Kaifeng Xijiao Engagement Hotel

Engagement: 1: Both parents attended the banquet to discuss the engagement, mainly to determine the amount of the yellow calendar and the man's dowry. The amount of the gift depends on the family conditions of both parties. If both parties are ordinary families (the ordinary family here means that the annual income of both parties is about 6,543,800 RMB), the current standard is about 88,888-654,38+008,000 RMB. Mop tip: Engagement is not a legal marriage procedure. Cohabitation after engagement is essentially the concept of "illegal cohabitation" in legal sense. In Wenzhou, few people get a marriage certificate when they are engaged. In Yongqiang area, even when the child is a few years old (the general purpose is to have more children or boys), a ceremony will be held to reissue the marriage certificate. 2. Preparation before engagement: A: Man: Jewelry given by the man to the woman: a set of gold ornaments including earrings, bracelets, anklets and necklaces, a pair of rings and a diamond ring (the price of diamond ring is about 15000). In fact, you can also go to the goldsmith shop to buy a bare diamond and choose your favorite style to make it. The price varies greatly, which can save about 35%. Note: Please ask first. Wenzhou wedding candy is divided into different sizes. The man is responsible for all the wedding candy that the woman needs (including the red envelopes in the candy), except some friends of the woman's parents, which are given by the woman herself (at present, 50- 100 red envelopes are given by people, depending on the conditions of both parties and the number of wedding candy). B: Women: Jewelry and clothes that women want to buy for men: a suit, two shirts, two ties, two pairs of shoes (a pair of casual shoes and a pair of leather shoes), two sets of casual clothes, a dozen socks, a gold bracelet and a necklace (if the red envelope for the best man is less than 580, you need to buy another shirt for the best man). Other preparations for the woman: a set of dishes costs 88 yuan and 90 yuan. Then return the candied apricots sent by the man to the man, and the money received will be returned according to the economic conditions. If the woman's condition is generally 88888, it will be returned to the man, ranging from 38888 to 58888. The rest of the money will be used to buy things for the man and buy a new house later. If the woman's conditions are good, she will accept all the gifts and buy a car for the man. 3. Engagement procedures: Wenzhou people now have two kinds of engagement banquets. One is Yongqiang custom, in which the woman's family holds a banquet, and the man's parents and groomsman attend, and the man invites the woman back in the evening. The other is popular in Lucheng, where parents and close relatives and friends hold a banquet in the hotel to get engaged. Generally, there are more people who choose the latter in urban areas. In the afternoon, the man drove to the woman's house to meet her and her parents, and gave the woman's brother or sister suitcase money (suitcase money means that the woman's brother or sister won't leave until she lets her sister get married, and he won't let people go until you give him money, according to the explanation of the older generation. ) The suitcase is about 5800- 10800. After arriving at the hotel, give tea to both parents and toast to friends and relatives to witness your love. If the above customs do not allow (referring to red envelopes), it can be simplified and reduced. The two sides can discuss it. In the spirit of understanding, they can be excused, but their feelings are the main thing. It is common for two families to be unhappy about these things. MOP prompts whether the bride price should be returned: According to the relevant laws and regulations of our country, returning the bride price is only applicable to the following situations: 1 Both parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities; ② Both parties have gone through the marriage registration formalities, but they have not lived together; If premarital payment causes difficulties for the payer, the latter two requests should be based on the divorce of both parties. The above provisions are not to encourage and advocate the payment of bride price, but to solve disputes in real life and prevent conflicts from intensifying. In addition, it is best for the woman's family to keep the original rental certificate when buying a car. If the woman transfers money directly to the man to buy a car, please keep the original payment voucher. Tips for girls: If the two parties are engaged, even if they have sex, don't rush to live together, otherwise once the relationship is bad, it will be extremely unfavorable for the woman to terminate the contract, no matter where the reason comes from, influenced by Wenzhou's traditional backward concept. Tips for boys: It is more troublesome for Wenzhou people to get married. You are from Wenzhou, so you should follow the tradition. If you are from other places, do as the Romans do. If you are still hesitant about getting engaged, please don't let your fiancee move into your home. Social support should be paid before the account of the extra-born children is reissued: anyone who violates the regulations of Zhejiang Province to have extra-born children must pay support. For details, see Article 24: Marriage: 1: After the wedding date is determined, we will start to book hotels and arrange banquets. Now Wenzhou seems to have to book a banquet one year in advance. Oh, my god, anyone will get married on a good day. Then we have to build a nest first. The house price is too expensive. No matter here, it's about 130 square meters, and it's about10 million RMB. Of course, the man is responsible for buying a house for decoration, which will take at least two months. After the renovation, the furniture in the room was bought by the man, and the rest was worn by the woman. This is not a small expense, not to mention electrical appliances. Even buying decorative things, kitchen and bedding is a big expense. Mop tip: About houses: Houses in Wenzhou are generally provided by men, and so are other cities in the province. 