Attending class reunions is to regain youth. Why do some people hate class reunions?

Participating in class reunions is to regain youth. Why do some people hate class reunions? I've attended it twice. Once, it was a reunion of classmates who had graduated from high school 20 years ago. Once, there was a reunion of classmates who had known each other for 20 years in college. The first class reunion was at the Sheraton Hotel. The work of the organizing committee was very meticulous. There was a commemorative book, wearing commemorative T-shirts, taking photos, shooting videos, shouting from a distance to the CP who was not present, several teachers being present, presenting gifts and bouquets, etc., all in an orderly manner. Students who have returned from a long journey are also happy to have thoughtful accommodation arrangements. The WeChat group was lively for several months, but eventually became deserted. I don’t know if there are other stories. The second college reunion was arranged at my alma mater. Because most of the classmates in the same city meet frequently, there are not many surprises. Like an ordinary gathering, there are few links and only two teachers are invited. Several classmates who came from afar were enjoying themselves.

The meaning of class reunions is to communicate with each other. The classmates who had no news from the past have also found their whereabouts and are less worried. There are still some disappointments at class reunions. Classmates who used to be good friends may still have a good relationship many years later. Those who are not good friends only exchange simple greetings, which does not enhance the relationship. There is no interest relationship between them, they are as plain as water and pure. Before the class reunion, I looked forward to and fantasized about it; after the class reunion, I sighed for a few days and then returned to normal life, as if it never happened. Sometimes I regret that I might as well not attend, and the hundreds of dollars I spend each time might as well buy books for my son that will last forever; sometimes I feel happy that I am lucky to have gone. How many times can people meet by fate in a lifetime? Seeing each other once and less will keep the best and youngest moments in our hearts, which are also beautiful memories when we grow old. The more good things you leave for yourself in the remaining years, it is also a compliment to yourself. Life needs a little spice, differentness, color, interaction, freshness... in order to be more meaningful!