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Some folk taboos and common sense of yin and yang

1. What are the folk taboos and common sense of Yin and Yang in China?

China's folk taboos and common sense of Yin and Yang are as follows: 1. Don't wear red clothes when you walk in the street at night. It's six o'clock in the afternoon, after sunset. There are two taboos when going out at night. First, don't wear black clothes. Black clothes are very heavy, just like the representative color of ghosts, so ghosts like to stick to black places at night.

Second, avoid wearing red clothes. Red clothes are more attractive to demons. If you plan to go out at night, remember! 2, long corridor lights There are corridors between many buildings, and it is easy to accumulate gloom when you often can't see the corridor. Ghosts like to hide in cold places. If there is a promenade at home, remember to install an ever-burning lamp to prevent ghosts from staying.

Hiking with jade is the favorite leisure sport of modern people. Because the mountains are all highlands and the humidity is high all the year round, many animals died here before, which is virtually a good holiday and leisure activity, which invisibly strengthens the negative magnetic field. If you don't want to see the "dirty things" you don't want to see, you can wear some jade ornaments before climbing to increase your personal positive magnetic field.

4, don't play the disc fairy ask the spirits Young people like to pursue * * *, and watching movies is also spiritual. Influenced by movies, everyone plays with ghosts and gods. In fact, it is extremely inappropriate to directly seek contact and communication with the spiritual body, which is equivalent to directly opening the door to monsters.

Especially those who find themselves angry near the press, this game can't be played. 5. The Eight Diagrams Blocking Funeral Parlour is a funeral place, which has accumulated more soul grievances and a strong negative magnetic field.

Friends who live near the funeral home can put a gossip outside the gate or window. Ancestors used gossip to prevent evil spirits from entering the house and keep them out.

6. See a doctor first. If you need to go to the hospital often to take care of the patients, you might as well burn incense and worship Buddha before you leave, bless the patients and their health, and also make a peace of mind. 7, staying in the hotel to avoid the tail room, friends who often travel and stay in the hotel know that living in the tail room is not appropriate. This is also well-founded, because the weifang is occupied by Yin Qi due to insufficient daily light, and the spirits like to gather in dark places.

So the next time the house is assigned to the tail room, you might as well change rooms. 8. Mental figures should avoid hotel room numbers. In Feng Shui, "two" and "five" belong to spiritual numbers. In a hotel room with the number "two" or "five", it is easy to attract the attention of the spiritual body. If you are unlucky, you may encounter a spirit body.

2. How to prevent ghosts

First, it is not appropriate to leave a shadow on physiognomy, but it is a shining place. If you leave a "shadow" on your forehead, it is equivalent to putting out this bright lamp, mildew and rot will haunt you, and ghosts and gods will easily get close to you. So it's best to have your hair cut or poked.

Second, don't wear red clothes when you go out at night. There are two taboos. First, avoid wearing black clothes, all because of the dark color. Ghosts like to be attached here. Second, don't wear red. For evil spirits, red is a unique color and easy to attract attention. Men and women who love to walk at night should remember.

Third, saying "imp", "degenerate ghost", "ghost cares about you" and "trouble" is the mantra of many people. Remember, don't say much about this, because the pronunciation magnetic field may encounter ghosts.

If you often talk about the word "ghost", you really have to quit. Fourth, the promenade lights Many families have promenades, and the promenade often does not see the sun, resulting in a situation in which yin flourishes and yang declines. This is the favorite hiding place of ghosts and souls. Therefore, if there is a long corridor at home, remember to install an ever-burning lamp to enhance the yang, so as not to let ghosts stay.

Mountain hiking with jade is a good holiday leisure activity. However, due to the high humidity in the highlands, many animals rot after death, which invisibly strengthens the negative magnetic field. If you don't want to see "dirty things", you might as well wear some jade ornaments to enhance your personal positive magnetic field.

