What moment makes you feel that a person's emotional intelligence is ridiculously high?

When the female ticket was talking to me, she accidentally threw up in my face.

I wiped it.

A bolt from the blue said, "You dislike me!"

"No, no! Wipe evenly. "

The elevator in the university met the boudoir, and she was in conflict with the male ticket. The elevator opened, and a large group of our classmates walked in together, proudly turning back to the male ticket and shouting, "I didn't see you!" " ! "Then her male ticket calmly replied in front of the embarrassment of an elevator" Hmm! Don't leave! "I instantly admire this person's wit.

My friend said in the corridor, damn it! As a result, I found the English teacher staring at her, and then she blurted out China.

University community interview, standing on the podium, there are dozens of brothers and sisters below, very nervous, so the previous questions are hesitant to answer, Kakadun.

In short, the performance was terrible, and I always wanted to finish it quickly and get down quickly.

The last senior asked a question: senior, didn't you have any preparation before the interview?

I said, yes, I took a shower and changed my clothes.

Instant counterattack, successful interview, haha.

In high school, the teacher asked a boy in the class to write a teacher's opinion to write MlGb (Mahler Gobi). Then the teacher was very angry and wanted to find out who wrote it. Finally, he found that he called the boy out and said, "Explain to me what MLGB means." Boys say "make life better" is so witty that they have no friends. . .

Just last night, I felt that my IQ and EQ saved my life!

I was sent to a hotel in Hangzhou to help. There is a technical competition in the hotel these two days. I used to take photos during the day and send them to Weibo at night.

At four o'clock in the afternoon, the technical competition was all over. After taking photos, I went back to the administrative office of their headquarters, editing the copy and making drawings. The office is very big but also very open, and I am the only one typing silently.

Soon, I heard the footsteps of the deputy general manager of the group (a woman in her forties who once held an important position in my current hotel), followed by a man's voice.

Before I could stand up and say hello to them, I heard the man ask, "Why did you leave XX to work here?"

The next conversation made me dumbfounded. That woman criticized the leaders of the hotel where I stayed (including my immediate superior), that is, the place where I work now, as if it were a hell on earth. I talked for almost twenty minutes, and no one found me.

But I panicked! They will definitely come to see it after the chat, so what should I do? Get out of here at once, okay? I can't get out, they are at the door; Hide? The office is so empty, where should I hide? Sit here and continue typing, pretending not to hear? How can you not hear!

At this moment, a strong desire to survive saved me! Suddenly thought of headphones! Yes, that's the earphone that was put in the bag this morning! Take out your headphones, connect your mobile phone and pretend to listen to music!

Sure enough, they came soon. I can clearly feel the woman shaking with fear when she sees me. At this time, I began my serious performance.

Take off your headphones slowly, pretend to see and greet with a smile. They made a gesture of turning away, and I put on my headphones again, just like a soldier who has been immersed in music and is not disturbed by the outside world.

Yes, the ending is that I came back alive.

The so-called high EQ is like Bo Huang!

Speaking of high emotional intelligence, how can Hu and Hugh be missing? ! ! Hugh won the Golden Eagle Festival Awards Gala, which is absolutely deserved! However, many people are not aiming at Hugh to receive the prize, but simply want to see his high emotional intelligence performance at the textbook level. How high is Hugh's EQ? Look at this performance!

The first high emotional intelligence performance was a speech that won the audience's favorite actor award.

The first time he took the stage to receive the award was because the role of "Mei Su Chang" in Nirvana in Fire won the audience's favorite actor award. In addition to thanking the relevant personnel of the "Nirvana in Fire" crew, I also thanked the drama teacher of my alma mater.

Hosts He Jiong and Jingning brought a special "Chili" (collectively known as Hugh fans) Su Yang, who brought the novel Nirvana in Fire to Hugh for the first time three years ago, and recommended him to play the role of Mei, which opened the love between Hugh and Nirvana in Fire. After Hugh thanked him again, Su Yang made a reluctant request to him, hoping that Hugh could return the novel Nirvana in Fire that he gave him and sign his name. Hugh replied: "The novel of that year was three volumes, and I returned the first volume to her, because the opening began with her."

