection!

56. Respect people who don't like you.

57. Have knowledge, responsibility, wisdom, make friends, study hard, be cautious, live diligently, aim high and be full of enthusiasm!

58. Rude people are not born, rude things are not successful, and rude countries are not at peace. Be polite, respect people, respect people, respect people!

59. A gentleman and a gentleman are friends with the same way; Villains and villains are like-minded friends.

As long as you are willing to praise others, you are the biggest winner.

Can't talk about love; How many people's relationships have changed because of other people's mouths.

1, some love is nails, which will grow back after being cut off, which is related to itching. And some love is teeth, which makes people unable to extricate themselves. What tortures people is not separation, but memories. You stand where you are and think you can go back, but there are countless kinds of love in the world, and there is never one that you can start over.

2. We all stumble and grow up in time, and then separate the final appearance bit by bit.

The advantage of taking photos is that you can remember to keep warm when your life is a little cold. The most regrettable thing is that some important people didn't take photos with you until they broke up.

Life tells us that there are never perfect people and things in this world. Too perfect feelings only appear in fairy tales and imagination. The ideal normal state, in addition to being dull, is riddled with holes and reborn after robbery.

5, perhaps, turn around to forget, but turn around and find that there is a heartbreak called nostalgia.

6. How many people's relationships have changed because of other people's mouths? I don't know who killed me, but I cherish people who like me, and I avoid people who don't like me. If you have eyes, please don't understand me with your ears Kung fu is really a good thing. I proved the correctness and witnessed the mistake. I am who I am. I don't like wearing masks. Maybe you are awesome, but I may not care about you!

7. In love, the worst thing is selflessness, the worst thing is greed and the worst thing is connivance.

8. Pain, but feelings; Hurt, but mind. Be careful to be dead set, but lost; Quietly focused, but cold forgot to cry. I hope to be valued, but I am ranked first; Come with hope, but return with despair. In front of every lasting love, there will be a person who can stand it especially.

9, sometimes, don't be too automatic, you will get hurt. Don't love the wrong person too much, it will be sad. When meekness stops, when all our efforts are wasted, all we can do is dry our tears and leave our feelings to ourselves.

10, please yourself rather than try to please others. It is better to live in your own world than to live in other people's opinions.

1 1, are you experiencing such an emotion, a feeling you can't let go of, a person you can't forget but can't love? That kind of unforgettable love is painful, torturous and attached to people every day, but you can only understand the existence of love in your thoughts and love it to the depths.

12, what some people can't forget is related to the length of time and the quality of new love. Time and new love can only heal the pain, but they can't fill the shortcomings in their hearts. Therefore, don't stubbornly let go, really let go, not hard work; Don't forget again, the real forgetting is not intentional.

13, I still can't control my unforgettable memory of him, but I won't wait for him. I admit that I still love him, but I don't like him anymore. Loving a group is pride, not humility, and the feelings won are doomed to be unsustainable.

14. Work hard, live a good life, be a beloved person and be a shining person. Do not make do with it, do not rely on it, have deep feelings for past sufferings, but never look back. Good morning ~

15. In life, people can put down their bodies and look down on money, but the emotion of love cannot be chic. Perhaps it is the charm of love, or perhaps it is the persistence of love. No matter who they are, no matter how fragile their hearts are, once they encounter the feelings of love, they just need to love deeply, no matter whether this feeling is right or wrong, and whether this love can be owned or not, they can't extricate themselves.

16, I really want to forget everything I have, but I know I can't. After all, giving is real, and so is love. I said forget how to forget? Some things, once you put your heart into them, will be engraved in your heart; Some people, once in love, will never forget it. Don't ask how to forget, just put your heart into it, and you will never forget it.

17, the real charm of a group is not that you left a good first impression on the other party; It's that the other person still likes being with you after thinking about you for many years; It's not that you suddenly attract each other's attention; It's that the other person is familiar with your current situation and appreciates you very much, not to mention that after meeting for the first time, I feel that I met you late; But after the vicissitudes of life, I sincerely confided: you think so well!

18, the person you keep may keep your person, call you in the middle of the night, and turn off the phone when you hang up. If he stays by the window, remember to close the curtains. It's not that you are cruel, but that there will be cracks after any breakup, and no matter how good it is, it's not the same.

19, not more and more ideal, but more and more like the feeling of being down-to-earth, so I like to be tangible. I don't care anymore.