Infatuated Tang Hede: I have loved Leslie Cheung for 37 years, and I am unmarried and childless at the age of 6/kloc-0. What is the current situation?

Tang Hede updated a photo with Leslie Cheung on the social platform, and wrote: "/kloc-You left us 0/7 years ago, but I know that you miss us all the time in another country, especially at this grim moment, you will encourage us and cheer for us. I hope everyone will cheer up and work together to get through this epidemic. "

Tang Hede, the man behind Leslie Cheung, spent half his life writing a fairy tale love with ghosts! The two have been working together for more than 20 years, from youth to charm to old age. Everything is changing, but the only constant is him in my heart!

Although sad and beautiful love can't grow old together, his love has crossed time and space and continued in another world, which also shows the world that his infatuation will never change!

Know each other and love each other.

From 65438 to 0959, Tang Hede was born in a wealthy family. He was the man of the hour in the school during his study, served as the monitor and Chinese editor of the school magazine "Exploring Li", and was also a basketball player after school. He is tall and handsome, and he is the "Prince Charming" in the eyes of many girls.

After graduating from a prestigious school, he worked as an executive in Standard Chartered Bank, and won many praises in the industry for his excellent professional quality and high personal accomplishment. Many people praised him as "hard and clean".

He used to be a leading figure in the financial field with a bright future, but he entered the public eye because of his love affair with Leslie Cheung!

Speaking of his story with Leslie Cheung, they met in childhood. They both like fighting, but they are strangers. But as the two grew up, this relationship faded.

Sometimes fate is so wonderful that when you look back, you rewrite each other's lives. 1982 65438+On February 9th, my 2 6-year-old brother met Tang Hede, 24, at the Regent Hotel, and the friends chatted happily, so two good friends who had not seen each other for a long time had an intersection again.

That year, Leslie Cheung experienced the most difficult moment in his life. After studying abroad, I just started in the entertainment circle, and I am still just a little-known teenager. On the set, he was always discriminated against and teased, and even when filming, he was black and blue. When singing, the audience was merciless and booed constantly.

In the dead of night, Leslie Cheung would hide in the bathroom and cry quietly. The pressure of life, career and economy made him breathless. When he was down and out, he was penniless. When Tang Hede learned about his recent situation, he lent all his accumulated salary and bonus to Leslie Cheung without thinking, helping him tide over the difficulties.

But he had a hard time himself during that time. In order not to make Leslie Cheung feel guilty, he ate the cheapest lunch in months in private.

Leslie Cheung didn't know about it until he became famous, and he had mixed feelings: "There are countless people who add icing on the cake, but how many can really help in the snow?" At that time, I had no fame and fortune, and only he could treat me like this. How can such a person not be moved and cherish me? "

In other ways, Tang Hede also gave Leslie Cheung a lot of comfort. Whenever he is anxious, impatient, or in self-doubt, Tang Hede will calmly analyze for him, weigh the pros and cons, and help him to alleviate negative emotions. Emotionally, he can be his listener. Even in the emotional trough when Leslie Cheung was in conflict with his girlfriend, Tang Hede always accompanied his brother and patiently enlightened him.

Such friendship has gradually become a unique love in getting along.

Later, my brother became more and more famous and went out more and more frequently, but it must be Tang Hede who picked him up every time. Once it rained heavily and the car couldn't stop at the door. Tang Hede got off in the rain, delivered the umbrella to his brother, and then ran back to the car to adjust the car and stopped in front of his brother.

1984, Leslie Cheung became an instant hit with a song "Monica", but there was a rift between them. According to Leslie Cheung's interview in the future, the reason he gave was: "Because there are always people watching."

In Hong Kong in the 1990s, the folk customs were uncivilized, and homosexuality was generally unacceptable in social concepts. The double pressure from society and family caused them to break up briefly. Many years later, Leslie Cheung recalled this breakup: while listening to music, she drove and cried all the way home.

Finally, the two found that they couldn't let go of each other, so they got back together. They all know that it is not easy to maintain this relationship, but it is worth it!

Since then, their relationship has entered a relatively stable stage. My brother's career is in full swing, but he repeatedly said in the interview that he would retire and leave the entertainment circle in a few years.

1990, my 33-year-old brother is willing to give up his thriving career and go to Canada to protect his love. Tang Hede also applied to the bank to work in Canada. She and her brother are in a dilemma.

In a foreign country, the two spent the best time in their lives, away from the criticism and noise of the world. One room, two people eat three meals a year, drink tea, grow flowers and read books, and live a paradise-like life.

After a long time, this kind of life made Leslie Cheung feel a little bored, and the sound of returning to music was "ready to move" in his heart. Tang Hede knew his brother's thoughts and went back to Hong Kong with him without saying anything.