Sixth, don't play the disc fairy to ask the spirits. Young people love to seek * * *, and they like everyone to play with the disc fairy and ask the spirits to predict the future. In fact, it is easy to feel the existence of "them" in daily life through such direct contact and communication with spiritual bodies.

This kind of thing is especially taboo for those who find that Tang Yin next to them is black. Seven, the Eight Diagrams Blocking Funeral Parlour is the place where ancestors go to funeral, and it is filled with a sad atmosphere, so the negative magnetic field is strong.

Friends who live near the funeral home suggest putting a gossip outside the window. Among them, gossip represents righteousness and is full of righteousness. Nature is not afraid of evil spirits entering the house and living near the funeral home.

Eight, see a doctor first. If you need to go in and out of the hospital often, you may wish to worship God in advance and seek peace of mind. If the patient you visit is your relative, it is especially effective to worship the family god; If the patient is a friend rather than a relative, he can go to the general temple to burn incense and pray for the blessing of the gods.

Nine, stay in the hotel, avoid the tail room, travel and stay in the hotel. Many people say that weifang is not suitable for living. This is indeed well-founded, because the tail room usually lacks sunshine and yang, and the spirit likes to wander in this dark place, so if you stay in a hotel and are assigned to the tail room, you might as well change rooms.

Ten, the spirit number should be avoided. As for the number of hotel rooms, we should also pay attention. In Feng Shui, "two" and "five" are spiritual numbers, so the hotel room mantissa cannot have "two" or "five", otherwise it will easily attract the attention of ghosts and gods, and people with low fortune may collide with them. In addition, when traveling or staying in hotels frequently, some people should remember some taboo methods.

Because if you don't pay attention, you are likely to be targeted by "ghosts" ... First, before entering the hotel: when knocking at the door sideways, you should ring the doorbell before opening the door, don't ring the doorbell three times, and then go sideways to show respect for "ghosts". 2. After entering: Turn on all the lights, flush the toilet, open the cupboard and lift the pillow. After entering the hotel room, turn on all the lights, including table lamps and bathrooms. Then go to the toilet to flush the toilet, which means to wash away all the filth. Then open the cupboard, then open the quilt and pat the pillow. All these actions mean telling the ghost to go away.

Third, when sleeping: it is best to turn on a small light to ward off evil spirits when sleeping, which will also bring you a sense of security. In addition, shoes should not be placed neatly beside the bed. It is said that if placed neatly, ghosts will be worn at night, so it is best to put them in disorder or upside down. Fourth, taboo in a strange environment, it is best not to be too harsh or swear. Some hotels will display bibles or Buddhist scriptures. Don't be rude because of different religions.

Otherwise ... teach a few tricks to deal with ghosts. 1. The sleeping ghost presses the bed and says, Put the scissors under the pillow ... 2. Don't be curious to see someone commit suicide, or burn yellow paper at the scene of a car accident, because dirty air will enter your body. If you are the first person to enter the scene, please say it three times: avoid bad luck to others. Remember to be careful. 3. Don't step on it. If there is a spell, the result of stepping on it is that the patient is cured and you are treating the disease. Please remember. If you find yourself seriously ill, but the hospital can't cure it, or even find out the reason, ask the Taoist for help. If you often have the same nightmare, please build a dike, villain, someone will want to harm you. Don't stamp your tires, everything has life, everything. Otherwise, my mother's health will be worse. 7 be careful when buying a house. Many houses were originally in cemeteries, and some were rivers. Be sure to ask, our friend's little daughter will inexplicably fall from the fourth floor and become a vegetable. Some second-hand houses have been killed or murdered, and ghosts have nowhere to go. Be sure to ask. Don't have plastic surgery, because many plastic surgery materials come from animals, and their faces have many small blood vessels. During the operation, you will be disconnected. Don't walk often at night. If you are afraid, please ask your own mother to call back your soul. 10 Don't do too many bad things. Every now and then, all ghosts are bad people, and they often start with people who do bad things. Many capitalists get rich by exploitation, and they are unwilling to donate. Only when Mr. Feng Shui reminds them that someone will harm them, do some face-saving projects. 1 1 Don't kill the snake. Snakes are spiritual animals. Now snakes are found in the city, and 1 10 is released. If you are unfortunate enough to kill a snake, go to the farmer's market to buy some and set them free. Tell them repeatedly that you didn't understand at that time and beg them to forgive you. 13 Don't tell fortune tellers your real horoscope, they will change your good luck, and you'd better decorate some red things in the room, because ghosts will think it is blood after reading it, and they will be very scared. 56660.6666866666 1

