Hong Tao: Wake up alone.

"My greatest contribution to Xu zhēng is that I didn't restrain him."

"Physical things are not things."

"In fact, loyalty is sentimental, and a relationship has nothing to do with loyalty."

It is hard to imagine that this passage came from Hong Tao.

20 14 at the audience meeting of the movie "Forgot to Know You",

Entertainment Weekly put Hong Tao on the hot list with the issue of "marital loyalty".

Everyone marveled at her frankness and secretly mocked her for being "too bitter to speak".

But in a few years, the marriage between Xu Zheming and Hong Tao gradually entered an "open" cycle, and both men and women fell into an ambiguous relationship.

No matter how to attract butterflies, Hong Tao always looks cool.

Perhaps, Hong Tao's generosity has never been faked, but is she really happy?

After 50 years of life, "transparent" Hong Tao is not simple.

Since childhood, Hong Tao has stepped into the "happiness nest" of the goddess of fortune.

1972, Hong Tao was born in an intellectual family in Wuxi, Jiangsu.

My mother works in a library and my father is an engineer.

Hong Tao was deeply influenced by his good family background and rich book fragrance.

And that literary dream has been deeply rooted in her heart at this time.

But at first, her dream was not to be an actress.

From 65438 to 0983, Beijing Dance Academy began to recruit new dancers.

This moved Hong Tao's mother very much. She looked at her daughter in front of her, and then at the slim and jumping figure in the enrollment brochure.

Tao's mother decided to take Hong Tao to take the exam.

This year, Hong Tao was only 1 1 years old, but he was faced with two different life choices.

At the same time of enrollment of Beijing Dance Academy, Beijing Synchronized Swimming Team has just been established.

Sonia, the coach of the swimming team, was sent to major dance colleges in Beijing to select athletes.

So, Soria, who was struggling to find someone, met the immature and ignorant Hong Tao.

At the first sight of Hong Tao, Sonia really recognized the delicate girl in front of her.

In her words: "Hong Tao's eyes are curved when she smiles, which is particularly aura."

Therefore, Sonia immediately invited Hong Tao to join the Beijing Synchronized Swimming Team.

But such a kind invitation made Tao's mother hesitate.

Because at that time, Hong Tao had been accepted by the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe, and the synchronized swimming team had just been established.

Which is good and which is bad may be clear at a glance.

However, Sonia was so eager for talent that she took the attitude of "seeing the thatched cottage in three days" and visited her home at both ends, while Tao's mother slowly loosened up.

Where to study art depends on Hong Tao's interest.

Holding two admission notices, Hong Tao was caught in a dilemma, but in the end, she chose to join the Beijing synchronized swimming team.

The reason is simple: Beijing Synchronized Swimming Group is free.

Although Hong Tao is very young, his wisdom is obvious.

Thus, in the summer of 1984, Hong Tao became the first batch of synchronized swimmers in China, and began a swimming career of 10 years.

At that time, she fixed her dream on the moment of Olympic champion, but who knows, after 10 years of hard training, she finally put on a wedding dress for the actress.

Before he could win glory for his country, Hong Tao was brought into the entertainment circle by a "noble".

Hong Tao can succeed not only by luck, but also by hard work.

Although physical training is bitter and tiring, it has tempered Hong Tao's will.

While others doze off in class and have fun after class, Hong Tao spends six hours in the water every day.

Moreover, in order to train hard, in the first Spring Festival when he joined the swimming team, Hong Tao became the only member who stayed in the training ground.

Even the coach was puzzled, but she said, "We have to train for the New Year."

As if in her, stubborn personality is not abrupt.

But unfortunately, Hong Tao, who has worked so hard, has gradually become a player with "no talent" in the coach's eyes.

Looking at the hard work of Hong Tao, even the coach couldn't help but say to her, "If you can't, give up."

But she glanced at it and said stubbornly, "I have been practicing for so many years, and I can't give up."

Talent can conquer nature? In Hong Tao's view, this is impossible.

If you can't succeed, it only means that you haven't worked hard enough.

So she changed her daily training from 6 hours to 12 hours.

Pretty deadly.

But it was this deadly force that brought Hong Tao back to life.

Among 150 contestants, only Hong Tao can hold her breath underwater for 3 minutes and 40 seconds.

1987, Hong Tao won the runner-up in synchronized swimming at the Chinese Games.

Although not as powerful as the champion, it added a lot of color to her sports career.

A few years later, Hong Tao won the fifth place in the team competition of the World Cup, and all of them won the championship.

