What does sm mean in the hotel industry?

Sm refers to sadism, which is a combination of sadism and masochism. Its abbreviation is what we usually call SM. Sadism was first discovered at the end of 17, and first appeared in literary activities and some commercial abuse services. Of course, the earliest sadomasochi literature was the first to introduce the works of French writer Thad and Austrian writer Masoch, and the word sadomasochi was created by psychologist Richard von Krafft-Ebing through their names. At that time, especially in Britain, which can be traced back to the whole Victorian era, a major trend of underground pornography was sadomasochism. The most obvious is the strong love of the British people for flogging at that time. Even today, flogging is still called a bad habit in Britain on the European continent. Back to Yugui, as we all know, Yugui is obsessed with English culture. Cain, one of his masterpieces, is set in1London in the late 9th century. In addition, the author's own creative soul is a kind of thought that violates the normal state and challenges the secular world from beginning to end. We call it a distorted mind and laughs, so there is always some kind of more or less social sadism in her works. "Sadism masochism (sm for short) refers to the consciousness and behavior related to sadism and abuse." However, my favorite definition of SM is sexual magic. What an interesting explanation. Experts define masochism as: "it is a sexual activity that connects pleasure with pain, or a sexual activity that obtains pleasure through pain." The so-called pain has two connotations, one is physical pain (such as the pleasure brought by whipping); The second is mental pain (such as the painful feeling caused by humiliation in the relationship between rule and obedience). " SM is human's voluntary choice and the pursuit of happiness. SM lovers do not have a natural desire called "masochism"; Nor does he have an innate and unchangeable identity, called "sadistic masochism"; He just chose the happy way of spending and enjoying sadomasochism; He is both a consumer and a user. From the most obvious point of view, the first is Princess Thorn. When Prince Louis broke into the witch hall, the first thing he saw was the piercing tools on the wall and countless whips. Pay attention to what he said at that time: there is a special torture room at home. As a necessary place for sadomasochism, "torture room" was very popular in Britain at that time, and every brothel providing sadomasochism services would have it. In Paek Sul Hui, necrophilia, who wrote a letter to Prince Louis in a large space, can also be regarded as a sadist (fetish? An expression. Of course, the witch's M performance is too obvious, so I won't mention it here. But interestingly, in Britain, the number of people who spend money is much higher than that of abusers. Most of them are men with successful careers and decent clothes, and even advertised in the newspaper to ask the "hostess" to whip them. One obvious reason why the interest in flogging was so popular in Victorian era was the abstinence tendency and the extreme emphasis on modesty in the social atmosphere at that time. Therefore, they will think that humiliation is the biggest stimulus and further make it sexy. (Dibei Love Paradise: www.smfun.com) Next, I'll talk about "Juvenile Remnants". The first time Ed went to that club, he pushed Raul's door open. It can be noticed that the man under Raul is lying on the bed in the form of a bundle. The two most common forms of sadism are flogging and thread &; Bond), the former is briefly discussed in front, and the latter is mentioned here immediately. As we all know, Ed's murder was born in Jack the Ripper 1888, a famous London figure. This cruel dismemberment can be said to be the extreme of a strong sadistic tendency. (Although it is generally believed that sadomasochism is just a kind of "game" and there is no real harm) But unlike Jack the Ripper, Ed also did something very S-flavored-blindfolding, which is a very common phenomenon in sadomasochism. Sadism in cleaning Yin is mainly manifested in the self-destructive tendency of cleaning Yin. If he commits suicide many times and thinks he is dirty, and so on. His abusive tendency is rooted in Oedipus complex, that is, Oedipus complex. Incest with his mother when he was young (and seeing her burned to death with his own eyes) led him to feel extremely guilty and self-denial. It was once thought that "self-loathing" was the main motivation of masochism. ) Similar to him, Cain and Kibel in Cain, the Poison Count, felt a strong sense of guilt for doing something wrong (leading to the death of their mother), and they were flogged by their fathers for a long time. This point will be discussed in detail later. Beria in Angel Shelter also has a strong sense of self-loathing. His name means worthless. He has a strong tendency to be abused, and his feelings for Lucifer are obviously sadistic. These include satire, ridicule and cruel treatment of each other, and so on. Roger El, an inorganic angel, is often compared with Gibel in Cain, the Poison Count. They are considered to be similar, especially in their attitude towards the Creator and Mr. masters. Unequal Love But in my opinion, Gibel appeared as a masochist from beginning to end. This is obviously different from the image of abuser in rougier. Before rougier began to grow up in reverse, his most common attire-leather coat and whip-was completely the wardrobe of the abuser. Coupled with his strong desire for control and conquest of others, rougier was a typical abuser at this time. However, after he grew up against Lucifer, he began to change, such as showing happiness under Lucifer's ridicule, and even finally returned to a strong attitude of inferiority, self-loathing and self-abandonment when facing the creator. According to Freud's theory, guilt is an indispensable factor in the transformation from sadistic tendency to masochistic tendency. So at this time, rougier's submission to the "Lord" (God) is similar to Gibel's, that is, atonement. The term "sm sadomasochism" was first put forward by Pan Guangdan, a sociologist of the older generation in China, but it was not until the end of the 20th century that Li Yinhe's sadomasochism subculture really filled the gap in this research for our country. The author defines sm sadistic masochism as: "sm sadistic masochism is a kind of sexual activity that connects pleasure with pain, or it is a kind of sexual activity that obtains pleasure through pain ... The so-called pain has two connotations, one is physical pain (such as the pleasure caused by whipping) ... and the other is mental pain (such as the painful feeling caused by humiliation in the relationship between domination and obedience)." Sm sadomasochism is basically classified as abnormal in the eyes of China people, which is in sharp contrast with Japan, a neighboring country separated only by a strip of water (the Japanese cartoon Crayon Shinchan contains sm sadomasochism), so the publication of this book provides a good springboard for relevant sociological research of domestic scholars. S is a sadist: it refers to a medieval French marquis named sadist, who likes to abuse women in his life. There are a lot of descriptions of sexual perversion in his works, so later scholars named him active sadomasochism, that is, he likes to abuse others and sadomasochism, that is, sadism. M refers to masochism:19th century Austrian novelist Massock himself is a passive sadist and describes many abnormal sexual activities in his works. Therefore, passive sadism is named Massock phenomenon, namely masochism. In contemporary China, sm still belongs to a subculture. A concept to be mentioned here is "Cyber SM", that is, network SM. Like sexual fantasy, this way of getting sexual pleasure through fantasy SM scenes is called network SM. The development of instant messaging also provides a broad platform for network short messages. Tencent QQ, as the largest IM service provider in China, is a common tool for SM lovers to communicate online. The QQ chat room "Slave Society" is a good platform for SM communication. In addition, there are many QQ groups, where S and M can communicate with each other, get to know each other and move from the network to reality. Nowadays, there are quite a few people playing SM in China, which are found all over the country. Most of them are concentrated in Shanghai, Beijing, Shenzhen and other places. The quality, education and status of real players are not generally high. In Shanghai, Shenzhen and other places, some large hotels or business clubs also provide this service, and quite a few players have set up tuning classrooms at home. SM bar and prison bar in Beijing opened many years ago. SM players are divided into two types, one is normal players, just infatuated. They usually go to work and play SM just like normal sex. The other is deep. They're already awake. All day. This kind of player, most of whom are prone to fall into this situation, is M. When he is abused, he often has a passion for the trembling of the soul, the destination of the soul and the ultimate meaning of life. The owner of Fugui Island thinks this is still not desirable. After all, the meaning of life is not here. But this m is not easy to recover.