What is the saddest true story of providing for the aged that you have ever heard?

After the death of Uncle Tang's wife, he went to the Social Security Bureau to get back his wife's funeral expenses of 27,563 yuan. He wants to use the money to change his son's wheelchair. Uncle Tang just got home and saw his daughter-in-law Yuling waiting for him with a bag of fruit in her hand.

Uncle Tang quickly took out his key to open the door and let his daughter-in-law into the house. As soon as they entered the room, Uncle Tang smelled a bad smell, and Yuling also smelled it. They went into Uncle Tang's bedroom and saw Uncle Tang's son Tang Bao lying on the ground with a wheelchair on his arm.

The smell comes from Tang Bao's pants. Uncle Tang took off his son's pants. Yuling went to the bathroom to get a basin of water. The two of them had a great effort to clean up Tang Bao's nakedness and put on a pair of clean pants.

Yuling went to the bathroom to clean Tang Bao's pants. Uncle Tang lifted the wheelchair, picked up his son and put him in the wheelchair.

I have bought a wheelchair for more than a year. When I bought it at that time, Uncle Tang's figure was cheap and his quality was average. It's a little useless now. Sometimes Uncle Tang pushes his son outside to ventilate, and the wheelchair not only creaks, but also pushes hard.

Uncle Tang has just gone through the formalities of receiving his wife's funeral expenses at the Social Security Bureau. He has more than twenty thousand yuan. He wants to use the money to change his son's wheelchair. This time, he wants to buy a better one. Uncle Tang has already seen it. He won the prize of more than 2000 yuan and wants to buy it back in two days.

Yuling washed Tang Bao's trousers and hung them on the balcony. She glanced at her mobile phone. It's past eleven o'clock. She asked Uncle Tang, "Dad, what do you want for lunch? I'm going to cook. "

Uncle Tang said, "Let's go out to eat. I want to eat a bowl of noodles. I like this. I haven't eaten for more than three months. "

Yuling said, "OK, we'll go."

Yuling pushed the wheelchair out of the room. Uncle Tang walked behind and locked the door. Uncle Tang lives on the fifth floor, and Yuling presses the elevator.

In the elevator, Uncle Tang asked his son in a wheelchair, "Do you want to eat noodles? Are you happy that Dad took you to eat noodles? "

Tang Bao grinned and drooled again. Uncle Tang took out the paper towel and wiped it clean. He knew that his son would not answer him. His son has become a vegetable, and Tang Bao will not respond to what Uncle Tang said.

Tang Bao is the only son of Uncle Tang. Tang Bao is not clever. He didn't study well at school and didn't go to college. Tang Bao likes cars. As a child, Tang Bao asked his parents to buy a toy car for him as soon as he saw it.

When Tang Bao turned eighteen, he learned his driver's license. Because of his good driving skills, he became a driver of a hotel owner in the second year after he got his driver's license.

The boss is very kind to Tang Bao. He not only pays him a high salary, but also gives him a year-end bonus during the Chinese New Year, according to the hotel manager's standard.

Tang Bao's daughter-in-law Yuling is a country girl. At the age of nineteen, she went to work in a hotel. One day, Tang Bao came back from work with her boss, walked to the door of the hotel and saw Yuling stagger down.

The boss asked Tang Bao to stop, and Tang Bao stopped beside Yuling.

When the boss and Tang Bao got off the bus, Yuling was in a coma. Two people carried Yuling to the car. The boss asked Tang Bao to take Yuling to the hospital.

Yuling passed out because of hypoglycemia and stayed in the hospital for two days. Tang Bao took care of Yuling in the hospital these two days. Yuling didn't let her parents know that she was in a coma, for fear that her parents would worry.

It was these two days that two young people developed feelings and got married when they reached marriageable age.

Tang Bao's father is an accountant in a factory and his mother is a primary school teacher. They live in an old building of more than 70 square meters. After Tang Bao and Yuling got married, it was inconvenient for a family of four to live together. They bought a new building of more than 90 square meters by stages, and the young couple moved there.

Tang Bao's parents gave him a down payment, and they didn't have much savings. In those two years, Tang Bao's grandparents were hospitalized and spent a lot of money, but the money didn't save the two old people. They died the same year.

After Tang Bao and Yuling got married, they didn't want to have children right away. They considered it for two years. Having children is not only a heavy burden, but also affects work.

Five years ago, Yuling was pregnant unexpectedly, and Yuling was reluctant to abort, so she gave birth to a child, a daughter.

If Tang Bao hadn't had an accident, Uncle Tang's life would have been very pleasant and Yuling's life would have been very happy, but the unexpected arrival changed everything.

More than a year ago, Tang Bao took his boss and family to travel abroad, and a car accident happened on the way. The boss lost a leg, and his wife, like Tang Bao, stayed in the intensive care unit for more than ten days. Although her life was saved, she became a vegetable and the boss's daughter died.

The responsibility lies entirely with the truck driver. After negotiation, the owner of the truck compensated Tang Bao 800,000 yuan and the boss 500,000 yuan at one time.

