Why is boredom the fate of love?

Sometimes it is inevitable that growing up and taking on responsibilities is boring.

Just like in the third part of Zhiming and Chunjiao, they are getting closer and closer to us in reality. They grow up, get old, want to get married and have children, and have to shoulder various responsibilities. I can no longer love when I want, leave when I want, and I consciously carry the burden of life.

However, living is not just for happiness and fun. Just like what is said in "The Little Prince": "I always believe that a person can live a very innocent and simple life, and it must be protected by countless people around him at a greater cost." Be strong, so that people around you can be innocent and simple , isn’t it valuable?

Another equally positive explanation is that different ages are interesting in different ways. We can’t always think that smoking in the alley while telling erotic jokes and pouring dry ice into the toilet is very interesting. One day, maybe it is really only by staying together, getting married and raising children... that things like this can make us feel interesting, practical and happy. , how will you know if you don’t try?

Lace Jun

Chunjiao saves Zhiming: Will love eventually become boring

Author/Dark Warrior

Distance from the previous part Five years have passed since "Chunjiao and Zhiming". I have never been so anxiously waiting for the sequel of a romantic movie. After all, such expectations have always seemed to only happen to series of movies like Batman and Star Wars.

It is like a love enlightenment textbook. It is more powerful than the straightforward and fierce Liu Zai (Cantonese: pornographic film). The ambiguous rhythm is so just and thoughtful, and even the salty and wet jokes are... Like a magnetic field, it attracts many people.

Even the second part of "Beishang Trial", which was criticized by die-hard fans, is not too bad for me: the relationship between Chun Jiao and Ekin Cheng, the end of the film is full of ambition and attitude, "You often say "Some things don't need to be done in one night, but I want to tell you that if you don't finish some things in one night, you will never have the chance to do them again in this life."

…these plots and lines are wonderful to this day. Just like Zhang Zhiming’s favorite meat sauce pasta, it’s a bit salty, but I can’t help it, it’s just to my liking!

It took a lot of effort to find a cinema showing the Cantonese version of "Chun Jiao Saves Zhiming". After watching the movie at 11 o'clock in the evening, I walked down the street, and my mind was filled with the song "Zhi Ming and Chun Jiao" that Zhang Zhiming roared at the end of the film. The lyrics connected their seven years of love, from the first time they checked into a hotel in Manchun Hotel. , Wang Xinping's song "Don't Ask Me Who I am" in ktv, the UFO over Mong Kok, to the third part where Chun Jiao pretends to be a pretty nurse to bandage up Zhiming's feelings, the truth index and nostalgia index are all 100%.

Although Peng Haoxiang still refuses to change his gender in the movie and plays all kinds of evil fun, the ending still reaches a climax with evil intentions. The tears you shed also prove that what he said, "I have been thinking about the script for several years" is not an exaggeration.

Time is such a scary monster. The people watching the movie were all fifteen or sixteen-year-old children. When the Peng's Horror Movie appeared in the opening credits, everyone exclaimed that they had put the wrong movie. It was just me." "Adult" quietly watched it play tricks.

Yes, we are not the only ones who have grown up, but also Chunjiao and Zhiming. Although Zhiming is still full of fantastic ideas, such as spending 95,000 to buy a Dali sculpture; he is not mature enough either. , "If anything happens, the first thing that comes to my mind is myself." Chunjiao was left alone by the door during the earthquake in the hotel.

However, he also began to want a child and wanted to get married.

Watching Zhang Zhiming accompany Chunjiao’s mother to buy groceries, and Chunjiao’s father to clubs and bars, I was thinking, what is the essence of love? Is it a sacrifice? Is it giving? romantic? sense of security? Is it to eventually get married and have children, or are you just afraid of one person, so you find someone else? A relationship that has gone through the ambiguity and honeymoon phases may be as stable as a baby's electrocardiogram, but is it also tiring?

The movie only took one song to give the answer. There is no doubt that Zhiming Chunjiao, who had experienced an emotional crisis, reconciled again, and the happy ending seemed to be right.

Love will eventually be tainted with the breath of life, just like a plane that has landed, it has flown enough.

One of the symptoms of aging mentioned by Ariel Ariel in "I May Not Love You" is: "For people with wrong magnetic fields, you can say goodbye, goodbye, goodbye..." without any concern. When it comes to the person with the right magnetic field, the situation is the opposite. Maybe he takes a step back and you take a step forward; or maybe you want to give up countless times, but you feel soft-hearted and remember his kindness.

Falling in love is a matter of a moment, but love does not take "seconds" as a unit. It is a long game, with constant compromises and constant trade-offs.

Chunjiao and Zhiming, like those good men and women involved in the world of mortals, sometimes wish they could stick together all day long and transform into a conjoined baby girl. When you feel overwhelmed, sometimes you have to pay more attention to your feelings when considering a problem.

So you will see the scene in "Chunjiao Saves Zhiming" where Chunjiao suppresses her unhappiness and decides to live with her young godmother at home, but Zhiming refuses the godmother's request to use sperm to have a child.

I used to think that it would be great to simply be a love slave, treating myself as a purple fairy grass, and that love is a fairy water that blends the essence of heaven and earth. Later I realized that Xianshui also had its weaknesses. What seemed like a happy ending was actually full of suspicion, hesitation and wavering.

The scene where Chunjiao sneaks into the bathtub wearing a plastic bag is like a metaphor, suggesting the fragility of love life.

This kind of cruelty is tried hard to weaken by the director, but at the same time it is omnipresent.

The childlike Zhiming has restrained himself, and the Chunjiao who longs for a sense of security makes the love in the third part less ambiguous. Perhaps it's not a problem with the movie itself at all, but the restlessness of love is far more charming than love that escapes into daily routine.

Will this kind of love that has been tested over and over again eventually become boring?

Chunjiao will never be able to dress up as Madonna wearing a cone bra like in the first movie. One day, Zhiming will only feel stupid when he recalls the past when he scared Chunjiao in the parking lot. ...I feel so sad just thinking about it.

Who knows, for Zhiming Chunjiao in reality, the quality of love has always been a matter of self-knowledge.