How to chase a girl you like when you travel (when you meet someone you like when you travel)

On that day, fans posted a message on the public platform and asked me: Ella, what should I do when I meet someone I like and a love that is about to start?

At that time, I wanted to answer her all at once, saying, brave enough to love, we are at our best during the trip, and it is a wonderful thing to meet distant places and love with two hot hearts.

and I suddenly remembered the Korean boy I met in Prague when I traveled around the world for the first time. I often said that love in travel is to meet each other at the wrong time in the best state. Even though it will be because of the legend of Charlie Bridge, we kissed each other, but in the end, I resolutely chose to end the further development, because that young heart always belongs to the farther scenery.

I also collect the love stories of other fans and friends during their travels. The beauty of those trips is just to enjoy the beautiful journey without seeking results.

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Meeting love during the trip

No regrets in youth

Miss Anonymous: In the fourth month of traveling around the world, I traveled to Turkey, and I fell in love with a boy in Cappadocia, my host and their home. This is the first time I like someone on a long trip. The first time I fell in love was very beautiful. After getting along for half a month, I planned to go to Egypt. Under his repeated detention, I still forced myself to leave. The day before I left, he still implicitly retained me and said, "Do you know? You should stay for two more days, because Cappadocia will be more beautiful in two days. " If you have seen the beautiful pink sunset in Cappadocia, you must understand how sad you will be when you leave.

After a month's trip to Egypt, I returned to Cappadocia because I missed it all the time. However, when I came back, everything changed. I found out that the members of this family hostel only receive sofa guests for business, because the sofa guests who come to stay will definitely order hot air balloons and other projects (in fact, many sofa guests I met later told me that many family hotels in Kappa will receive sofa guests in this way). His family is very dissatisfied with my return, perhaps because of the influence of his family, and he is increasingly alienated from me.

On a sad night when I was drunk alone, I packed my bags and left his house. My consciousness was hazy, and it was not convenient to find a youth hostel in the middle of the night. I cried and stopped a bus that picked up the plane at night. After confirming that there were many travelers on the bus, I said to the driver, "Would you please help me find a youth hostel with girls?" .

the next day, I woke up in a very beautiful family cave hotel. It turned out that I kept crying on the bus, and at the same time a couple on the bus had a quarrel with the owner of the cave hotel because of the order. The driver saw that I kept crying and asked the boss for help. Because the boss was dissatisfied with the attitude of the couple, he decided to give me the luxurious room originally reserved for them for free. I remember I asked, "I might dirty your room", but the boss said, "It doesn't matter. Let's just change the sheets tomorrow. Have a good rest today."

The next day, I woke up in the warm sunshine in Kappa, and I thanked the boss who helped me. Then, I lived in the youth hostel next to me. In this three-person girl room, I met very independent and confident Korean girls and American girls. During the three or four days of traveling together, we became good friends who talked about everything. They also taught me that we should love ourselves first.

I thought, if I don't look back, won't that wonderful memory stay in my heart forever?

But if I don't look back and see the truth clearly, how can I meet strangers who helped me at a critical moment, and those long-lasting friendships with girls?

all unpleasantness will dissipate with time after you Move on. Then a month later, in my favorite Georgia, the paradise-like Mestia, I met a skier of the national team. On the watchtower, we drank, chatted and shared our lives until three in the morning. I'll never forget his melting smile, that kind of beautiful feeling, like returning to the first love. When he said, "You should come back in winter, because I can teach you skiing." I didn't have any special expectations at first, and I stopped planning a reunion. On the contrary, we cherish the starry sky and snow scene now and leave the unknown to the future. Long-distance travel has made me learn that sometimes I am invulnerable and sometimes I am gentle as water. If I must have a clear principle or attitude for the "affair" in my travel, I hope I can relax and enjoy myself, and the rest will be spontaneous. Everyone has different experiences in the journey, so I feel different about each country. It is useless to regret a "wrong" decision or indulge in the "good" of the past. Looking back, no matter good or bad, it has become a precious memory.

When I was a child, did I guess or even expect the hero and heroine to meet again? Now I understand that there is no result because the result is no longer important.

there are laughter and tears. Isn't that youth?

It's cruel to meet people who like each other during the trip.

Passerby A: On the New Year's Eve and Spring Festival of 216-217, I came to Yanji for the New Year's Eve, and several friends from Guangzhou came, one of whom was particularly attractive to me. We play werewolf killing together, eat and sing K. He has all the looks I like, and I like all his looks.

Meet the boxing coach

Anisodamine: Every time I go out for a trip, I almost stay in a youth brigade. He was known by a youth brigade in Chengdu. That night, the girl in the same room called me out to play games. The boss made a cruel move, and the loser was fined. Almost all of them lost that day. When he came back from dinner, he saw that I was not quite right and told me to go back to my room to rest, so he had a good impression on him. When I left, I took the initiative to ask the boy's WeChat for the first time. Ten days later, I left Chengdu and returned to Shangrao, my mother who gave birth to me and raised me. He returned to Mianyang and continued to be a boxing coach. After that, I kept in touch intermittently until one day he told me that I had a girlfriend, and I decided not to bother you. Coach Zhao, I wish you happiness and sincerity.

the best journey is never to look back.

Xu Qiqi: Let me tell you my own story. After all, I still love him until now, and I don't regret it. Although he doesn't know the right thing, he tries to contact if he likes it. After all, knowing is fate, and his heart is hard to come by. The best trip is never to look back.