For a while, Hong Tao became famous.

Everyone thought that one day she would stand on the podium of the Olympic Games.

But Hong Tao, who has been trying to persist, has given up her plan at this moment.

10 years of underwater training made her miserable and tired, and the long time of isolation made her look forward to the outside world.

Besides swimming, what else is worth doing in the world?

This question has puzzled Hong Tao for a long time, but she has no answer.

It seems that swimming has become fate.

But unfortunately, an opportunity to change the direction of life came to her.

And the person who invited her turned out to be Jiang Wen.

1993, Jiang Wen suddenly became interested in being a director, just because he read Wang Shuo's novel All Animals Are Fierce.

In his words: "I feel like a needle in my blood vessel, blood is coming out, and I smell tibetan songs and the dining hall."

So Jiang Wen adapted the 60,000-word Beast into a 90,000-word Sunny Day.

At that time, Jiang Wen, who dreamed of becoming a famous director, found Hong Tao.

Because the hostess needs to be able to swim, Jiang Wen joined the synchronized swimming team on the recommendation of others.

Just a glance, Jiang Wen locked Hong Tao with a sweet smile.

Unfortunately, Hong Tao failed to become the No.1 girl, but became the "Yu Beibei" of No.2 girl.

In his words: "I think she is like Beibei in the book, alive."

Facing the sharp turn of life, Hong Tao's heart slowly relaxed. At that time, she already had the idea of retiring, and the arrival of Jiang Wen was like a timely help.

So, Hong Tao didn't hesitate, so he agreed with Jiang Wen and decided to star in a movie.

But in the end, Hong Tao has never been exposed to performance. Although she is full of spirit when filming in the crew and is often praised by Jiang Wen, she has no sense of belonging and often does nothing with the mentality of "playing with tickets".

More and more confused, she decided to re-apply for the university and study acting in depth.

When Jiang Wen learned of her decision, she said bluntly, "Your voice is suitable for Chinese opera."

At the suggestion of his predecessors, Hong Tao turned his attention to three well-known art colleges in China.

Unexpectedly, she was admitted to three universities at the same time.

But in the end, Hong Tao chose Chinese opera and became Jiang Wen's school sister.

Based on the concept of "do what you want to do, do what you want to do", Hong Tao has become a leader in the eyes of teachers and classmates since she entered school.

He not only got full marks in Chinese opera, but also helped his classmates complete the design and played a role in eight works alone.

Since then, Hong Tao has gradually hidden the edge of "champion" and started to March towards the door of actors.

From sports to movies, Hong Tao officially opened a new chapter in his life.

This year, Xu zhēng, who is far away from Shanghai, graduated from Shangxi and entered the drama world.

At that time, he was not bald, but also a handsome guy in the eyes of others.

Xu zhēng, radiant on the stage of drama, never imagined that the story of one south and one north, one man and one woman, was put together in such a simple sentence.

1998, 26-year-old Hong Tao won the China Watch Award and the Golden Rooster Award for his film Black Eyes, and 26-year-old Xu zhēng also shined on the stage of drama and won the Best Actor Award in Magnolia Drama.

One world, two fields,

They shine in their own lives.

But even so, Hong Tao's popularity is much higher than that of Xuzh ng.

But in the final analysis, this is just Hong Tao's excellent acting skills.

In 1996, Hong Tao received an invitation to the movie Black Eyes, but her role is a blind athlete.

In order to interpret the role and understand the life of the role.

Hong Tao went to a school for the blind and lived with blind children.

She tried to feel everything around her only through hearing, and also left the glamorous life of the actress behind.

She only spends 10 yuan a day, eats cabbage and potatoes three times a day, and there is nothing fishy in the bowl.

With such a life experience, Hong Tao can interpret this role so delicately.

As a result, various awards have smashed into her arms and once held her to a high position.

That year, she changed from an art school student to an actress with a bright future.

But I'm almost in my thirties, and there's no one around.

This made Tao Jia's parents anxious, but Hong Tao was in no hurry. Although there are many suitors around, no one values her.

In her opinion, talent is more important than appearance.

Xu zhēng, who is far away from Shanghai, seems to have heard Hong Tao's voice, put aside the aura of a drama artist and entered the film and television circle as a "clown".

1998, the two met in the costume drama "Spring of Pig".

Xu became an ugly pig, and Hong Tao was a little dragon girl that everyone liked.

At that time, no one expected that it was two contrasting roles that brought them together.

Although Xu zhēng is not a handsome man in the eyes of the audience, he has unparalleled talent.

