What happened to the woman who was too poor to love rich people and married them?

Li Ligang regretted getting engaged. Su Gang's family is too poor.

The engagement process was particularly unpleasant. Su Gang's family even chipped in the money they hired and gave her only three gold necklaces, rings and earrings. Each piece of jewelry is very small, so it doesn't add up to 5 thousand yuan.

When discussing engagement, Li Li will never forget the expressions of her parents and relatives. Her parents are angry and anxious, and their daughter, who has worked so hard to raise, is going to marry such a poor family as Sue's. Relatives are dismissive and feel glad. Their daughter's marriage is unsatisfactory, and she is also a well-off family. Unlike Lili, she can see everything at a glance, and she doesn't know how many years she will be poor.

Li Li secretly swallowed.

Su Gang is her college classmate, and they have been together for several years. If I had known that his family was so poor, she would not be engaged to him even if she died.

Nothing makes her face grow. Lily didn't contact him the next day after her engagement, and her heart was choked with gas.

This afternoon, Lili went to work, and Su Gang called her and said that her home was to be decorated and she was going to marry her. This was originally a good thing, but Li Li was so angry when she listened.

Su Gang said, parents have no money, two workers who have worked all their lives provide for their younger brothers and sisters to go to college, and then take out tens of thousands to hire her, which is basically hollowed out.

Su University just graduated for two years and worked as a programmer in a small company. His salary is only 4000 yuan. In addition to daily expenses and love expenses, the money saved also contributed to the engagement fee.

Therefore, his family should lend all the money to decorate the house!

Li Li was puzzled and dissatisfied, and subconsciously blurted out: "Can your parents get this money back?"

Su Gang's voice on the phone with a smile, "I will pay back the money later, and my parents will help if they have money. After all, I got married for me. It's okay, Lily. Whose wedding doesn't cost money with friends and family? Lend it to others when you have money in the future. "

"You look like this now ..." Lili's chest is suffocating. At present, he is trapped crossing the river and will be able to help others in the future.

"Decoration needs to borrow money. Do we need money for wedding banquets? Still relying on borrowing? "

Su Gang was silent for a long time. "Don't worry. My dad and I borrowed it from my uncle. "

Li Li rolled her eyes and shouted angrily, "That's enough. Excuse me. After borrowing it, I won't pay it back. We were heavily in debt as soon as we got married. How many years do we have to earn before we can pay it back? "

Su Gang has a feeling of tightness in her voice. "You don't get angry. At most, our wedding will be simpler and the price of the banquet will be cheaper. If you save a little here and a little there, you won't have to spend too much. I'll get up soon ... "

"I don't want it. The wedding is the only time in my life. Why should I be simple? Why should I wronged myself? " Tears welled up in Lili's eyes, and the more she said it, the more she felt wronged. The wedding is simple. After marriage, she was heavily in debt, which was money, and everyone else's money had to be paid back.

She doesn't want to turn herself into a complete "loser" just because she has been married once. Originally, her family was not rich, and she thought she had found a lifelong support. It never occurred to her that she was not married and poverty was just around the corner.

"If there is no money, let's not get married." Li Li said, dropping her mobile phone on the table, and her headache was getting worse and worse.

After work, Su Gang is waiting at the gate of the company where Lily works. When Lily saw him, she was not as happy as when she saw him before, but full of unspeakable depression and irritability.

Su Gang takes Lily to dinner, her favorite fish with Chinese sauerkraut.

Li didn't move her chopsticks, and she didn't have any appetite. The wedding is like a bomb on her mind, and this flammable thread is money.

Qian Qian's money! It is absolutely impossible to have no money. What the elder said is true.

Su Gang sat opposite her, looking at her gloomy and tight face and pursed lips, smelling the chill that kept strangers away, just like a forbearing beast, which made people stay away from her.

But Su Gang can't be as silent as she is. He is full of guilt. He has no money and can't give her a good life for the time being, but he really loves her. College together for two years, graduation for two years. For four years, he treated her better than himself.

"Lily, can we talk?" Su Gang said.

Li Li raised her eyelids. She knew what he was going to say. "The phone has been enough. In short, don't get married without money. "

A word choked Su Gang's head to shame, but his heart was angry. He clenched his hands and knew that this anger could not be directed at her. It's not her fault. Who made him poor?

