I can't handle Phoenix Man, because a cat ruined my marriage and future! What do you think of Phoenix Man?

Phoenix man also has certain advantages and disadvantages, and the advantages and disadvantages are more prominent.

Advantages are strong self-esteem, like to be competitive.

The disadvantage is that he is too self-centered, has some selfish behaviors, and can't sing the opposite for his wife and parents.

First, let's take a look at Phoenix Man:

This word is used to describe some boys from poor families who work in the city and stay in the city after being admitted to a good university through their own efforts. This type of boy has the following three characteristics:

1, likes to pay for parties.

First of all, this type of boys like to grab the bill at parties. Obviously he doesn't have much money, but he has to pay with a straight face. In fact, this is a manifestation of inferiority.

2. Listen to what your parents say.

Phoenix men generally seem to be filial and obedient to their parents. Even if a wife quarrels with her parents, she will not offend them, and some even accuse her in public.

3. Help relatives for free.

If a relative comes to ask for help, or takes refuge in him, he will help for free. He thinks that this is worthy of respect, regardless of the burden and thoughts of his family.

Although Phoenix Man has left the city where he was born and may settle in a more developed city, he still retains profound traditional ideas. It is precisely because of this traditional idea that many Phoenix men often have conflicts with their wives after marriage, and then they turn into quarrels.

In addition, not all boys from poor places will become Phoenix men. Phoenix man only refers to some boys with this characteristic. From the perspective of marriage, if girls can't accept these shortcomings of Phoenix Man, it is suggested that they stay away as far as possible and don't want to change, because their thoughts will almost follow them all their lives.