Go back to my husband's house and stay in a hotel after marriage.

This question is actually quite complicated.

If you can accept it, that's fine. After all, the social pressure is so great now. If both parties are single, it is normal to live with parents after marriage. Moreover, for parents, they also want their children to get married.

However, if you can't accept it, think carefully! After all, after marriage, you will face many practical problems.

The first is the economic problem. Although young people are very busy at work nowadays, it is not difficult to earn a good income as long as you have the heart and work hard. So, in this case, you can ask your parents to come and live with you, and you can also reduce your burden. However, you should pay attention to one thing, that is, you must give all your savings to your parents, because only in this way will they take care of your life with confidence.

The second is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law I believe many people know that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a very difficult problem. As women, they especially hope that their husbands can stand on their side, so when their mother-in-law conflicts with themselves, they will feel very wronged. At this time, if you choose to complain to your husband, then he will think you are melodramatic and even think you don't understand. On the contrary, if you choose not to care about these things, but take the initiative to coax your mother-in-law, she may understand you and even have some good feelings for you.

Third, it is husband and wife life. You know, marriage is the grave of love. Once you step into marriage, the feelings between husband and wife are easy to fade. And if you don't have children at this time, your relationship may continue. But if you have children, there may be many contradictions between you. For example, the education of children, or the upbringing of children. At this time, if you can't communicate well, your relationship is likely to break down. Of course, this is also a bad result. But if you can communicate with your husband, maybe he will change his attitude towards you.

Fourth, it is disrespect for the elders. You know, we were taught from an early age to honor our parents and respect our elders. However, after marriage, you and your other half don't understand this truth and don't even respect their elders. Imagine this family. Do you think there will be good development?