Man struggles upwards. She wants to live a good life. Is there something wrong?

He also wants to be rich, but from this background, his family is poor and his monthly salary is only 4000 yuan. He also worked hard and studied secretly, but where did he get so much money for a while?

Let him rob it?

Or is it that a poor boy doesn't deserve love and can't walk into marriage with love?

Affectionate lack of money is as humbled as shortness of breath.

Su Gang coaxed her in a low voice and came up with a compromise. He said, "Let's get married in two years. I will change my job and earn more money. When I save enough money for marriage, we can get married again, so that we don't have to owe others money. "

After hearing this, Li Li felt a little loose. On second thought, she didn't need to owe others money, but his savings were hollowed out again. What about after marriage

Life needs money everywhere. She wants to have a car. The car she likes should be at least100000. How long will he keep that salary, three years or five years?

What if you are going to have a baby? Children burn money.

Li Li remembered a friend of hers who didn't finish junior high school. He married a good family, but he is rich. He lives in an upscale neighborhood, drives a Mercedes, has a nanny to do housework, and doesn't have to take care of the children. His daily life is spent in buy buy Shopping Center.

How is she? She graduated from an undergraduate college and married worse than her!

She looked into Su Gang's eyes with resentment. It is this man who wants to drag her into such a poor, humiliating and inferior life-she doesn't want it, nor do 10 thousand people.

Not two years late, but others are late all their lives. When she married Su Gang, she just rode her horse and chased her friends for ten years, but she couldn't keep up with the development of her family.

Poverty is a disease that cannot be cured. She is afraid that falling into the abyss of poverty will be beyond redemption.

She shook her head and said, "Let's call off the engagement."

Su Zhenggang, don't believe me, "What did you say?" Marriage is no joke. Getting engaged and getting married is only a matter of time. It is certain that relatives and friends know each other. It was embarrassing. It never occurred to me that she would say that she was going to cancel the marriage.

What do relatives and friends think of him?

Li has made up his mind. She felt that Su Gang was pestering: "I said to cancel the engagement, I can't marry you."

"No, no, no, lily, there is always a solution to things. Breaking off the engagement is no joke. What should I tell my parents? " Su Gang took her hand and said anxiously, "We agreed to be together for life. Please marry me, and I will be good to you, ten times better than before. " The tone is almost pleading.

However, in Lili's view, this man is not only poor and incompetent, but also spineless. This is a deadly battle. They are not married yet. If they get married, they won't agree to divorce.

Fortunately, there is still room for recovery. Li Li sighed deeply and suddenly felt a little glad that she had made the right decision. She said coldly, "I'll pay you back the engagement fee and the three gold, and we'll forget about it." Don't contact me again. "

Say that finish, lily quickly got up and left the small restaurant.

Su Gang clenched his fist hard, and his fist trembled uncontrollably. The whole person was like falling into icehouse.

Money, money!

Half a year later, Li Li met Lin Hao through acquaintances.

Lin Hao is a typical rich second generation. His parents run a factory that produces electronic products. There are three sets of five-story commercial houses at home, the lower two floors are factories, the third and fourth floors are workers' dormitories, and the top floor is the fifth floor home; Two limousines, one for Fu Lin and one for Lin Hao.

When we first started dating, Lin Hao always drove an Audi to pick her up for dinner. For the first time in her life, Li Li took such an expensive car and went to a fancy restaurant for dinner. After dinner, Lin Hao will take her shopping and buy her brand-name clothes and bags.

On Lily's birthday, Lin Hao gave her an expensive set of cosmetics.

On Lily's mother's birthday, Lin Hao booked a hotel box early and got a big table to help her celebrate.

Lin Hao is handsome, rich, considerate and filial, which are advantages everywhere.

At the same age, Lin Hao's family background dumped several streets in Suzhou Steel! Everyone is human, and everyone has a different life. Lin Hao was born with a golden spoon in his mouth. Su Gang is a poor child. Even if we struggle for twenty years, we can't reach Lin Hao's current living standard.

