My wife and I have always had a good relationship, but she recently got a job in a hotel. Somehow, we have been at odds since she worked in a hotel.

Find a suitable opportunity to communicate with her without others, including children. Don't get excited, have a good attitude, don't quarrel without saying a word, tell her what you want to ask, but don't guess her at random, which will cause her dissatisfaction, lead to the failure of the conversation and the problem can't be solved. Besides, if she doesn't come home from work, she may go shopping with her colleagues or something. I used to work in a hotel. It's just that I'm not married yet, but my parents will still go back. No matter how much I want to go shopping with my colleagues, I will never forget my family waiting for me at home. You can say to her before she goes to work, "Come back early from work, and my children and I will wait for you at home." Be gentle with her at ordinary times. Women need to be coaxed.