Big brother in the wine field, big brother in the rice field. help

I. Place

Like most parts of the country, wine tables in Shandong are round tables. Therefore, the following are examples of round tables.

1, "main escort" position: the main escort is the first rank of the host, that is, the highest-ranking guest or the most distinguished hostess. It's in front of the front door. The main function is basically the owner of the manor, grasping the time of this banquet and the degree of drinking.

2. "Co-pilot" position: Co-pilot is the second rank of the guest party and the second most distinguished person among the guests. The position is opposite to the main guard, that is, the back is to the gate. Traditionally, this position should be held by the person who pays the bill. However, with the prevalence of hospitality corruption in recent years, under normal circumstances, guests are rushed out, so in fact, the second-ranked guest does not need to pay for such a small matter, so this position is more to drive guests to drink.

3. "Escort" position: This is a name that has just become popular in recent years. In fact, this position is different from the titles of "main escort" and "deputy escort" mentioned above, and the regulations in different parts of Shandong Province are not the same. Some places don't have this position, but in Jinan, there seems to be an increasing trend. The position is the second position on the right hand side of the main guard. His main function is to accompany the host and put the "guests" in the middle for easy care. If you are not particularly familiar with the local customs, it is not recommended that you take this seat.

4. "Guest of honor" position: the guest of honor is the first level of the guests, and it is the place where the highest or most distinguished person among the guests does it. The position is on the right hand side of the "main guard". Because many people care about the severity of drinking in Shandong, foreign guests who know a little about Shandong rules sometimes choose to let people who drink a lot sit in this position, which is wrong. The rule of treating guests is actually a kind of etiquette, but its essence is a kind of respect. If the above situation occurs, in fact, the real guests will not drink much less, and the honorary guests will generally be poured down (because you are not the most distinguished guest but sit in the guest position, just because you can drink, the guests must accompany you well), so the guests are not worth the candle, so don't avoid it! ! !

5. "Deputy guest" position: it is the second order of guest. The position is on the left of the "main guard".

6. "Three guests" position: the vice guest is the third guest. The position is on the right hand side of the "assistant".

7. "Four passengers" position: the vice passenger is the fourth on the passenger side. It's on the left-hand side of "Assistant".

These are the basic postures at the dinner table. It should be pointed out that the four positions listed above are all the same in Shandong Province, and it would be embarrassing to list them in reverse. The position of "escort" is more particular in some places. "Three passengers" and "four passengers" are divided in this way in most areas, but the rules in some places are slightly different. For example, I know that in some places, the guests after the third place rank behind the "main guest" and the "deputy guest" in turn, commonly known as "attendance". When people can't accurately grasp the local customs, they can "inconvenience to change", that is, sit according to the host's arrangement to prevent omissions.

As can be seen from the above, the whole position is confirmed according to the position of the "main guard". So how to confirm the position of the "main guard"? There are two ways. The first is the placement of napkins. Generally speaking, because napkins are folded in different ways, it is difficult to distinguish them in shape. But one thing is unified in Shandong Province, that is, the napkin folded by the main escort is the highest, or the color of the napkin at the main escort position is different from others. The second is chopsticks. In a more formal hotel, there are two pairs of chopsticks in the position of the main escort and the deputy escort, commonly known as "public chopsticks". The function of public chopsticks will be mentioned below.

Second, serve food

In fact, it's not just serving, including pouring tea and wine. All the starting positions start from the position of the guest of honor, which is the right hand side of the host. After everyone is seated, you can see from the starting position above whether your position is wrong or not, and how the level of the host is. Then, for the first course, the host will give the host and the guest a pair of chopsticks with public chopsticks to show respect for the guests and that everyone can eat the food. No matter whether the guests like this dish or not, they should take a bite after thanking them (if it is a national custom such as Hui nationality, it should be put forward before this, and the host will be prepared when making arrangements. If the guest has special taboos, this dish can explain the reason and refuse. The host will put this chopstick on his plate, and others can still receive the signal to start eating. After the second course, the enthusiastic host will continue this action, but the host in the escort position should take the initiative to take this action, otherwise what's the use of letting him sit in this position?

