Please don't envy, because everyone has their own way of life.

I haven't turned on the hotel TV for a long time. Turn on the TV, pick up the remote control and browse the channel bored, only to find that the movie channel is playing 1 1 John Woo's movie "Sword Rain". This used to be a very popular movie, and the ending song "Floating Life in the Sword Rain" sung by Sa Dingding and Li Huijuan was my favorite song.

Watching this movie quietly suddenly reminds me of some people and things that once revolved around this movie.

When this film was released, I just started to work, and my job was to sell computers of various brands in the store. I didn't know what it was like at that time. I seem to find it interesting to sell computers, but the off-season I often encounter makes me feel very idle. I am a lonely person and always hope to have something to prove myself.

Although the company forbids watching movies and playing games on the computer in the sales exhibition area at work, the only way for me to relieve loneliness is to watch movies, listen to music or play games.

There was a small shop next to our shop at that time. The boss is a young man who is five or six years older than me. He mainly sells two parts of products, one is audio products, all kinds of music CDs and classic movies or game CDs. However, except for a few music CDs, I feel that the others are pirated CDs, because they are really cheap. His sales strategy is small profits but quick turnover. Another product he sells is all kinds of women's headdresses and trinkets.

Because we often meet, and I will go to his place to see what good movies and fun games are there when I am free. Copy it to the sales prototype and play it secretly.

In this way, I got to know the boss. But he is often not in the shop, and there are two salesgirls in the shop, who are about the same age as me. The two girls often have a rest.

I get along well with both girls, especially one of them. Just because she is my favorite type, I usually communicate more.

Once we talked about salary, I thought my salary was already relatively low, but I didn't expect her salary to be even lower. I wonder if you don't want to do something else. I can't get such a low salary. Is this your favorite life?

She asked me, so is this job what you like now? Is it the life you want?

I thought about it, although this is not the lifestyle I want, it is the way I like to work. You can deal with these lovely colleagues and communicate with different customers when you come to the store every day. I think this is a kind of enjoyment, especially the feeling of being needed. As for lifestyle, I feel much better than when I was at school. I live alone and do whatever I want. If I don't want to cook it myself, I'll go out to eat. I can do whatever I want and be free. But I don't know what kind of lifestyle I choose, but my lifestyle must be clean, comfortable, free, unrestrained and happy, which is good. Of course, what I yearn for most is to lean against a wooden chair under a big tree, have a book I like at hand and a cup of tea I like in front of me, that's all.

She smiled and said to me, you really think a lot. I haven't thought about any lifestyle yet. I just feel that I have no culture and I don't want to be a waiter in a restaurant. I just heard a friend say that this shop is looking for someone, and then I came. The boss is very kind, not much older than us, doesn't come often, and has free time. I sit here and sell things every day. At other times, I can work part-time elsewhere, although this is not the life I want for the time being. I'm going to wait another year or two, and when the money is almost saved, I'll borrow some from my family or open my own shop. I like to open that kind of gift shop. It feels good. I will be a small boss myself, find a boyfriend, get married and have children in the future. I don't have to be rich, but I can't let myself and my children be wronged. This is probably the life I want.

Although I have known her for more than a year, I didn't ask her name, or even my mobile phone number and QQ. Because I think it's useless to meet every day.

I looked at the girl in front of me and got to know her better for the first time. It turns out that she likes that lifestyle.

Later, when I changed stores, I rarely went back to my original place, and occasionally I would go there on holiday or when I went to the store to adjust the goods. Once I went back, the girl no longer worked in that place. Ask another girl. It is said that she rented a small booth in a newly opened wholesale mall and sold things herself.

Suddenly I feel that the life that the girl wants seems to be slowly realized. I haven't seen her in that city since then. Later, I left the city, occasionally went back to see my friends in that city, and passed by the shopping mall where she stood, but I didn't go in to have a look. I think she must have found someone she likes, then got married, had children and started her own shop. Her life is quiet, but she is sweet and happy.

Many times, people will always use their own values and outlook on life to measure others, and they will also comment on the life and work chosen by others and make irresponsible remarks.

There is no distinction between high and low in life, and so is the career. The life you choose is also varied. Usually, a job may represent a person's lifestyle. After all, work and life are inseparable.

I used to despise the job of waiter, thinking that waiters can go as long as they are individuals. Although I understand some people I know, I despise this job and that life. After all, waiters are the industry with the lowest threshold for job hunting. As long as you are healthy enough, that's enough, and the rest will be trained slowly.

However, when I went to various hotels, I began to sincerely admire the service consciousness of the waiters. This position is not easy for any one person to do.

Some people just like the catering industry and like this lifestyle. The catering industry, whether it is management or kitchen, needs to start from the most basic level and then step by step. This is a way of life for people who like the catering industry. You may not like them, but don't despise them and don't respect them.

And with the increase of my knowledge and experience, I found that many people are very successful in this industry. For example, South Beauty, Haidilao, Donglaishun's boss and so on. These are catering and service industries.

All positions and posts in the world should be service industries, even enterprises, institutions and government agencies have their own clients. Although they always consider themselves grandfathers, they only serve the country and the people. Otherwise, there will be situations where water can carry a boat and overturn it.

The catering industry is a grassroots counterattack industry, a truly remarkable industry, which does not need to rely on relationships and connections, does not need too much capital and technology, and has a low entry threshold. As long as your food is delicious enough, the dining environment and service are good enough, and relying on word-of-mouth marketing, you can be invincible in the market.

People can't live without food, clothing, housing and transportation, and catering is not only a job for some people, but also a way of life for them.