Uncle Tang, Yuling and the boss can actually score more points with the truck owner, but the truck driver is also injured, and the owner has to sympathize with the driver's family. He is not rich either. Although the truck is insured, part of it is paid by the owner himself.

The boss offered to get less points, and his conditions allowed him to get less points.

After Yuling got 800,000 yuan, she paid the mortgage first, and she saved the rest for her children. Tang Bao has become a vegetable. She didn't want to abandon Tang Bao, but her money was limited. She must consider the long-term interests of her children.

Yuling's mother-in-law is in poor health. Maybe her son became a vegetable, which made the old man very sad. She can't get sick. During that time, she was tortured by Yuling and Uncle Tang.

Uncle Tang and Yuling not only have to take care of patients, but also take care of Tang Bao, a vegetable. There is also a child who can't live without people. They are busy every day.

Uncle Tang's hair turned white soon, and Yuling was haggard because of poor rest.

Ten days ago, Yuling's mother-in-law passed away

At his wife's funeral, Uncle Tang said, "You left because you felt sorry for Yuling and me."

The death of his wife really lightened the burden on Uncle Tang and Yuling. Uncle Tang lives in an old building, and he takes care of his vegetative son. Yuling lives in her own home and takes care of the children.

Yuling will go to the hotel to work during the day. When the mother-in-law is not ill in bed, she can help with the children. Since her mother-in-law became ill, Yuling sent her children to a full-time kindergarten. She was reluctant to spend money and found a cheaper one, delivering it early and taking it late.

This morning, Uncle Tang got up and cooked a little millet porridge. He ate a small bowl and fed his son Tang a few mouthfuls. He thought that after his son fell asleep, he went out safely.

After the death of his wife, the funeral expenses of more than 20,000 yuan have not been recovered. Uncle Tang came to the social security bureau, and there were many people handling business. At ten o'clock, he finished the collection procedure and waited for the money to be transferred to his bank card.

When Uncle Tang came home, he saw his daughter-in-law, Yuling, and his son who fell from the bed to the ground.

In the past, Tang Bao remained motionless in bed. At this time, Tang Bao suddenly fell out of bed. Uncle Tang doesn't know whether it's a good thing or a bad thing, and his heart is uneasy.

Uncle Tang and Yuling were busy until eleven o'clock before they cleaned up their son. Then, they go out to eat noodles.

There is a noodle restaurant not far from the entrance of the community. Uncle Tang used to come to eat noodles. The owner of the noodle restaurant is a foreigner, who is good at doing business and is warm and polite to the guests.

Uncle Tang hasn't been to the noodle restaurant since the family changed one crop after another. The last time he came to eat noodles was more than three months ago. One day, he went to the hospital to get medicine for his wife. I passed the noodle restaurant on my way back. The noodle shop owner greeted Uncle Tang: "Old Tang, it's my treat today, and I'll give you a bowl of noodles for free."

Uncle Tang doesn't want to go into the noodle restaurant. The son of a vegetable at home is waiting for him to take care of him, and so is his wife. There are many places to spend money at home. Old Tang Can is reluctant to spend money to eat noodles outside, and there are leftovers in the morning. He wants to cook a meal.

The noodle shop owner pulled Lao Tang in, brought him a big bowl of noodles and added two eggs.

Uncle Tang wants to give money after eating. The noodle shop owner said, "I told you, it's my treat today, not your money."

The noodle shop owner knows what happened at Uncle Tang's house. He is distressed by Uncle Tang, who has lost a lot of weight.

From then on, Uncle Tang walked around the noodle restaurant. He was afraid that the noodle shop owner would invite him to eat noodles. Uncle Tang was stubborn for most of his life, and suddenly he was pitied. Although he thanked others, he was also very sad.

In a few days, his wife's funeral expenses will be credited to the bank card. When he has some money, he wants to treat himself, come and eat noodles, and just take his son out for some air. Although his son is unconscious, Uncle Tang thinks it may be good for him to come out and see the sunshine.

There is a drugstore next to the noodle restaurant. Wheelchairs are available at the pharmacy. When passing by the drugstore, Uncle Tang said to his daughter-in-law, "Yuling, I want to change Tang Bao's wheelchair. Now this wheelchair is not easy to use. "

Yuling said: "I also feel that pushing is too laborious. If you want to change it, change it to a better one. "

Yuling pushed her husband away and walked into the drugstore.

Uncle Tang pointed to his favorite wheelchair and said to Yuling, "What do you think of this wheelchair? More than 2,000 yuan, if you think it is not bad, I want to buy a wheelchair after your mother-in-law's funeral expenses come down in a few days. "

Yuling looked at the wheelchair. She felt that the quality was ok, so she nodded.

Two people pushing Tang Bao left the pharmacy and entered the flat pavilion.