Reply: About drinking.

It should be noted that people did not start drinking before this. It must be remembered that drinking is to listen to the host's greeting and not to act without authorization.

Third, drink.

Drinking indicates the official start of the party. So drinking must be initiated by the owner. In general, Shandong people choose white wine, other red wine and beer to show their respect for their guests. Because different provinces in China have different reputations, guests in the north are generally asked to pour white wine, while guests in the south can relax. But to explain to the guests, we must grasp our own quantity and resolutely resist people who can't drink. The enthusiasm of Shandong is unbearable. If you start drinking, unless you are drunk, you say I can't drink white water. It is not impossible. Shandong people's various interfaces make you embarrassed not to drink, hehe!

Generally, the containers of liquor are in twos and threes or twos and two halves, that is, a bottle of liquor is poured into three or four cups. I wonder what your impression of containers is? Generally speaking, a teacup is two and a half. Don't feel lucky when you see a small glass of white wine in Shandong. Because you will soon know that this is a bite, and it will be too late to regret it. Friends who go to Yantai should pay special attention, because there is a local wine in this area called "Yantai fermented wine", commonly known as "little girl", and the cups are also in pairs. Enthusiastic hosts have a set of drinking procedures, which will be described below. I guess you'll be drunk after reading it.

Let's talk about the rules of drinking first, or take liquor as an example.

The more formal drinking method of liquor in Shandong province is to invite six people to drink the first cup, and then drink it at will. The order of the six ports is the main escort three ports and the auxiliary escort three ports (there are also four or two ports). Before that, guests can't take the initiative to propose a toast. The ratio of beer is one to six or one to eight (depending on the degree of liquor, different wine tables decide for themselves). The above is the procedure, as long as it is drinking, it is required to kill all after six mouthfuls.

The Yantai drinking method mentioned above is the most inhuman (but not all Yantai banquets are used). Yantai's rules are "three two one" and "one two three", and the host and deputy each accompany six mouths and three cups. Three drinks for host and escort. Drink the first cup three times, the second cup twice and the third cup once. Then change a pair to accompany three cups, the rules are the same as above, and the rounds are opposite. After this lap, six cups are counted as two cups, 1 kg. I don't think there is anyone on the table.

After the main escort agency and the auxiliary escort agency are finished, the main escort agency will announce the start of free time. At this time, it is a person. Let's start fighting. But how much to drink is negotiable. Therefore, friends who come to Shandong and can drink a little, advise everyone to be lazy and slippery from now on, and try not to get angry with them, or you will get down if you drink too much. Under normal circumstances, everyone on the host side, including the host and deputy, will drink with each guest once, and the enthusiastic host will drink with each guest twice. The so-called "state of etiquette, drinking in pairs." Generally speaking, it's almost enough for a guest to return a gift to each host once more.

Finally, the host will greet everyone to finish the last cup, which is the signal of the end of the banquet, commonly known as "Menqing" and Jinan is called "Zhengzhongzi". The last cup is required to be finished, but most guests can skip this cup if they don't drink enough at this time, just saying politely. After all, at this time, everyone has drunk enough and will not ask for more. In addition, I can tell you a little trick, that is, when drinking a toast, you might as well leave some and drink less. Because there is a saying in Shandong that drinking without drinking roots means "more than one year". There is also a saying that "drinking the bottom of a bottle gives birth to a daughter." But in recent years, the saying of "Fugen" has risen again. Hehe, the road is one foot high and the magic is ten feet high!

The last cup is usually served at the same time as dinner, so that everyone can have dinner. As long as you eat, you can rest assured that the battle will be over tonight!

Generally speaking, there are different drinking rules in Shandong province, and it is difficult to unify drinking styles. Having mastered the above, there should be no big problem. The intensity of drinking varies from place to place in Shandong, especially in Jiaodong, Qingdao, Weihai and Yantai mentioned above. However, drinking in Shandong is very practical, and the host drinks the wine at the same time, which is different from the custom of serving wine in Henan. So if you drink in Shandong and meet a host who can't drink, everyone can relax a lot.

