"The person I am waiting for, how far in the future" - Han Li

Han Li: Han Li, the host of Beijing Music Radio's "Love Longer" and "Men Left and Women Right", one of the top ten DJs in the country, one of the top ten hosts of Beijing Radio, and the audience's favorite brand Column Winners

When we are young, it is easy for us to understand the truth, but we cannot understand it deeply. The old injuries that keep recurring are mixed with the new pain, and you become a worried and depressed self. Tears, like rice, are always kept at home. Whether there are vegetables or not, a pot can be steamed at any time.

There is only one wall in the world that needs to be washed away with tears, and that is the wall of the heart. And there is only one tool that can tear down this wall of heart, and that is courage.

Even if there is no return, I still love; even if I have nothing, I still give; even if I am in difficulty, I still work happily; even if I face loneliness and abandonment, I still extend my hand ; Even if it contains tears, I will still wipe them dry; Even if they are not trusted, I still trust. That's how it is, and that's how it will be.

When a delicacy attracts you by more than just taste, the connection between you and it is really inseparable.

For a happy dinner, you don’t need to take beautiful photos of every dish, put on the lights of a five-star hotel, and take selfies with satisfied expressions and twinkling eyes. But no matter what you want to eat, there are people who are willing to accompany you, eating and laughing silly, whether it is a big meal or a roadside stall, you can eat it for a long time, and you don't want to leave.

When you are in love, every little thing you have done together will be taken for granted and not unusual. Only after the love has gone away, will the details that were ignored at the time be activated by time and restored one by one. The deep feelings hidden behind the little things. ?

Only in hindsight can we understand that those material riches cannot satisfy the inner joy, and they will lose the most precious thing. Having a luxury watch is also a spiritual poverty. In a limited time, when we accumulate more heart-felt experiences and settle them into beautiful memories, they become coupons left to us by time, and we have the opportunity to buy the replay of time - memories.

The world is like an amusement park. People who queue up for the same event because of the initial chance are likely to become friends. But next, I want to play in the rapids, but she doesn’t want to splash in the water. . Only those who are still together after playing round after round, or who are watching you and waiting for you, are the true friends given by God.