The noodle shop owner greeted Uncle Tang when he saw him. He looked at Tang Bao in a wheelchair and said to Uncle Tang, "The child seems to have put on a little weight, and his eyes seem to be a little more energetic than before. You take good care of them. "

Uncle Tang said: "I have no other requirements, as long as I can hear my son call me dad again in my lifetime, I will be satisfied."

The noodle shop owner said, "Your request is not too much, and it will come true. When the child is young, from the moment he is born, we parents are looking forward to hearing the child call us parents. To this end, we wash diapers for children and smell their feces. Maybe one day, they will call us parents. You just have to go through this procedure again, and one day the child will call you dad. "

Uncle Tang was cried by the noodle shop owner's words, and he was both happy and sad.

Uncle Tang has a picture of his son when he was very young.

After eating noodles, Uncle Tang has to pay. The noodle shop owner said, "Forget it, old chap. You and your daughter-in-law only ate two bowls of noodles. I can support you for a few dollars. "

However, Uncle Tang still gave the money to the noodle shop owner, and it was not easy for him to run the business from morning till night.

Leaving the noodle restaurant and coming outside, Uncle Tang said to his daughter-in-law, "Go to work. I can get Tang Bao home without your help. "

Yuling said, "Dad, I don't have to go to work today. Today is Father's Day. Our boss gave his employees a day off. Everyone goes home to visit their parents. Let's take Tang Bao to the park. "

There is a small park not far away. Uncle Tang often pushes his son around the park, where the scenery is good.

Uncle Tang and Yuling pushed Tang Bao to the park. It was almost dawn. A middle-aged man limped along with a wheelchair.

The middle-aged man was none other than the owner of Yuling Hotel, pushing his wife.

Yuling used to greet her boss, who also saw Yuling and Uncle Tang, and Tang Bao in a wheelchair.

Tang Bao used to be his driver. The young man is honest and healthy. Unexpectedly, Tang Bao has become like this because of traveling with his family. Every time he looks back, he blames himself and regrets.

The boss came to say hello to Uncle Tang, and Uncle Tang agreed. Uncle Tang also feels sorry for his boss. If my son Tang Bao had reacted quickly before the accident, the accident could have been avoided, and it would not have brought trouble to the boss, leaving his wife in a vegetative state and his daughter missing.

Uncle Tang pushes his son, the boss pushes his wife, and Yuling follows. They walked into the park.

They talked while walking, discussing how to awaken the consciousness of vegetative people, make them return to normal, or at least recall some things before.

They are all working hard for this.

They talked in the park for over an hour and then went home. Two vegetarians can't sit in wheelchairs for long.

Uncle Tang's daughter-in-law lives in a community with me. Sometimes I can see Uncle Tang pushing his son to the door of our community.

Not long ago, I saw Uncle Tang and Yuling pushing Tang Bao and Tang Bao in a brand-new wheelchair, which made people feel refreshed.

The three of them are enjoying the cool under the tree, and Uncle Tang is telling a story to his son. I used to greet them, and Yuling told me happily that Tang Bao sometimes reacted.

I followed suit and walked to Tang Bao. I called him, and Tang Bao grinned, and his mouth watered again.

Uncle Tang wiped his son's saliva clean. Tang Bao looked at Uncle Tang and smiled again, just like a newborn baby.

Uncle Tang saw his son smile, and he smiled more brightly than his son.

What is the saddest true story of providing for the aged that you have ever heard?

In his later years, Uncle Tang failed to support himself like other old people. On the contrary, he has to take care of his seriously ill wife and the son of a vegetable. His parents died one after another, which is a disaster.

Uncle Tang's later years may make people feel sad, but I still know something about Uncle Tang. He never complained about what happened to him. Although he is tired, he is still optimistic. He continued to carry his weight. He believes that everything he encounters now will pass. Tomorrow, my son will get better and call him "dad" again.

It is the expectation of many elderly people to have a sense of security and happiness. If real life does not meet their expectations, some old people will be pessimistic and sad, making the originally unsatisfactory days more and more gloomy because of depression.

Is pessimism useful? useless

Can sadness change the status quo? I can't.

The only thing that can make you happy is not to lose confidence in life, not to lose hope for tomorrow, and not to give up trying for the present.

Expectation may not be realized for various reasons, but in order to look forward to the process of hard work, isn't it a kind of happiness itself?

There are many kinds of happiness. Children and grandchildren around their knees, family harmony is a kind of happiness. Carefree life is also a kind of happiness, but we should not forget that there is a kind of happiness with more connotation, that is, like Uncle Tang, we feel the meaning of happiness in suffering and find happiness hidden in suffering in our daily work and busyness. Such happiness can overcome suffering, and of course it can dispel the so-called sadness.

No matter what age, it is not easy at any age. It doesn't matter that people are old, lose their strong physique, lose their beautiful life and lose their carefree life. These losses have little impact. As long as they are still full of expectations for tomorrow and strive to realize their expectations, the elderly can live a wonderful, valuable and meaningful life.

Uncle Tang is an admirable elder. From him, I saw the unique character and unyielding character of an old man.