After four years of love, her fiance suddenly refused to get married.

Four years of love, love that is about to blossom and bear fruit, has changed at the most critical moment. What should I do? Please help me.

My unit is in Anyang, and my boyfriend Kang Hao's career is in Zhengzhou. I have been in a long-distance relationship for four years. In fact, I have been talking about marriage, not unilaterally, but both sides have the will to get married. Kang Hao and I are not young and have been walking for three weeks. This love was aimed at getting married from the beginning, but for various reasons, it was not officially put on the agenda until this year.

After the Spring Festival, we met our parents for the first time and decided to get engaged on June 1 day this year. After the engagement ceremony, we discussed the details of the wedding and held the wedding on 1 1 month 1 1 day this year. On the surface, everything is going well and the house has been bought. It could have been paid in full, but Kang Hao insisted on taking part of the funds as investment and then using the proceeds to repay the loan. I don't mind. I just want to get married early and feel at ease early. After all, four years of long-distance love can finally be settled. I was immersed in the joy of entering a new stage of my life, but Kang Hao poured cold water on my head at this time, and he actually proposed to break up.

It happened last weekend. Call Kang Hao on June 1 day to discuss the engagement. Through his indifferent tone, I felt something was wrong and asked him, "Have you considered marrying me?" Kang Hao on the other end of the phone was silent for a while, and then said, "At this time, I have a feeling of being forced to go to Liangshan ..." Imagine, which woman can remain calm after hearing such words? I was angry and disappointed, but I kept asking, "What are your plans? Divide or combine? " He said a lot hesitantly, probably meaning that the "Eleventh" marriage was too urgent and he wanted to postpone it. I asked again, "What about the wedding reservation for June 1?" He also said that he would consider it. Let me give him two days and give him a definite answer on Monday.