1. Before the man gets married (both refer to registration), the real estate license belongs to the man. Even after marriage, the rest is repaid with the same property (if the woman has no income after marriage, only the man makes money, and the repayment part belongs to the same property). If the money has been paid off by the man before marriage, the woman has no right to claim, even if the property increases in value after marriage. 2. If the real estate license has not been obtained at the time of divorce, if the two parties negotiate, the court will decide who will use it first, and will not make a judgment on the ownership of the property. 3. What should I do if I pay part of the house price before marriage, get the real estate license after marriage, and continue to repay the loan? Generally speaking, the ownership should be determined by the purchase contract, but the woman can request to divide the payment part of the property. 4. If the parents contribute, how to deal with the real estate at the time of divorce? When Wenzhou people get married, the houses are basically funded by their parents: if parents contribute before marriage, they will be regarded as contributions to their children, unless otherwise agreed. Unless otherwise agreed, the investment made by parents after marriage shall be regarded as the investment made by both parties. 2. Choose a good time for two people to take wedding photos, and the weather is good. Generally, photo studios are now fighting price wars, and their technology and strength are similar. However, they don't care that this little money only comes once in a lifetime. Just be careful not to look at this. The better you feel, the more you choose and the more you spend. Generally, it's worthwhile to take photos at 4000-5000. Mop tip: Take a wedding photo and sign the bill (usually a format contract, the store has made a list, you only need to fill in the key quantities and figures. Some consumers think that as long as it is a format contract, there will be restrictions on merchants, and complaining about merchants is not good for merchants. Actually, it is not. Only if you have a different understanding of the provisions will you make an explanation that is unfavorable to the business. You must read carefully to prevent falling into the "trap" of the wedding dress shop. Be sure to ask each wedding photo clearly before signing the bill. Also note that each bag has a fixed number of photos for you to choose from. Photographers will take dozens more pictures when they take pictures. Choose more photos and charge 30-60 yuan for each photo. It's better to talk about this in advance and ask for more photos. As for the accessories for the bride's photo shoot, generally speaking, the cost of the accessories is included in the package, but the goods are average. Tips for girls: Accessories and wedding accessories must be selected in advance, and photos should be selected as carefully as possible. Tip for boys: cut your hair in style. In addition, bringing your own camera is generally not allowed in wedding shops, but it doesn't hurt to bring it. It's fun to shoot it yourself. It's almost ok to take a photo and get married in advance. Please wait for the wedding with peace of mind, and contact photos, car rental and fireworks on the wedding day. But these have nothing to do with the all-inclusive etiquette company now. As for your personal preference without a master of ceremonies, I always feel that if you have too many parties, the master of ceremonies will keep you busy for half a day until the evening 12, and you can't wait for others. 4. The bride only needs a facial treatment the night before the wedding to make herself thirsty, so she doesn't have to get up so early on the wedding day. Now beauticians come directly to the house to do their hair and nails and then eat. After this lunch, the next one is at lunch the next day. Here, I want to remind everyone that we still have to eat, hehe. . . Then the makeup artist will spend more than an hour putting on her wedding dress, shawl, makeup and hairstyle when she gets home at one o'clock. I would like to remind you that you should inform the makeup artist in advance what color and style your wedding dress is, so that she can prepare headdresses of the same color and style. Men are similar. Not as troublesome as the woman. At 4 o'clock, the groom and the best man will leave for the woman's house to pick up the bride. When they arrive at the bride's house, the bridesmaids will try to embarrass the groom. In the end, of course, the red envelope was settled before opening the door. (Red envelopes around 28 yuan, there are nine bridesmaids here in Wenzhou, and the bride is one table. Then nine bridesmaids and all the bride's male relatives go to the new house by bus. Let's talk about getting off here. When we rent a car here in Wenzhou, we have to pay cigarettes, otherwise some bad drivers will deliberately drive fast and slow, so there will be no queues and the video will not look good. Then, when you arrive at the new house, make a video of offering tea and glutinous rice balls. When you pay a New Year call, you must remember the order of your elders, or you will be gossiped. Next, another bus will drive to the hotel, then the lion dance, and then the red envelope (the red envelope is also 28). Next, some groomsmen will spray the couple and bridesmaids with that spray. The bride is advised to put down her veil, and the bridesmaid is advised to prepare an old dress with a hat and put it on before going in, hehe. The last level is of course a toast. That's all that matters. Of course, it varies from person to person. Let's play with each other, so we don't need it here. Also note that the bride in the middle needs to change her wedding dress and hairstyle. It should also be noted that in Wenzhou, the man now gives the woman four tables of banquets, including red envelopes. The extra banquets are all taken care of by the woman, and the red envelopes are of course collected by the parents.