3. Folk taboos ~ ~ ~ Detailed and true

Folk taboos for pregnant women to move;

1. I am pregnant, can I move at home?

It is best not to move at the beginning of pregnancy, because the fetal god is in different directions every day, and moving casually will easily affect the fetus; If it is necessary to move, we can choose a date according to the birthday calendar. Is it inappropriate to move? If you want to move, you should look at the position of the fetal god, try not to hurt the pregnant woman and avoid dodging the position of the fetal god that day. You can also buy a new broom, tie a red cloth at the joint between the handle and the head and sweep it.

Don't raise your hand over your shoulder, otherwise it's easy to have an abortion?

There are different situations according to individual physique. If there is habitual abortion in the family, be careful. If the physique is weak, you can consult a doctor first, how to take care of yourself with medical methods and enhance your physique; In addition, some fetal safety signs can be required to provide more intangible protection. Remind expectant mothers that although they believe in God, they should not be too superstitious!

3. Don't pat pregnant women on the shoulder?

According to folklore, people have three fires, the biggest one is on their heads and the second one is on their shoulders. If a person is suddenly slapped on the shoulder, it will be really shocking, and Shen Yuan is unstable. If pregnant women are weak, they are more likely to be unable to take care of the fetus, from bleeding to miscarriage. Therefore, most people should pay attention to the posture of pregnant women, and don't do * * * or large-scale movements.

4. Do you want to avoid hanging pictures of wild animals in the living room?

It depends. If you have put the picture in the living room before pregnancy, there is no need to move it, but it is best not to install a new picture casually after pregnancy, because you may use your nails for fear of offending the fetal god. If the picture must be erected, it is suggested to look at the position of the fetal god another day. The picture should be mainly based on words and feng shui paintings, which will help pregnant women relax and form a better quality of prenatal education.

5. avoid choking in the kitchen, and the toilet is easy to accumulate water?

If it is not necessary, pregnant women should try not to go to the kitchen to get kitchen knives and sharp things, except that they may accidentally meet the fetal god. If they accidentally hit or get scared, it may lead to miscarriage. As for whether there is dirty air in the toilet, it actually depends on personal hygiene habits. Washing clothes regularly, ventilation, and not piling soap and sundries on the ground can prevent pregnant women from slipping.

6. Can a pregnant woman look like a boy or a girl with a round belly? & gt& gt Look at the mother's belly and guess the sex of the baby.

Generally speaking, pregnant women's bellies look oval and egg-shaped, and the chances of giving birth to boys are high, while those with round bellies like glutinous rice balls are high. Of course, this statement is the accumulation of experience and has its basis, but it is not 100% accurate. In the past, pregnant women used to invite family dignitaries (good luck or a full house of children and grandchildren) to congratulate you on giving birth to a boy or girl and give good luck; However, in modern society, both boys and girls are highly valued. After all, precious life is worth cherishing.

4. What are the taboos among the people?

Since the primitive society, people often believe that language has supernatural power, so some oral colors and taboos have been formed.

Most of these oral colors or taboos are related to homophonic characters or text understanding. Common ones are as follows: 1. Characters about ghosts and gods.