The second performance with high emotional intelligence is a thank-you speech when getting the most popular actor in the Golden Eagle Festival.

Because this passage is widely circulated, it is really the talent of Jiang Zuomei Lang, and the high emotional intelligence makes people unforgettable.

The third emotional intelligence performance is the wedding scene of Wallace Huo and Ruby Lin.

Of course, when Hugh faced Cai Kangyong, who is famous for his eloquence, last year, because Xiao S was a fan of nirvana in fire and had sex with Hugh many times, Cai Kangyong took her place to be nice to Hugh, and only then had several wonderful encounters.

Walking in the entertainment circle is not so simple, because it requires not only acting skills, looks and IQ, but also high emotional intelligence and continuous efforts in the later period. I just don't know when Hugh's next play will be on, so I'm looking forward to it. I also hope that khufu can solve his own problems and find a partner as soon as possible.

When it comes to high emotional intelligence, the first thing I think of is Lao Hu, and the person I admire most is Hugh. What Lao Hu brings to fans is a kind of positive energy, which is really worthy of the title of "having virtue and art". I always listen to khufu's acceptance speech carefully, because I can learn more things from it, including life attitude, life experience, the art of speaking, the ability to react on the spot and so on. It is really amazing to be treated as a textbook-style speech. There are really few stars who are down-to-earth, conscientious, humble and polite like Lao Hu. It is precisely because of this that he will go further and make continuous progress.

Even if Zhuo Wei, khufu speak very verve. The poem "Wind Wrinkles a Pool of Spring Water" strikes back at the exposed love. Later, I gave Zhuo Wei a set of mobile phone lenses and explained, "I know that you are good at sending sharp wide-angle fisheye macro lenses with limited telephoto field of vision. Looking at the world from another angle, we must be broad-minded. " I suggest that Zhuo Wei stop invading other people's privacy. I, Hugh, use this phrase "none of your business" to be fresh and refined. I have always believed it and it is very valuable ~ ~

Boyfriend's EQ is really high. The longest walk he took was his routine. Digging a hole for him every day, he doesn't jump.

The so-called emotional intelligence is ridiculously high. In my opinion, when encountering some unexpected situations, the actions made by the parties are both unexpected and reasonable, which will not only cause strong drama conflicts, but also give people a feeling of being suddenly enlightened.

The performance of low emotional intelligence in life is often those who flaunt themselves and call a spade a spade. They are comfortable, they hate others, and they call it for your own good and help you with advice.

However, advice when most needed is least heeded, and honest criticism is often not accepted. Although the truth is right, no one can resist the emotional troubles. Therefore, a suggestion that can be considerate of others and give guidance on the premise of safeguarding others' self-esteem is the real high emotional intelligence.

I once saw such a joke on the Internet:

Two students who were secretly smoking in the men's room were unfortunately caught by the teacher. When they were at a loss and were considering how to explain to the teacher, the teacher took out two cigarettes and handed them to them.

The student took the cigarette in disbelief and took two breaths instinctively. The teacher asked them, "How does my cigarette taste?"

At this time, the two students have put down their guard and said calmly, "The teacher's cigarettes are very good, but the expensive ones really taste different."

The teacher went on to say, "Then, why don't you hurry up and study, so that you can make money and buy better cigarettes in the future."

Although this is a simple joke, it gives us profound enlightenment. What exactly is high emotional intelligence? It not only means being able to put yourself in the other person's shoes, but also knows that it is far more effective to let the other person take the initiative to reflect on their mistakes than to criticize them fairly and severely.

In this story, the teacher not only narrowed the distance with the students, but also let the students relax their vigilance through their own behavior. Finally, change a kind of thinking, let students get the message and finally solve the problem. This is the high emotional intelligence of "moistening things silently".