People take food as the sky, and food takes food as the sky. When it comes to food, we have to mention another occupation related to it, which can also be said to be a way of life. That's the farmer.

I don't discriminate against farmers, but I think facing the loess and facing the sky, such a life should be so boring. However, when I really walked into them and got to know them, I felt that this lifestyle might not be so good.

When I was a child, I went to my grandmother's house in the countryside during the winter and summer vacations and experienced the life in the countryside, but I didn't understand it. I feel in my bones that I don't want this life. Compared with the prosperity of a metropolis, it is nothing. But when everything calmed down during the year of illness and I really began to reflect, I suddenly found out how comfortable and comfortable this life is.

In rural life, there will be no city noise and automobile exhaust pollution, no rush hour and small conspiracy. There are clean air, pure water and simple people here.

In spring, everything recovers, the earth warms up, and the fields are full of hard work. In summer, the fields are full of green vitality, birds and flowers. Get up early to hoe the ground, come back when the weather is hot, go out to hoe the ground at three or four o'clock in the afternoon, eat at night, watch TV, rest early, and then start the next day's life, and so on.

Here, you will really feel very comfortable, but in big cities, all daily necessities, food, clothing, housing and transportation are inseparable from a word of money. Wake up every day, from going out by bus and subway to breakfast, lunch and dinner, everything is linked to money. Busy and tired, even scary.

In the village, it is always so comfortable, but after the autumn harvest, people have nothing else to do, visiting relatives and friends, and visiting each other in the neighborhood, making life easy and comfortable.

I think the reason why I don't like farmers' lifestyle is that the sanitary conditions in rural areas are relatively poor. In summer, I can take a bath in the river or in the yard. It is inconvenient to take a bath in winter, so that many rural people don't take a bath at all and always stink.

Moreover, the traffic is underdeveloped and it takes a long way to go out. There is no satellite TV and internet in the village, and people seem to have no other entertainment activities except playing cards in their leisure time.

However, all this is changing now. All the sanitation and traffic conditions in the village are changing. Every family has satellite TV, which can pull broadband and make it much more convenient to go out. You can build a small bathroom at home, which is much more convenient to go out. Although there are some gaps with the city, it is a paradise, a truly peaceful and quiet place.

Being aloof from the world is also a way of life.

I began to hate people who said that they had been repeating their daily life for a year. It was so boring and boring. You hate it just because you don't belong to this kind of life. Some people really like repetitive work and life.

Just like some people like to travel outdoors, pack their bags, go on the road, travel all over Qian Shan, walk all over the world and cross famous mountains and rivers. Some people like to pursue challenges, explore the polar regions and explore the ocean. Some people like climbing mountains, and challenging the roof of the world has become a lifelong wish. Others like fame and fortune, traveling around all day and having fun. This is the life they choose.

After all, everyone has the right to choose their own life, whether because they like it or are forced to, we choose life, and life will also give us some happiness.

Now is an era of extremely developed material, but it is also an era of extremely poor spirit. In the era when we generally lost faith, it seems that the pursuit of fame and fortune has become the dream and lifestyle of our generation.

We don't understand why we should pursue these things, just because people around us do it, so people around us do it, because this is the society.

Sometimes, we move so fast that we don't stop to think about what we really want.

Some people say that I like cars, houses and tickets. This is my pursuit, this is the life I want. Good, then you should work hard and strive for the lifestyle you want. Everyone has the right to choose their own way of life. No matter what kind of lifestyle we choose, we should respect other people's lifestyles and don't despise other people's lifestyle choices. Thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi, not bullying the young and the poor.

Another person's knowledge accumulation, experience and experience, education level will also make our choice and understanding of life very different.

We can never feel the same way, just because we lack experience.

What we can do is to pursue our life safely and create the wealth we want.

When we envy others that they can carry their bags freely on Weibo, we can only envy them. After all, that's not the life we really want, and it's also the life we can't really enjoy.

In fact, there is always a little-known side behind every kind of life. We just didn't see it.

We envy farmers' free and close-to-nature lifestyle, but suffer from the wind and the sun. Those who get up early and get greedy may not have a good harvest, and most farmers have a low social status.

We envy others living in luxury houses, driving luxury cars and going in and out of places where high-end celebrities gather, but we don't know how much hardship and sweat they or their parents have paid for such a life.

Some people will say that the rich, powerful and famous are the red generation, the official second generation and the rich second generation. Yes, they benefited from the blessings of their predecessors, but those predecessors were really bleeding. Anyone who achieves great things will always suffer all kinds of pains and hardships. Moreover, if they don't have the ability and strength, these wealth can't be kept at all. You know, it's easy to fight the country, but difficult to defend it.

They deserve that kind of life, and they will make some compromises for their lives. For example, everything goes wrong, and even marriage may have political implications.

We envy those travelers who have just started, but in different countries, we will encounter insurmountable obstacles such as language and customs, and even encounter various emergencies and even crises such as disasters and wars.

To challenge the mountain, we must face the majesty and cold of the mountain, and face the sea, we must experience the majesty and ruthlessness of the sea.

Every life has a healthy sunny side, which moves us, but where there is sunshine, there must be shadows. The world is so big, I want to see it, but the wallet is really so small, I can only think about it.

There is no rehearsal in our life, so we can only try other different lifestyles, but choose a lifestyle that really belongs to us.

I especially envy the profession of actors, because only when they are performing a role can they go in and try all kinds of life brought by this role.

In fact, instead of enviing other people's lives, think about what kind of life you want. In fact, when we are really old and tired one day, we will understand that the happiest and most beautiful life in the world is called bland and plain.