People often have awe of what they worship, such as heaven, the underworld and gods, and often avoid these words. When you have to say it, you should also add "Grandpa", "Grandpa", "Empress" and "Grandma" to show respect and awe, such as God, Goddess of Pine Nut, Master of Mountain God, Master Yan and Mother Taishan.

Suzhou people call "ghosts" "Master Xu". Second, words about good animals and evil animals.

People regard some animals as good animals, such as weasels and hedgehogs, and call them "fairy homes", which is very respected. Also known as Master Hu, Master Huang, Master Bai, Master Liu and Master Grey in Jianghu.

It is also forbidden to be outspoken about fierce animals such as tigers, calling them "big worms", "mountain gods" in the northeast, and cats, big cats, Bashanzi and bobcats in other places; Changsha even changed "fermented bean curd" into "cat milk" because "rot" and "tiger" are homophonic. Folk also called Wolf Mouth, Old Pockmarked, Mahu, Zhang San, snake worm, long dragon, loach, turtle and tuanyu.

Third, about disease and death. In the folk, as long as minors say "waist pain", adults immediately say: "children have no waist, no pain."

This is the psychological expression of people's ignorance of the disease. Even if you are really sick, you can't say "sick", saying that you feel bad, inappropriate, unhappy, bad, bad; Call the disabled incompetent, inconvenient, useless, ruined, hard of hearing, Zhong Er, bad eyes, etc.

Many ethnic groups regard "death" as an unlucky language and are not allowed to say "death" at ordinary times. People think that, coincidentally, they are crashing into death and must die.

On holidays, let alone "death". Dead fish and dead duck can be said to be "literary fish" and "literary duck". People are also taboo to talk about corpses, so they call parking corpses "stopping mourning" and use "mourning" to refer to the dead.

People who carry corpses and coffins are called "weightlifters" and "weightlifters", so in some places, "lifting" and "lifting" are rarely mentioned. "corpse" is also called "spirit" For example, the mortuary is called a mourning hall, the corpse is called a "wake", and the funeral is called a "wake".

Fourth, about deficits, such as money. Businessmen aim at making profits and are most afraid of words such as "erosion", "discount" and "consumption".

"Consumption" is a taboo for businesses, so it is called "mouse"; Business taboo "dry", no profit, white busy, closed, drinking northwest wind, so when it comes to "dry" and its homonym, we must be euphemistic. "Counting" and "losing" are homophonic, so merchants dare not count coins outward, but must count them in their arms; In Cantonese, books, silks, lions and pigs are homophonic with "losing" and become taboo, so the general books are changed to "winning", loofah to "winning melons", golden lion to "golden lion", pig head to "profit" and pig ears to "wind ears".

It is unlucky for businesses to avoid "erosion" and lose money or lose money. Therefore, when encountering erosion and its homophony, speak politely. For example, in the south, the tongue is called "auspicious", for example, the cow tongue is called the cow tongue, the pig tongue is called the pig tongue, or it is called "deletion", such as pig deletion, cow deletion, or "profit-seeking", such as pig profit-seeking; In the north, it is called "door gun" and "mouth". In fact, there are many such words among the people. In the final analysis, these taboos are people's passive avoidance of the supernatural power they summon.

At the same time, it is also related to people's one-sided language psychology of "saying that wolves are coming and ghosts are coming".

5. What is the knowledge of Yin and Yang Feng Shui?

The shape of Yin and Yang Feng Shui is broken 1, the height behind the grave is high, and the roots and seedlings are broken.

Refers to the grave, the pulse shrinks behind the grave, and it is either poor or unique. 2. After being buried, it will slowly rise and die.

Refers to the point on the dragon's back. Because Longxing has no tendency to stop, it has to move, so it belongs to the Lord. 3. After being buried, like tiles, children and grandchildren lose roots and buds.

Finger pillow leaks, and pulse gas is absent. The Lord raped first and then died. The adulterer is caused by head shower or brain wind.

4. In the pedal groove of the headrest mallet, there is no asshole. The stick refers to cause and effect, and the pedal groove refers to the heartless dragon, the heartless ditch and the greedy flower.