Only then, no one wanted to believe it, only Hong Tao believed it.

Adhering to the concept of "helping each other", Hong Tao often reaches out to feed Xuzh ng when putting on makeup.

Over time, their feelings went beyond friendship and went outside from the play.

But at that time, it was also a young couple. Without puncturing enough paper, they naturally became lovers.

But after the filming, the two faced the dilemma of long-distance love.

Hong Tao is in Beijing and Xu Zheming is in Shanghai.

At that time, the relationship between the two was not too conspicuous and there was not much criticism.

It was not until Xu zhēng proposed successfully that everyone was shocked.

After learning the news that they were going to get married, many people advised Hong Tao: "Xu zhēng is not famous and looks outstanding. Why can't you get over it? "

However, Hong Tao married Xu Zheming regardless of her parents' opposition.

Many years later, everyone praised her for her unique vision, and only Xu zhēng thanked her for her company for many years.

In 2003, Xu zhēng and Hong Tao, who had no hair, entered the marriage hall. After marriage, both of them settled in Beijing and Shanghai.

In order to appease Hong Tao, Xu zhēng often runs at both ends. Even if he can't adapt to the food and climate in Beijing, he just complains.

And Hong Tao also saw Xu Zheming's contribution from his eyes.

At that time, Xu Zheming was not a great director, and his career was far less energetic than that of Hong Tao.

Xu zhēng is a little worried because he has talent but nowhere to display it.

Hong Tao saw all this in his eyes and gave him a good hand.

In 2006, Ning Hao found Hong Tao with Crazy Stone, but Hong Tao, who was filming Empty Mirror at that time, had no schedule.

But she really likes the content of the script.

On second thought, Hong Tao pushed Xu zhēng to Ning Hao.

Not only that, she also gave Xu a sum of money to invest, and Xu hesitated for fear that the money would hit Shui Piao.

But Hong Tao, who is very optimistic about everything, said to him, "If you lose money and make money, you can do it boldly."

It is this sentence that made Xu zhēng not only follow Ning Hao, Bo Huang and others to make this film, but also changed his career by leaps and bounds.

Since then, Xu Zongheng, Ning Hao and Bo Huang have become the "iron triangle".

At that time, Xu Zheming, known as "the little husband of Hong Tao", was rewarded due to his talent.

Movies were born one after another, from actors to directors.

Without Hong Tao's support and help, Xu zhēng could not survive. Even he himself said, "Hong Tao made me what I am today."

Their careers go hand in hand, their marriage is happy and they have a daughter.

If the story has an ending, maybe both of them want to stop at this moment.

But things have changed.

The peach blossom scandal of Xu zhēng spread all over the network before his voice fell.

From 2009 to 20021,Xu zhēng was photographed walking with a strange woman, staying in a hotel, and even the scandal of attending the "Haitian Banquet" came out.

Back and forth gossip, people who eat melons are also waiting for Hong Tao's "logging order".

You can wait and wait, but wait until Hong Tao doesn't care.

Not only don't care, Hong Tao is also "considerate". In her view, "the only way not to lose each other is to grow up together."

In her eyes, husband and wife are partners, taking out their own values and seeking each other's values.

Although Xú Zhēng was in full bloom, he never dared to despise Hong Tao.

This is not only based on early help, but also the biggest reason is that Hong Tao never gave up the struggle.

When I was young, I was famous for film and television dramas, and the reputation behind me was even more accumulated.

After that, I frequently appeared on the live broadcast platform with Zhang Ting, which was also a catch-up and made a fortune.

But the most admirable thing is that one month before the scandal broke out in Zhang Ting, Hong Tao, who felt deeply uncomfortable, withdrew all his shares and dissolved the cooperative relationship with Zhang Ting.

Fast, hard and accurate, Hong Tao always seems to have extraordinary vision and luck.

But these are just one of her characteristics.

"You can ask yourself, but don't force others."

Hong Tao just used this sentence to balance the balance of life and marriage.

After 50 years of life, she has published an amazing view of marriage, been questioned and experienced the fate of "being suffocated". Her marriage is not as perfect as her life.

But having these is enough for Hong Tao.

And her happiness is not only made up by marriage.

When a large number of 30-year-old women fell on the battlefield of life, Hong Tao remained strong and reached the age of 50.

Never giving up growth and change and accepting all imperfections may be the most perfect state of life.

Wonderful past: Yang li Ping: There is no end to dancing in my life.

Wu Qihua: Half of my life, I have turned back.