Can I give you 5,000 red envelopes when you get married?

Whether the red envelope is appropriate depends on many factors, such as the relationship with the couple, local customs, one's own financial ability, the size of the wedding banquet, etc.

Generally speaking, wedding red envelopes should be in even numbers to express the blessing of good things coming in pairs. At the same time, some unlucky numbers should also be avoided, such as 4, 7, etc. Some auspicious numbers, such as 6, 8, 9, etc., can be used to combine the red envelope amount.

5,000 yuan is a relatively generous red envelope amount. If you have a close relationship with the couple, or you have sufficient financial strength, or the couple is having their wedding in a high-end hotel, then it is okay to give a red envelope of 5,000 yuan. However, if the relationship with the couple is average, or there is financial pressure, or the couple holds the wedding in an ordinary hotel, then giving a 5,000 yuan red envelope will seem too extravagant or showing off.