5. Like a dustpan in front of a cave, children and grandchildren are poor in the end. Refers to the point field is not true, and the residual qi is insufficient, so that the pulse is heavy but not floating.

6, residual gas is like a drag gun, and children will be strong. In front of the cave is the place where children and grandchildren worship, so the residual gas is inherited by children and grandchildren.

There is also the fierceness of residual gas, and the equipment of gun-shaped people and robbers must be dealt with. Another example is that the residual gas is scattered, but it is a waste of time and there is no real knot.

7. The tomb tree was burnt or twined with vines, died in prison and retired. This is an external image. If the tree is burnt, it will hurt Ding, and if the vine is entangled, it will be arrested.

8. The grave was burnt or crooked, and the bad news came together. External images are usually based on color. Although I can feel it, I can only understand it.

9, stone evil, thin soil, dry vegetation, the house is not rich. The body is invisible, tangible and colorless, all because it is impossible to concentrate the pulse, and it is naturally hopeless to get rich.

Yin House Feng Shui and Bagua Ganshan: Ganshan is Tianzhu and should be tall and fat. After the cave, the owner will live a long life. Its shape is like a heavenly horse, which urges officials to live longer. Kanshan: Kanshan is the boundary between Yin and Yang. It is tall and fat, simple and honest, honest and virtuous. If the ridge is low and the north wind blows, how poor it is and it is not conducive to wealth.

If we lag behind, the Lord will die of poverty. Some people in Longsha have no money, and it is not good to work hard in Room 369 of Husha.

Away from the mountain: away from the mountain is also the place where yin and yang begin to divide. Away from the eyes, away from the mountain is tall and fat, and the main eye is multi-eyed. From being a middle-aged woman, women are even more disadvantageous.

Sitting due east and west is very profitable. Genshan: Genshan is a young man, tall, fat and rich. The young man is not sick and makes a fortune by buying and selling. Low roots lead to many diseases.

Zhenshan: Zhenshan is tall and fat, with more boys and fewer girls. He is a warrior. The host is straightforward.

If it is depressed and the population is not prosperous, there are many girls and boys. If you live in Longsha main house 1, 4, 7, the population is not prosperous. Looking for the Mountain: Fang Xun is tall and beautiful, delicate in coming and going, with a virtuous husband and a nephew.

If Xunshan is tall and delicate, the female is expensive, and it is the official mountain of Liuxiu. If there is a depression here, the mother and daughter will die.

Kunshan: Kunshan is the mother. If Kunshan is tall and plump, the mother and daughter will live long, with a large population and wealth. To the mountain: to the girl of the mountain, the party of three auspicious big shows, if the mountain is high, it is most beneficial for the Kejia family to be the master of all-round talents, and it is also most beneficial for their own family to show more women, beautiful, rich and expensive.

If you are depressed here, women will die and there will be many girls and boys. Anyone sitting due north to due south will feel wet. Pressing the mountain high, the water comes to the DPRK, leading to lameness, mainly suffering from waist and leg diseases, four-dimensional and eight-dry, its mountains are fat and round, and the one who stands high is the champion.

The geomantic omen of Yin House and Baguagan Mountain is Tianzhu, which should be tall and fat. After the cave, the owner will live a long life. Its shape is like a heavenly horse, which urges officials to live longer. Kanshan is the place where Yin and Yang begin to divide. Lushan is tall and fat, simple and honest, honest and virtuous. If the ridge is low and the north wind blows, how poor it is and it is not conducive to wealth.

If we lag behind, the Lord will die of poverty. Some people in Longsha have no money, and it is not good to work hard in Room 369 of Husha.

Leaving the mountain is also the place where yin and yang begin to divide. Being away from the mountain is the purpose, tall and fat, and many eyes are diseases. From being a middle-aged woman, women are even more disadvantageous.

