On the day my boyfriend and I received my certificate, I joked that I was pregnant. Why did my mother-in-law applaud me?

Every woman has different ideas about bride price. Some women believe that the bride price is a must. The bride price represents the attitude of the groom's family and the respect the groom's family has for them. Which man would cherish a daughter-in-law who "gets something for nothing".

Some women hold the opposite opinion, believing that the amount of the betrothal gift is not important, and whether there is a betrothal gift is not important. Instead, it is whether there is true love between two people that is important.

As long as you can marry for love, the bride price is not a necessity, but the icing on the cake. It is better to have a bride price. Without a bride price, you will still marry the person in your heart.

In fact, the bride price cannot determine whether a marriage is happy or unhappy. What matters is whether the relationship between two people is stable. If you truly love each other, all problems will not be a problem. It doesn't matter if there is no bride price. Even if there is no wedding or wedding room, it cannot stop two people from deciding to become husband and wife.

For those couples who separated because of betrothal gifts, whether they are hypocritical or fake, whether money or love is more important, needless to say, everyone will have a balance in their hearts.

When Feifei brought her boyfriend home for the first time, her parents were quite satisfied with their future son-in-law. Especially after learning that his family background was good, they had no reason to object. Every parent with a daughter hopes that their daughter will marry a wealthy husband, so that they will not worry about money in the future.

Feifei didn't think as much as her parents thought. She just felt that she really loved her boyfriend, and his boyfriend was also very good to her. This was the whole reason why she wanted to be with him.

After meeting Feifei’s parents, her boyfriend quickly took Feifei back to his home. Although Feifei knew that her boyfriend’s family was quite wealthy, she just didn’t expect that they could be so rich. situation. Feifei felt that it must be because she had too little knowledge to be so impressed by the four-story villa.

After their boyfriend’s parents looked Feifei up and down, they felt that she was a pretty girl and they did not explicitly object to their association. Anyway, my son had brought several girlfriends back before, but before he could object, the two broke up.

The same is true this time. It is better to let them fall in love. Whether it is suitable or not, and whether they can get to the point of marriage, we will talk about it later. It is too early to object now.

Feifei and her boyfriend have been in a relationship for two years. The two of them have no intention of separating, and they even rarely have arguments in life. Feifei's parents think it's time to talk about marriage.

On the day when the parents of both parties met, the boyfriend's parents chose the most luxurious and expensive hotel in the area. There were many dishes at the banquet that Feifei had never seen before. Feifei understood that this was the prospective parents-in-law showing off their financial resources and social status.

That night, everything went smoothly. The wedding date and bride price were quickly set, and they even agreed on which wedding room to give them. Feifei's father said this, "In-laws, my family's conditions are not as good as yours, so we can only do our best in terms of dowry. My wife and I only have more than 200,000 yuan in savings, so let's give the young couple 200,000 yuan, just for the sake of it."

After hearing the figure of two hundred thousand, the prospective parents-in-law obviously did not think it was much. Feifei thought that she and her boyfriend had a good relationship, and she would not live with her parents-in-law in the future anyway, so she would not care about minor matters.

Not long after, her boyfriend and Feifei discussed going to get the certificate together. Unexpectedly, the prospective mother-in-law happened to be free that day, so she asked the driver to drive them to the Civil Affairs Bureau. Perhaps Feifei was not used to riding in luxury cars. As soon as he arrived at the Civil Affairs Bureau, Feifei felt sick in his stomach and couldn't vomit anything after vomiting for a long time. Her boyfriend asked her what was wrong with concern, and Feifei said jokingly, "I'm pregnant."

Her boyfriend looked surprised, but her mother-in-law was very excited after hearing this, "Great, since you are all pregnant If she is pregnant, what kind of gift should she give? Cancel it."

Feifei was stunned, let alone she was not pregnant, even if she was really pregnant, what does it have to do with the gift. It can be seen from the reaction of the prospective mother-in-law that she disapproves of the marriage, maybe because she feels that Feifei's family is superior to them.

Feifei made an important decision. She said to her mother-in-law-to-be, "Auntie, I'm sorry for failing you. I'm not pregnant, so I don't know if it counts as winning your heart and your betrothal gift." Money can be saved." When Feifei turned to leave, her boyfriend wanted to chase her but was caught tightly by her mother. The farther Feifei walked, the more heartbroken she became.

It turns out that this is the true love she mistakenly thought.

I think: No matter whether the man’s family has money or not, they all seem to want to make a fuss about the bride price. If they can, they will give less, and if they can’t, they will give nothing. It may be that prospective mothers-in-law are used to living a careful life, so they also want to "save" as much as possible when it comes to betrothal gifts. It would be even better if the daughter-in-law becomes pregnant in the future, and even the bride price can be saved.

When prospective mothers-in-law think about the problem like this, has she ever thought about how she would feel if a daughter of hers encountered such a situation? Can she accept that the bride price is waived?

What people fear most is to think from someone else’s perspective. If prospective mothers-in-law can think about it this way, they may no longer be entangled in the wedding gift.

Just as you said before, do it now. If you are greedy for temporary gains, you will suffer big losses in the future. Women should also grasp their own principles and bottom line in this matter. Once the man's family is worried about the bride price and has some crooked thoughts, they must not deal with such a family.

Fortunately, I am not married and there is still a way out. Once you get married, you may regret it later.