Hello. Your question is: "What moment makes you feel that a person's emotional intelligence is ridiculously high?"

Seeing this problem, I immediately thought of a friend with high emotional intelligence recognized in my circle (hereinafter referred to as Xiao Ah).

This little A is neither a rich second generation nor Gao Fushuai, but the opposite sex is super good, and almost all the women who have seen him speak highly of him.

After a period of observation, I found that there are indeed some "extraordinary" things in my little life.

First, empathetic care

Empathy is an important part of emotional intelligence. Generally refers to psychological transposition and empathy. That is, put yourself in the cognitive awareness, grasp and understanding of others' emotions and emotions.

At a friend's party, during the dinner, Anne, a female friend, said sadly, "My boyfriend is breaking up with me." Someone here responded: "love rat, it must be cheating!" Others comforted G: "Nothing, let's find a better one." Some people are indignant: "No matter! Why is he right? " . Only little A. He patted Annie on the shoulder and said to her gently, "I can understand how you feel now. Although I don't know what I can comfort, I'm glad you are willing to tell us. " Annie was moved to tears at once after hearing this little sentence. ......

Now that Anne has a new boyfriend, she occasionally says when joking, "If I am not a few years older than junior A, I will definitely pursue it."

In fact, in the interaction with others, if someone can understand our feelings and emotions well, under normal circumstances, we can't help but feel good about them. This kind of understanding ability, in psychology, has an exclusive noun-* * * emotion.

Second, know the people and take care of the overall situation.

At a party, the girls were all dressed up and surrounded by the men present. Only a chubby girl, a cousin of friend Abin, sat alone in the corner and was left out in the cold. Small ah, after seeing it, take the initiative to greet the girl. As a result, everyone's eyes turned to the girl, and the girl turned red when she brushed it. Small ah suddenly said to her, "I heard that you learn vocal music, and singing must be very good." Seriously, we are all looking forward to it. "

Hearing Xiao Ya mention her advantages, the girl seems to have confidence and become less formal. Then, Xiao helped the girl order a song that she thought was nice. At the end of the song, everyone was attracted by her melodious singing and became close.

Later, I asked Xiao privately, "How do you know that girl is studying vocal music?" Small mysterious smile: "I heard Abin mentioned before that he had a cousin who studied vocal music and participated in the Good Voice competition. Later, at the party, I found that this girl had been rummaging through songs on the jukebox, and I thought it was almost enough. "

Third, the nuances look at personality.

This is my personal experience.

Xiao is a coach. Once, due to the need of work, I asked a few questions about the training needs of enterprises. Xiao gave a particularly patient explanation to every question on the phone, and I am grateful for it. What I didn't expect was that I received a small WeChat that night, which read: "Sister, the day is too hasty. I'm afraid my explanation is not comprehensive enough and specific enough. So I summed up a detailed explanation of the problem in a text version, hoping to help you. It has been sent to your mailbox 163, please check it! "

To tell you the truth, I'm really touched. I think, if I am not married, I will definitely pursue him. Ha!

He Jiong and Wang Han should be regarded as one of the ridiculously high EQs in the entertainment circle.

2. In The Life I Desire, Yang Di was asked: "If the funds are limited, only one partner from He Jiong and Huang Lei can be invited to do the program. Who would you choose? "

You can see that Yang Di's stupid face has been tangled there for a long time.

He Laoshi also gave the standard answer: "I will pay for it myself and invite another guest, because they are all my favorite big brothers."

3. If Dahua stays in the life he yearns for, and Miss Huang and He Laoshi both want to leave alone, who does Dahua want to leave?

Dahua's answer is "Miss Huang, because Huang Lei can cook". This answer is to be killed, Dahua is honest and frank.

Under the guidance of He Laoshi, Dahua also gave a perfect answer: "I won't choose. These two people are people I love, and the lack of anyone is not my yearning life."