Sitting due east and west is very profitable. Genshan is a young man. The root mountain is tall and fat, and the main wealth is small. Young men don't get sick, but make a fortune by trading. Low root mountain leads to more diseases.

Zhenshan is tall and fat, with more boys and fewer girls. He is a warrior. The host is straightforward.

If it is depressed and the population is not prosperous, there are many girls and boys. If you live in Longsha main house 1, 4, 7, the population is not prosperous. Fang Xun is tall and beautiful, with a handsome face, a virtuous husband and a nephew.

If Xunshan is tall and delicate, the female is expensive, and it is the official mountain of Liuxiu. If there is a depression here, the mother and daughter will die.

Kunshan is an old mother. If Kunshan is tall and fat, it will have a long life, a large population and a lot of wealth. Yes, Miss Shan is a phalanx of three auspicious big shows. If Dunshan is tall, he will make the most money to be a man with all-around skills, and more female shows at home will also make the most money, so that he can be versatile, beautiful, rich and expensive.

If you are depressed here, women will die and there will be many girls and boys. Anyone sitting due north to due south will feel wet. Pressing the mountain high, the water comes to the DPRK, leading to lameness, mainly suffering from waist and leg diseases, four-dimensional and eight-dry, its mountains are fat and round, and the one who stands high is the champion.

6. There are some folk taboos in the paranormal, the more the better.

1. When it thunders in rainy days, throw a knife or scissors outside the door to ward off evil spirits, because it can prevent evil things scared by thunder from escaping into the house.

But the above situation may bring danger and annoy some things.

2. Don't take your children to the funeral, and don't take them to the grave, because the children's canopy is not closed, and their aura is still there. They can see things that adults can't, but children's yang is not strong. As a result of Yin Qi's invasion, people became ill easily.

If someone familiar calls your name in the middle of the night or in foggy weather, you must wait until three times to agree.

4, you can't look in the mirror in the middle of the night, so in the folk, the mirrors in the homes of ordinary people are all buckled.

A mirror should be hung on the door of the new house, which is said to be a demon mirror, but it is rare now.

6. Go home after dark. After entering the door, turn around and close the door. You can't just take it to the door. The reason is ominous.

7. When you get up in the middle of the night to go to the toilet or enter other places where no one is there, you should cough loudly first to remind Yin and Yang to avoid each other.

8. Noon is the hardest time of the day. Killing people used to be at three o'clock at noon, so don't go to the wild alone at this time.

9. People who wear red clothes will become ghosts, so don't wear red clothes for people who are dying.

10, when a person is in the wild and encounters a whirlwind, he spits at the center of the wind.

1 1, the blood of human middle finger has congenital pure Yang Qi, which can ward off evil spirits and bite the middle finger at critical moments. . . . . .

12. When you meet a single woman, an old man or a child in the wild, don't casually strike up a conversation with him or help him.

13, evil:

Official clothes, inkstone, baby. A butcher knife. Middle finger blood. Willow,

14. Evil spirits

Warriors, butchers, mature men with thick hair, famous juren, cultivated monks, elderly people over 80 years old, newborn babies. Charitable person

7. China folk taboos, to be more specific.

In China, eating with chopsticks has been handed down from ancient times. Also called "chopsticks" in ancient times, the use of chopsticks in daily life is very particular. Generally, when we use chopsticks, the correct way to use chopsticks is to hold chopsticks with the right hand, hold the upper end of chopsticks with the thumb and forefinger, and hold chopsticks with the other three fingers naturally bent, and the two ends of chopsticks must be aligned. In the use process, chopsticks must be placed neatly on the right side of the rice bowl before eating, and must be placed neatly in the middle of the rice bowl after eating. But it is absolutely forbidden to use the following twelve kinds of chopsticks.

1 three long and two short: this refers to putting chopsticks on tables with uneven length before or during meals. This is unlucky. Usually we call it "three long and two short". It means "death". Because people in China used to think that people should be put into coffins after death, and when people put them in, the coffins are made up of two short boards, with three long boards at the bottom of both sides, and the coffins made of five boards together are just unlucky.

