As the saying goes, "marry a wife and not a buttock sister; If you marry a Han Chinese, don't marry a hunched man. " Why can't you marry an ass?

With the development of the times and the progress of science and technology, earth-shaking changes have taken place in the countryside, which is inseparable from the construction and efforts of the country.

Decades ago, many families in rural areas were still worried about food and clothing. Most villagers live a life of insufficient food and clothing. At that time, rural people were very thin and the food they ate every day was very nutritious.

In the past, the rural development was relatively slow, and the rural economy in that era was relatively backward.

Living in the countryside can only be maintained by planting crops such as farmland wheat. Every year in the hottest season of summer, they will go to the farmland to start transplanting rice seedlings in order to have a better harvest next year.

It is precisely because of this living environment in rural areas that rural people have a very serious preference for their sons. Because rural men have to do manual labor, it is considered very easy for women to take care of their families at home.

Therefore, at that time, the more men in the family, the more labor in the family, the more labor value can be created for the family.

So rural people of that era would try to have boys. In order to ensure that there is enough labor force at home, girls are not welcome because they can't do farm work.

In the past, there was a saying in a rural proverb called "Marry a woman without spoils and marry a man without stoops". What does this sentence mean?

First, don't marry an ass girl.

First of all, the first meaning of this sentence is that in rural areas, if you want to marry a wife, you must find a woman with a tight ass. Hippie women are not welcome in the countryside.

Why is spanking a girl unpopular? People who mainly want to do some farm work in the countryside have to go to the fields to transplant rice seedlings or plant them. It is very inconvenient for people with too big buttocks to do things.

So in those days, many people had to look at each other up and down before they got married, not only by their looks but also by their bodies.

This is especially unfair to women whose hips are up, because they can't choose because of their figure.

Because the status of women in that era was relatively humble, women in that era were not valued, and men generally chose women. At that time, enough labor was needed, and even women had to work in the fields to survive.

Unlike now, women can choose to work in factories and companies in big cities, while women in those days could only grow crops in farmland to maintain their living expenses.

If people are in poor health, it is simply unacceptable to work in farmland.

In rural areas, people usually get up before dawn and get busy, and can't go home to rest until evening. Every day is a life of going out early and returning late.

From the present society, I think it is unfair to those women. We should not judge a person only by his figure, but should collect more of his inner self.

Second, bow your waist.

First of all, let's explain that hunchback refers to people who like to bow when walking, which is what we often call hunchback.

Especially in the previous society, women also attached great importance to men's ability when choosing men. This man must have enough ability to support a family, so that a woman can safely deliver herself to him.

At that time, hunchbacked men were generally ignored.

This is mainly because a lot of farm work was needed at that time. A hunchbacked man is much weaker than a normal man. Some people hunch over because of poor walking posture, while some men are born with curved spine, which is also a pathological state.

This is also unfair to many men, but the rural medical care in that era was not very developed, and it was impossible to cure humpback.

Some men can't find a partner because of hunchback all the year round, so they can only be single for life.

Humpback whales will also directly affect their normal life and greatly reduce their labor output.

Now this proverb has been gradually eliminated by society. The former society attached great importance to agricultural ability, which is unacceptable to modern people.

It is precisely because of the continuous development of modern society that there are more outlets in rural areas. Even if the ability of farm work is poor, you can earn money through other jobs.

Nowadays, social aesthetics will think that women with buttocks are sexier, but people with flat buttocks are not welcome.

These are the development trends of the times, and now people's aesthetic and mate selection concepts have changed too much.

Modern people pay more attention to personality in the concept of mate selection, and appearance is just a skin.

Summary:

Nowadays, young people pay more attention to interesting souls. As young people in the new era, we should also have a correct three views.

Don't judge a book by its cover. Everyone has unlimited potential.

what do you think?