Twenty years, when the time comes, you will be in your forties, and there are still a few twenty years left in your life. Since she can get a better marriage and life than others in her early twenties, why should she rely on hard work and thrift to get it?

Besides, the gap between the rich and the poor in this society is too serious. Even if she works hard and scrimps, she may not be able to get these by the age of forty.

Lin Hao is a life-saving straw and a savior who crosses her to a better new life. She should hold on to it.

Lili quickly agreed to marry him.

Once upon a time and Su Gang engagement that a set of formalities on the table again.

Lin Hao's parents went to Lili's door and sat down with Lili's parents to discuss their marriage.

When it comes to bride price, jewelry and wedding details, each item is higher than the standard of local weddings. Lin Hao's parents love face, and the wedding is burning money.

Li Li's whole family is in high spirits. Li Li is full of joy and laments that this is her good home.

After marriage, Lili lives with Lin Hao and Lin Hao's parents. On the fifth floor, with a large area of 200 square meters, there are two couples, one old and one young.

Oh, no, it's Lili and Lin Hao's family.

Three days after returning home, mother Lin called Lili and Lin Hao to the living room and sat down. She smiled and said, "Lili, this home is yours from now on. Mom tells you that your father loves cleanliness. You get up at seven o'clock every morning, clean the house first, and then take money from the drawer to go to the vegetable market to buy food and come back to cook, and make four dishes and one soup ... "

Lily listened to her mother-in-law, and the smile on her face gradually solidified. Did she take her as a nanny?

She turned to look at monoxide. He nodded at Lili with a look of course.

Mother Lin has always been uncompromising at home, and Lin Hao dare not disobey. Besides, Li Li resigned at home before marriage. She is very free. Isn't it normal for a new wife to take care of things at home?

Li Li endured her anger. She just got married and doesn't want to have a conflict with her mother-in-law. Just housework. Do it. Anyway, she is not an expert in housework. When her mother-in-law finds out that she can't do it, she may do it herself.

Who ever thought that her mother-in-law was not joking.

At eight o'clock the next morning, Lily didn't get up. Her mother-in-law knocked at the door and said, "What time is it? You haven't got up and the floor hasn't been mopped. You ignored what I said. We don't want such a lazy daughter-in-law ... "

Li Li listened to her nagging, her heart sank, and she woke up Lin Hao next to her. "Why does your mother talk like that?"

Lin Hao narrowed his sleepy eyes. "She is like this. Don't argue with her. "

Lili leaned against the bed and put her arms around her. "You tell her that I don't do housework. My mother won't let me do it at home. "

Lin Hao looked at her. "Just mop the floor to cook. You have nothing to do anyway. What's wrong with doing housework? "

Lily held her breath and didn't speak.

"My mom, if you don't do it, she can talk for a day." Lin got up, dressed and washed, and saw her sitting on the bed angrily. "Get up, I'm going to the factory downstairs after dinner. If you are not afraid of my mother knocking at the door, you can go back to sleep. "

Lin Hao opened the door, and mother Lin was still standing at the door. When she saw Lili, she came straight in with a smile on her face. "Lily, get up quickly. Look at you. You overslept. You didn't make breakfast. I'll be ready. Get up and eat. After the meal, mom will take you to the vegetable market ... "

As soon as Lili saw her, she quickly stood up from the bed. It was embarrassing to see her talking to herself in her pajamas. If she doesn't plant in summer, her mother-in-law can continue to put pressure on her.

I'm tired of it. This is only the fourth day of my marriage. How will I live in the future?

From the next day, Lili was forced to take over all the housework and did it. The most ridiculous thing is that her mother-in-law often stares at her and drags her to say that she can't wash it clean. Cooking accuses rice of being too hard and uncooked; You can't eat with chopsticks, you should use a root clamp, otherwise there will be no family and no upbringing.

Besides, her mother-in-law doesn't allow her to go back to her family often, and even if she does, she doesn't allow Lin Hao to go back with her, staring at her with blinking eyes, for fear that she will subsidize things at home.

As for money, my mother-in-law put the "food money" in the drawer and ignored everything else. Lily asked Lin Hao for personal expenses, but Lin Hao didn't have much money. He helps in his own factory, and his father gives him 4 thousand yuan pocket money every month.