After returning to Hong Kong, Leslie Cheung plunged into the entertainment circle after a long absence. And Tang Hede will always stand behind him silently, helping him manage his daily life, arranging his schedule and solving problems for him. ...

Something unfortunate happened. Once, when Leslie Cheung was filming in Argentina, he was unfortunately infected with amoeba. This kind of bacteria is extremely fierce and will be fatal if you are not careful. In the hospital bed, what Leslie Cheung can't worry about is the future life of his mother and Tang Hede.

Fortunately, Leslie Cheung survived a near miss! But this incident made Leslie Cheung realize that he should not make Tang Hede famous again.

So, at the concert of 1997, my brother publicly confessed: "This song is dedicated to my mother and another love of my life, Tang Hede!"

After the romance was announced, their every move was under the "surveillance" of the media.

Once, just after they walked out of the cinema, my brother found paparazzi taking pictures. Tang Hede was about to walk away, but Leslie Cheung held his hand tightly and left smartly. After this picture was reported, it touched countless people.

They call it "the greatest hand-holding in this century".

Separate from each other

I used to think that the most beautiful love in the world was like this, but in the end it was played by the hand of fate.

The accident began in 2002, when Leslie Cheung realized that something was wrong with him. When Tang Hede found out, he immediately took him to see a doctor.

Therefore, this is endogenous depression.

This disease has dealt a great blow to Leslie Cheung. He once cried to his sister Look Ping Cheung, "Sister, I have such a successful career, a lover and so many friends. I don't want anything. Why did I get this disease? "

At that moment, he thought of death.

In other people's comments, Tang Hede is a very gentle and elegant person who never gets angry in front of others, but his brother is his exception.

After my brother got depressed, he once committed suicide by taking medicine. Fortunately, he was rescued in time. In normal times, Tang Hede will speak softly to calm his brother's mood. But this time, he shouted at the top of his voice: "We live together and die together!" "

My brother was frightened by his reaction. When he was bent on dying, another person silently suffered more pain. After a long time, my brother actively cooperated with the treatment and wanted to continue to live.

Because of illness, my brother's mood fluctuated greatly and refused to take medicine when he was depressed. Tang Hede had no choice but to ask the doctor to prescribe more medicine for Leslie Cheung.

At that time, the doctor disagreed, indicating that the drug overdose was harmful to the body.

Tang Hede had to confess to the doctor that in order to coax Leslie Cheung into taking medicine, he always took a bite first, and then Leslie Cheung took it.

The doctor was surprised. Later, with Tang Hede's assurance, the doctor gave him more medicine.

The illness made Leslie Cheung unbearable, and his temperament was capricious. Tang Hede took care of him carefully, but he couldn't help crying for him in the bathroom.

Tang Hede knew that Leslie Cheung liked to play mahjong, so he went to learn it and found someone to play mahjong around his brother. But my brother was a little out of control, and many people left halfway. Tang Hede went door to door to apologize to others, hoping to be understood.

Although Tang Hede was careful, the tragedy happened.

On April 1 2003, Leslie Cheung made an appointment with a friend, but unfortunately, this friend couldn't come because of something temporary.

When a person was alone, Leslie Cheung's illness broke out again. After writing a farewell letter, he ended the life of absolute beauty with a leap.

An appointment with Tang Hede, he can't make it. Without that jump, he would play badminton with Tang Hede at 7 pm.

Unfortunately, I can't wait any longer!

Before the funeral, Tang Hede stayed in front of Leslie Cheung's coffin for seven days and seven nights. Handsome Tang Hede suddenly aged a few years, and he needed help to make it through the whole funeral.

"Son, don't go ..."

At the moment when the body was cremated, he cried ...

The elegiac couplet he gave to his younger brother read: "Forever, ever; Sometimes both will end, and this kind of love is endless. "

A long time later, when the reporter asked Tang Hede, "Do you still love your brother at this moment?"

Tang Hede, who kept calm, suddenly raised his voice and became very excited: "This moment? Why is it just this moment? "

For him, he fell in love with his brother from 1983, and love lasted the rest of his life! Whether my brother is alive or dead, his love never wavers for a moment. He loved before, now and in the future.

After Leslie Cheung's death, Tang Hede became his spokesman and finished his unfinished business.

He customized a wax figure for his brother and went to his award ceremony to accept his honor. He attended a friend's funeral instead of his brother, took care of his family instead of his brother, and attended banquets of his elders and friends. He established the Leslie Cheung Scholarship for him at the Hong Kong Academy for Performing Arts. It is said that I won't go home after 1 1 in the evening because I don't want to worry about him, even though he is no longer around. ...

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People who are left behind on the road are the most bitter, but Tang Sheng never wanted to get out of this relationship, and he didn't love anyone for the rest of his life. He really never married, and he was still alone until he was old!

Maybe after he loves Leslie Cheung, he won't love anyone!

May there be years to look back and grow old!