What should I pay attention to when I invite leaders to eat?

Please pay attention to the requirements of the following two parts:

The first part is the preparation before dinner:

Determine the level, number and specific time of the diners.

ask in advance what you don't like to eat, what you prefer and which restaurant you like to eat.

confirm the hotel and make a reservation.

prepare enough cash in case of accidents.

buy cigarettes and lighters in advance.

book a car.

understand where leaders prefer to ride, such as the front seat or the back seat.

open the door for the leader, and pay attention to the capital of the car.

after getting off the bus, lead the way for the leader, pull up the lotus seeds, open the door voluntarily, etc. Older people can help the leader.

part ii table manners:

(1)? Seating and leaving:

You should wait until the elders are seated.

if there is a lady at the table, you should wait until the lady is seated. If the lady's seat is next door, she should be called.

when you are seated, you should help the lady or the leader to drag the seat.

after a meal, the other guests can only leave the table after the host and hostess leave.

Sit upright and keep a proper distance from the dining table.

When dining in a restaurant, the waiter should show you to the table.

when you leave the seat, you should help the elderly or women in the next seat to drag the seat.

When you leave, you should help the elderly or leaders to take off their clothes.

(2)? Usage of incense towel:

Napkins are mainly used to prevent clothes from getting dirty, and also to wipe oil stains on the mouth and hands.

you must wait until everyone is seated before using napkins.

napkins should be spread out and placed on the thighs at the upper ends of your knees. Do not tie your belt or hang it on the collar of your suit? Mouth.

never wipe the tableware with a napkin.

(3)? General etiquette at the dining table:

After sitting, keep your posture straight, keep your feet under your seat, and don't straighten up at will, and don't lean your elbows against the edge of the table. Or put your hand on the back of your neighbor's chair.

when eating, be gentle and elegant, calm and quiet, and don't be impatient.

at the dinner table, you should not only care about yourself, but also care about others, especially the female guests on both sides.

with food in your mouth, you should avoid talking.

tableware for personal use should not be inserted into the common plate to pick up dishes.

you must eat with a small mouth, not with a big mouth. if the food is not swallowed, you can't plug the mouth again.

when fetching vegetables and scooping soup, you should use public chopsticks and spoons.

eat imported food, and don't spit it out. If it's hot food, you can take a shower with water or juice.

when delivering food to the entrance, the elbows should lean inward, not open to both sides, and touch the neighbor.

whether you hold a knife fork in your hand or others chew food? Avoid talking to people or toasting.

a good way to eat is to eat the food, not the food. Food with a meter, can't be rushed into the mouth. Otherwise, the soup drops on the tablecloth, which is extremely indecent.

Never pull out your teeth with your fingers, use toothpicks and cover them with your hands or handkerchiefs.

avoid coughing, sneezing and vomiting at the dinner table. If you can't help it, you should say "I'm sorry"

Drink at will, toast with courtesy, and avoid persuasion, guessing and shouting.

if the tableware falls, please ask the waiter to pick it up.

in case of an accident, if you accidentally spill wine, water and soup on other people's clothes, just apologize, right? Will panic to make amends, but make each other embarrassed.

if you want to take the condiments placed in front of other guests at the same table, please ask the guests next to you to help pass them on. Don't stretch out your hand to cross, but drive for things.

if the host cooks the food himself, don't forget to praise him.

if you eat unclean or peculiar smell, you should not swallow it. You should use your thumb and forefinger lightly when eating food? Take it out and put it on the plate. Don't make a fuss if you find that there are insects and gravel in the dishes that have not been eaten yet? Strange, it is appropriate to wait for the waiter to approach and tell the waiter to replace it softly.

after eating, the tableware must be placed neatly, not in disorder. Napkins should also be folded and put on the table.

It is not advisable to smoke while the staple food is in progress. If you want to smoke, you must first ask your neighbor's permission.

when eating in a restaurant, you should not rush to pay the bill, and push and pull for it, which is extremely indecent. If you are a guest, can't you? Grab the bill. You should not pay the bill for your friend without his consent.

The speed of eating should be synchronized with the host and hostess, neither too fast nor too slow.

don't talk about sorrow at the dinner table, otherwise it will spoil the happy atmosphere.