In the words of mother Lin, they eat and live at home, so there is no need to give so much money to Lin Hao. He is a spendthrift and a prodigal son, and they are all married. She can't indulge him any more, lest she hurt her daughter.

"If we both die in the future, won't all the money be yours?" My mother-in-law often says so, and Li Li is embarrassed to ask for money. After all, money is earned by in-laws, and both Lin Hao and she enjoy it. She had to endure it silently.

Later, my mother-in-law began to urge them to have children, urging them every day, staring at their stomachs, and even knowing when their periods were. You can talk about having children outside the words.

Lili began to feel a little unbearable.

When the door was closed, she and Lin Hao went crazy. "Let's go out alone. I can't stand your mother any longer. "

Lin Hao could not understand her. "What, my mother is my only son, left them. Where do we live? My mother won't take money to let us go out and buy a house. Don't even think about it Besides, isn't it all for us? You listen to her, have a baby, have a grandson, and she won't stare at you all the time. "

Lily: Listen, sometimes she feels that housework is trivial, and she puts up with it. Mother-in-law loves to be in charge, and there is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Other poor mothers-in-law also love to pick things up. Mother-in-law at least has money, and she has put up with it.

Life is no longer happy, but it has to go on.

It's time to have a baby. They have been married for two years, and nothing has happened in their bellies.

Mother-in-law urged them to have a check-up, and they went.

Wait until the test results come out.

Lily's fallopian tube is blocked on one side, making it difficult to get pregnant.

It's still nothing to drink Chinese medicine for a year after dredging.

Mother-in-law couldn't sit still, and she kept saying this thing every day, saying: whoever's daughter-in-law gave birth to a big fat son, whoever's child would play soy sauce.

Once, Li Li couldn't help talking back, and her mother-in-law jumped up and pointed at her. In front of her father-in-law and Lin Hao, she said, "Do you have a tutor? Did your mother teach you to talk to your mother-in-law like this? If you can't have children, don't bother our family Lin Hao. "

Lily jumped up, too. "Have you ever had such a mother-in-law? Stir up my feelings with Lin Hao every day. "

"I won't be a mother-in-law and I don't want to be your mother-in-law. Please leave our house early, Lin Hao. Our family hasn't been at peace since you walked in the door. I can find out that you are engaged to someone else just because you can't have children, so others don't want you. Our Lin Hao is really unlucky. We got second-hand goods or chickens that can only lay eggs ... "

Event was livid, cocked his head and glanced at lily. Obviously, he prefers his mother's story. He never said a word about helping anyone. But in this case, if he doesn't talk, he will acquiesce in his mother's continuing to talk about her.

Lili's heart is cold.

A big battle, one against three, Lili against Lin Haojia.

Father Lin's face couldn't be uglier. He looked at mother Lin in a blunt tone and said, "You can do it. Why didn't you find it at first? Everyone has gone home! " |

Listening to her father-in-law's disgusting and contemptuous words, Li Li hardly mentioned it in one breath.

Lin Mu also glared at monoxide. "My son, my parents' opinions have already told you. It's up to you. In short, we can't marry an infertile daughter-in-law in our family. "

Li Li is puzzled. No matter how stupid she is, she knows what they mean. They want Lin Hao to divorce her. She looked at Lin Hao coldly, waiting for his verdict. Although she firmly believes that there is an emotional foundation between them, she is not sure about Lin Hao's dependence on their parents.

Sure enough.

Lin Hao looked at Li Li and his eyes became tired: "Let's get a divorce."

Wife and parents, he can't live without his parents. If he chooses Lili, his parents will cut off all his financial resources.

But why did he choose Lili instead of his parents? She is engaged to someone else. He asked very clearly. Just because he is a poor child, she started for his money. Will she marry him if his family has no money?

Lin Hao doesn't know, but things have reached the point where they can't be euphemistic. He is not so great, and he doesn't want offspring for love, what's more, her love is not pure.

When he is a fool? Pickup man?

My mother-in-law was extremely happy when she saw Lin Hao's statement, and then added maliciously: "Our family will not give you a dime. Before the divorce, you have to sign an agreement and automatically give up the divorce compensation, otherwise I will tell people all over the world about your infertility. "