The formation of drinking customs in Shandong is closely related to the historical origin of Shandong. The so-called etiquette state is one, and Shandong is a big wine-making province. There are 108 counties in the province, and almost all counties have wineries. And what I want to tell you is that eating seafood is not suitable for drinking beer, and you will get a disease called gout, so Jiaodong, which is near the sea, drinks the most.

With the communication in recent years, the way of drinking in Shandong has been greatly improved, especially for foreign friends, drinking is no longer the standard of greeting. Banquets in Shandong have begun to develop in a more casual and relaxed direction in the south. But what I don't understand is that many business banquets in the south have begun to pay attention to many rules, which is a bit close to Shandong.

Guessing boxing and drinking are exquisite, and there are also wine rules. Wine has all kinds of rules and regulations. After drinking a glass of wine, you may have to use several wine lists in different ways. What impressed me most was that several classmates were drinking together in my house. At that time, drinking was not as rich and delicious as it is now. At that time, it was very ordinary home cooking, and the wine was not as high-grade as it is now. It was Lanling Daqu, which was considered a good wine at that time. We were drinking pure wine. At the beginning of drinking, a classmate suggested guessing boxing and drinking, and whoever loses would drink. At my classmate's suggestion, we had a glass of wine together and began to guess boxing and drink. It started with guessing matches, which is the simplest way to drink. I have a classmate named Li, who is an alcoholic. He usually drinks with several of our classmates, mostly flat. When we drink enough, he won't feel the wine, and he can't drink it every time. He said, "Guess the matchstick drinks, and I'll be the wine commander." We all agree that this Li Tongxue picked up his glass and gulped it down. At first, I guessed the wine list, one lap, one lap, one lap, and guessed five punches in a row. He said, "Bad luck, I didn't sell it." "I was unlucky and didn't sell it." I will punish myself. I'll drink this glass of wine myself. The other students here were a little impatient and said in unison, "Can you sell it this time? Let's all drink this glass of wine together. " Li Tongxue smiled and said happily, "Aren't you afraid of me drinking more wine? . "Then we changed several ways of playing while drinking. Such as: big watermelon, small watermelon; Big gourd, small gourd; Pat seven; Finger pressing; Drive a train; These wine lists are like smashing sticks and are suitable for many people to play. People who drink at the whole table can participate in the play together, and it is not difficult. As long as they can speak and describe with simple gestures, the atmosphere will be lively and very happy. You can drink more, but you can't get drunk. You can drink by guessing boxing, so that people who drink can throw themselves into the intense guessing atmosphere.

In addition to the simple guessing game mentioned above, there are many more complicated drinking games, that is, guessing games should not only say that each guessing game is funny when drinking, but also describe the contents of the drinking bottle cap with accurate gestures, that is, you can't say it wrong or describe it wrong, otherwise you will lose all the codes, and even if you lose, you will be fined a glass of wine. This kind of wine sequence is generally a fight between two people, winning a punch, taking turns to fight and losing a cup.

Give a few examples to readers. For example 1, when a drinker gambles, he says * * * and gestures with his hand. Such as: "An eight-legged crab, with two big eyes in one shell, breaks the shell, smashes the shell, pours soy sauce, and scatters Jiang Mo. Whoever greets this water wine will drink it if he greets it, and touch the glass when he reaches out." Then he said again from the beginning: "If you are greedy, you can drink. If you reach out and touch the glass, you can drink it wholeheartedly. " Both brothers are greedy for your drinking; Samsung is greedy for your drink. There are also four happiness and wealth, five chief hands, six six shun, seven clever seven clever, eight horses, ten short of one, all here. Each sentence represents a number extended with a fist. According to the content of each sentence, the fist fingers extended with two people are the same. Then whoever says it accurately will win. The loser drinks, then continues to draw with the winning fist, and so on.

