Is it appropriate to bring your girlfriend home for the first time and let her cook?

For whatever reason, out of courtesy and respect, a girlfriend should not let the other person cook for the first time, even if it is her own request, it is not appropriate. Because this is the first formal meeting between the girlfriend and the man's parents, and it is also a guest at home, let the guests cook, indicating that the man's parents don't think highly of his girlfriend, and even don't like children in their bones, so they will let people into the kitchen. Parents of normal families will clean up the house a little when their children bring their girlfriends home, prepare food for each other, and arrange a meal in the hotel even if they can't cook. This meal doesn't have to be expensive, but it must be sincere.

Secondly, when a girl goes to the man's house for the first time, she may take the initiative to ask to go into the kitchen in order to show herself. At this time, polite parents will definitely stop the girl. In this way, it not only shows the kindness of girls, but also shows the love of parents for their children. Such a family, at least on the surface, is in place. As for those families whose daughter-in-law has not yet entered the door, they will prevaricate and treat leftovers coldly. When they meet for the first time, they will not pretend to be themselves. Girls must keep their eyes open and stay away from the boys in this family, because marriage is a matter of two families, and the attitude of the man's parents will greatly affect the quality of your future marriage.

Finally, the author wants to say that if the parents who do this kind of thing are not intentional, then the concept of son preference in this family must be very serious. In their minds, girls just want to do laundry, cook and have children, which seems to have no effect on the lives of young couples. But boys have lived in such a family for many years and are used to the mode of getting along with their parents. Even if girls don't notice it at the moment, they will have such a tendency in their hearts. After getting along for a long time, contradictions will gradually emerge, so girls can't take chances because they are soft-hearted, thinking that this is just a parent's problem, as long as boys don't.