I met him for the first time in 214. He was wearing jeans and a green vest at the west gate of the school. I just want to laugh when I look at this man who claims to eat by his face on the internet. It's really inexplicable self-confidence. When I got on the bus, I was surprised that he really left a front row seat, introduced himself and played games for a few minutes, and the whole tour bus venue was heated up.

So, it seems as if there is no approach, try to chat and try to see your heart clearly. It's been 15 years since I confirmed my heart. I haven't been in touch for a long time, but I suddenly dreamed of him, holding hands, hugging and kissing him. When I woke up, I didn't have tears or wet pillow towels, only myself in a trance and the fact that I had to accept it.

however, I am in Shanghai and he is in Kunming.

In 215, I tried to chat with him all the time, but it didn't go well. He was very busy, busy with work and dealing with human feelings. Where did he have time to deal with a casual relationship with no characteristics? However, after looking for more times, I also talked a few words.

I remember, he said that he had traveled so many places, and the place that impressed him the most was Phoenix. I also remember his Lunar Birthday and the Gregorian Birthday calculated from it.

as I remember, he said he wanted to quit his job and start a business. So, when he mentioned that he wanted to find a sister to help manage WeChat official account, I volunteered to take it, even though I was overwhelmed by my studies. He said, write a story, and I'll pick up the pen.

I have written so many short articles, but I can't write a complete travel story, because all I can think of is his lazy appearance by Erhai Lake. He said that he wanted to publicize, so I learned to do copywriting, learn to collect information, and secretly turn on the computer in class to help him improve the official number. I thought I had made it clear, even if I didn't mean to, at least he would feel it, but today, he asked me, what happened to you? Did you fall in love? I laid a smiling face calmly, ignoring my stomach twitching suddenly and violently. Thank you for your concern, but I couldn't type it out. I'm not sad when he shows off his girls in a circle of friends, because I know that they are just friends. I have confidence to become more dazzling and dazzling in his eyes. Why should I be sad when I send him two tickets to a music festival on his birthday? I smiled and told him that I'm not sad when I find a girl to watch it with, because it's good that he is not lonely when he is far away. Let me wish him that he will get into a girl with big breasts during the holiday, because I know that he likes to play such harmless little jokes, even if I don't.

but why, it will be a little sad this time? I thought it was not time. Why did I have a strong desire to tell him? I couldn't write the article because I mentioned that love can only think of you. I was unhappy because of your indifference. My friends' hypocritical words were written for you, and I was only worried about you looking for me on WeChat all the time. But what if I say it, it will only increase my troubles and even lose my qualifications for friends and help.

it is agreed that the best journey is never to look back. Either you don't want to or you don't.

Meet a clean little brother

Dirty Pai Daxing: Of course, when you meet someone you like during your trip, chase! Go after it boldly and impudently ~ I met a little brother in Zhoushan on May 1st last year, who was thin, weak and clean in vain. According to my experience in walking in the Jianghu, this man is GAY, not my type at all, so I showed myself impudently in front of him, such as playing games to get revenge on my forehead. Later, I went to Guangzhou, and after a few days of getting along, I really liked this little brother ~ the kind who especially wanted to touch him. Ahem, I don't like people touching me, or the kind who touched others, and I have a mental cleanliness addiction … Then, Guangzhou said goodbye, and I expressed my heart, and he declined … but I went to see him again in September, completely hopeless! Anyway, I haven't met the person I like yet, so I still like him and miss him, but I believe that when I meet the person I like again, he will become a thing of the past (my eyes are full of tears when I write this). Will he see this?

I met a man 13 years older than me in Taiwan Province

Miss Anonymous: I met a man 13 years older than me during my trip to Taiwan Province, and I liked everything. I felt that God had finally opened his eyes and met someone I really liked. I told him my thoughts and said that I wanted to be together, but he said that he didn't want to get married and have children. Life was already very hard, and those things needed too much thought. The reason why his four ex-girlfriends broke up was to marry him. He is also relatively cold in character, not very caring about people, and he doesn't like others to bother him. So if I'm with him, I'll go back to the mainland right away, and I don't think I'll see him once every few months, because he's busy at work, and his work accounts for a large part of his life. I said I wanted to be with him, and he said yes, just let me prepare for the worst and maybe break up.

Because I am only 22 years old, my life experience is much worse than his, so I always feel as low as dust in front of him, but because I really like it, I always feel that I can ignore it. He's not a promiscuous person. He hasn't even touched his fingers with me, but his concept of love is so different from mine. I want to have a family. If he is willing to marry me, I can come to Taiwan Province at all costs, but he won't. So in short, his answer is that we can not be too serious together. Now when I come back to the mainland, I can only greet him occasionally on WeChat every day, because I am afraid that he will find me annoying, and he doesn't care much about me. He said I could visit him in Taiwan Province at any time, but he didn't want to come to the mainland. So I want to visit him in Taiwan Province recently.

My parents are firmly opposed to this, because I have been losing weight since I came back. They say that this man is too selfish, and I am too young to understand, so I will suffer. But I really like it so much that I feel willing to pay, but I didn't expect it to be so painful.

Finally, I read everyone's stories carefully. Maybe the ending of the stories is not so happy, but what I want to say is that when I was young, the people and things I met were like leaves on the lake, which broke the calm but made you feel full of power. Love in travel, love to hate to leave, and gathering together were all beautiful.

* The picture comes from the movie "Before Sunrise"

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Ella Sanhei

A global travel writer, who has published "In this way, I slept on the sofa all over the world" in Weibo &; WeChat official account: Ella Sanhei travels around the world WeChat: ella3hei