. Example 2: Let's say that drunken bravado, the content of punching after bravado is similar. "There is a cow on the high mountain, with two horns and a head. Four kicks are divided into eight petals, and the tail is long. " After Mao, after Mao, and then I said the boxing of both sides over and over again.

Example 3: One shot and two hooks, I choose rice to go to Shangzhou, Yangzhou praises my rice, and I praise my little girl in Yangzhou. Little Niu Niu, little Niu Niu, and then talked about the fists of both sides over and over again.

Example 4: Troika, Three Sisters, Red Shoes and Red Yarn, Cuilan, Cuiju and Cui Hua.

Example 5: A big road points to the south, and a big sister is boxing, red boxing, little red boxing and the last local boxing. And so on, there are many kinds of wine lists for guessing boxing, and the content of meat and vegetables is rich and interesting, which is also a folk wine culture.

Wine is the essence of food, the key to people's happiness, the bridge between people, and the bond and adhesive of friendship, friendship, affection of classmates and friendship of war between people. From ancient times to the present, when can I drink less, it's just that the way of drinking is different.

Wine is the most honest and fair in the world. Men, women, children, good people, bad people, officials and wine can make you feel happy, angry, sad and happy without any prejudice. Drinking can constantly stimulate people's old and new enthusiasm, especially guessing boxing and drinking, and the combination of drinking and drinking is ingenious. Even if the drinker is flushed, hot-headed and erratic, he will never forget the scene when he drinks.

Wine field rules

Rule 1: Although the wine table is affectionate, it is boring; Love is shallow, lick it. "But don't talk about it when drinking.

Rule 2: Keep a low profile, curl up your hair and never fill it up as soon as you come up.

Rule 3: Leaders will drink with each other before it is their turn to respect each other.

Rule 4: You can be respected by many people. Never be respected by many people unless you are a leader.

Rule 5: Respect others by yourself. If you don't clink glasses, how much you drink depends on the situation, such as the other person's drinking attitude and the other person's capacity for alcohol. You can't drink less than the other person. You should know that you respect others.

Rule 6: Respect others by yourself. If you clink glasses, you can say "I'll finish it" generously.

Rule 7: Pick up the glass (beer glass), grab the glass with your right hand and put it on the bottom with your left hand. Remember, your cup should always be lower than other people's cups. If you are a leader, don't put the cup too low, otherwise how can you call it a bottom cup?

Rule 8: If there is no special person present, it is best to touch the wine clockwise, and don't favor one over the other.

Rule 9: Don't talk business at the dinner table. After drinking, the business will be almost the same, and everyone knows it, otherwise people will not open their hearts to drink with you.

Rule 10: Don't pretend. If you say something wrong or do something wrong, don't excuse yourself. Consciously punishing alcohol is the last word.

Rule 1 1: Don't say "I can't drink", lest others accuse you of hypocrisy. Believe it or not, people can really tell if they can drink.

Rule 12: Be caring and attentive after drinking. A cup of yogurt, a cup of hot water and a towel all show your concern.

Rule 13: Since you are in a humble position, remember to add more wine to the leader. Don't blindly drink for the leader, that is, you have to replace him. You have to pretend that you drink because you want to drink, not to replace the leader.

Rule 14: The leader drinks with you to give you face. No matter how much the leader tells you to drink, do it yourself first. Remember, put your hands and glasses down.

Rule 14: For example, leader A cannot be an alcoholic. Beating around the bush can stop people who want to worship leader A.

Rule 15: clink glasses and toast with words, otherwise, why should I drink your wine?

Rule 16: If there is not enough wine, put the wine bottle in the middle of the table and let others fill it themselves. Don't be silly to pour wine one by one, or what should the people behind you do if they don't have wine?

Article 17: Be careful not to make a slip of the tongue after drinking, don't talk big, don't be rude, don't spit everywhere, don't throw chopsticks, don't point, don't drink soup, don't fart and burp, don't go to the toilet without stopping you.

Rule 18: There must be a glass of wine at the end, so don't leave your glass empty.