Is the woman or the man in charge of the party?

Engagement parties are usually held by women. Because on the day of engagement, the man needs to bring a bride price to the woman's house, and then the woman and her parents need to take the man and his colleagues to the hotel to hold an engagement party, and they will also invite people who are very close to each other to attend the banquet, so the engagement party is usually held at the woman's house.