Why is the reunion more and more embarrassing?

We used to be classmates and strangers who haven't appeared in each other's world for a long time. Because of the reunion, everyone sat together as before, but everyone's experience and ideas have changed dramatically. Few people can meet like this without embarrassment!

? There is strangeness between classmates.

The reunion may be a long-lost junior high school, high school and college students chatting, eating and playing games. It is because we haven't seen each other for a long time that we have a layer of strangeness. We used to be classmates, but we were strangers to each other, which made us very stiff and embarrassed at the party. When classmates get together, we may forget some classmates' names or things we have experienced together. At this time, it will be awkward for classmates to come over to say hello and chat with you. We are all used to getting along with close people, and most of the students at the party are strangers. No one can avoid embarrassment when approaching strangers.

? Mutual comparison and competitive psychology

At class reunion, everyone will have the psychology of inquiring about each other's recent situation. If you want to know whether the other person's life is good or not, the most common thing is to judge by clothes, jewelry and human spirit. In this case, there will be a situation that "your bag is Chanel's and I didn't carry it", and someone will start to show off directly or indirectly. Some people will make up lies for their self-esteem, but it's embarrassing for some students to know that they are not having a good life. What makes people uncomfortable is that for those students who don't get along well, some people will sneer that "it hasn't changed for so many years." In this scene full of lies, is it so embarrassing to step on high pressure and low pressure?

? Their values and outlook on life have changed.

After leaving school, everyone's life, study and work experience are different, and their values and outlook on life will change. When chatting with classmates at a party, you will find that you don't agree with what many people say, but if you can't show it, you will feel particularly uncomfortable. And everyone has entered a different life and work track, and there are fewer topics to talk about. Most students get together and talk about their old campus life. There is nothing to talk about when so many people get together, which is even more embarrassing.

Instead of going to a class reunion that most people don't contact, it's better to get together with classmates and friends who are still in contact or familiar with them. It's also a pleasure to catch up with each other.