Can you accept a girl who can't stop smoking and drinking?

Maybe it's my circle. Most of the post-90s girls of the same age I am in contact with, including those younger than me, basically insist on smoking and often go drinking, and bars and nightclubs are also commonplace.

I'm curious why many girls in our generation, including the next generation, have developed such living habits and lifestyles.

It's not bad. It may be the pressure of life and school that leads to this situation, but I don't think it is a better way to relieve the pressure.

I believe that a large number of boys don't like smoking and drinking, and girls often go to bars and nightclubs. A little more conservative, just smoking and drinking is not enough.

It is often said on the Internet that such a girl will only be asked to fall in love with her, and few people will ask her to get married. Although this sentence doesn't sound good, it is indeed a common social phenomenon.

When it comes to their future development, most boys are rational and realistic, and they don't want their future partner to be such a girl. Maybe some are really acceptable, but there are really few.

The girls around me are basically fast-food love, and there is basically no long-term love. Although I can understand why some girls do this, it is actually unacceptable in my heart, at least as my partner.

There are many such girls around me. I'll try to remind those who have a good relationship. I won't talk about them. After all, I am not qualified to ask others.

I can only promise that I won't touch these things myself, and I won't become like them. If you have the intention to develop feelings with me, I will also mention some of my views on mate selection in my usual communication. Maybe we're not right.

To tell the truth, girls who don't touch the above things are very extra points for boys, at least for me personally, and my friends around me feel the same way.

Of course, if you can't do it yourself, isn't it ridiculous to ask others?

Therefore, when we put forward requirements and conditions for others, we should also see if we meet these conditions, otherwise we will be called "double-standard dogs" by others, but it is not very pleasant to listen to.

Don't you think so?