Fairy guide: This practice is also extremely unacceptable. This method of holding chopsticks is to hold chopsticks with thumb, middle finger, ring finger and little finger, and the index finger is extended. This is called "cursing the street" in the eyes of Beijingers. Because when you eat, your index finger sticks out and always points at others. When Beijingers generally extend their index fingers to each other, most of them have the meaning of accusation. Therefore, pointing at people while eating with chopsticks is tantamount to accusing others, just like swearing, which is not allowed. There is another situation that means the same thing, that is, talking to others and pointing at people with chopsticks while eating.

Three stitches will make a sound: this practice is also unacceptable. The practice is to put one end of chopsticks in your mouth, carry it with your mouth, and hiss from time to time. This kind of behavior is regarded as * * * practice. Because it is impolite to eat chopsticks with your mouth, and it is even more annoying when accompanied by sound. Therefore, this practice is generally considered to be the lack of family education and is not allowed.

Knocking on the cup: This behavior is regarded as begging by beggars, and its practice is to knock on plates and bowls with chopsticks when eating. Because in the past, only beggars hit the begging bowl with chopsticks, and the sound was accompanied by crying in their mouths, which would attract the attention of pedestrians and give alms. This practice is considered extremely * * * and despised by others.

5. Patrol the city with chopsticks: This practice is to hold chopsticks in your hand and do nothing. Use chopsticks to inspect the dishes on the table and know where to get chopsticks. This kind of behavior is a typical lack of self-cultivation, and arrogance is extremely disgusting.

6 fans dig graves: this refers to holding chopsticks in the dish, in order to find prey, just like robbing a tomb. This practice is similar to "visiting the city", which is both uneducated and boring.

7 Tears: Actually, this is the time when you pick up the dishes on your plate with chopsticks, and your hands are clumsy, and the soup is spilled into other dishes or on the table. This practice is considered to be a serious faux pas, and it is also undesirable.

8 hanging upside down: that is to say, it is despised to use chopsticks upside down when eating. As the saying goes, people are so hungry that they don't even care about their faces, so they must never knock chopsticks upside down.

9 Dinghai Shenzhen: It's not good to hold the dishes on the plate with chopsticks when eating, which is considered a shame for the diners at the same table. Making such a move while eating is tantamount to putting up the middle finger in public in Europe, which means the same thing, and this is unacceptable.

10 Burning incense in public places: It is often out of kindness to help others fill their meals. In order to be convenient and quick, put a pair of chopsticks in the meals. It is regarded as disrespectful by people, because the tradition in Beijing is to do this when offering incense to the dead. If you insert a pair of chopsticks into your rice, it will be regarded as the same as offering incense to the dead. Therefore, it is absolutely unacceptable to put chopsticks in a bowl.

1 1 cross:

This is often overlooked, and chopsticks are casually crossed on the table when eating. This is not right, because Beijingers think that crossing at the dinner table is a total denial of others at the same table, just like the nature of students' wrong homework being crossed by teachers in this book is unacceptable to others. In addition, this practice is also disrespectful to myself, because in the past, I only used a fork to confess when I was in court, which is undoubtedly denying myself, and this is also not acceptable.

12: The so-called "landing shock" means accidentally dropping chopsticks on the ground, which is a serious rude performance. Because Beijingers think that all ancestors are buried underground and should not be disturbed, it is a great unfilial act to disturb the ancestors underground when chopsticks fall on the ground, so this kind of behavior is not allowed. But there is a way to break it. As soon as the chopsticks land, you should quickly draw a cross on the ground with the chopsticks that have landed according to the direction in which you sit. Its direction is east and west first, then north and south. I'm not a thing, I shouldn't disturb my ancestors, and then I'll pick up my chopsticks and say I deserve to die.